For People Who Don't Understand Why Someone Would Identify As A Bi Lesbian Here Is A List Of Why They'd

for people who don't understand why someone would identify as a bi lesbian here is a list of why they'd do it:

• individuals who use the sam(split attraction model), for example, someone who is a biromantic lesbian or someone who is a lesbiromantic bisexual or even someone who is an aro bi lesbian(they don't feel romantic attraction but feel sexual attraction towards women and feel tertiary attraction towards more than one gender for example).

• individuals who are both bi and lesbian due to being abro or a system.

• people who prioritize their attraction to women.

• questioning between both or being in the gray area between both.

• being duosexual or otherwise amplusic.

• being mspec but not being attracted to men so you still use the "non-men attracted to non-men" definition.

• attraction to multigender people causing one to consider their attraction to both lesbian and mspec.

• lesbians who are attracted to nonbinary people who aren't comfortable being included in lesbian attraction so they fall in the bi part instead.

• being lesbiflexible.

however the reason behind why someone uses a certain label is none of your business and it doesn't harm you cause how tf does someone's happiness harm you?

So what makes a bi-lesbian? Why not just be bi?

what makes a bi lesbian is being both bi and lesbian. the reason not to "just be bi" is that we're also lesbian.

Also the whole "polyamorous people are FORCING their sick lifestyle down my THROAT by literally just existing and asking to not be treated like garbage and gain some legal protections" thing is a) not true and b) genuinely just "legalizing gay marriage is forcing Me, A Heterosexual, to get gay married"-style homophobia repackaged for a group it's acceptable to punch down at on here. You all make me sick

lesbians who say "fuck terfs <3" and then immediately say "trans mascs, men and trans women who are also men can't be butches/lesbians/dykes" and "i'm a lesbian, men dni" and also viciously try to remove trans women who are also men, transmascs & men from lesbian, sapphic and dyke spaces...

hey guess what: you're terfs. try again.

i love xenogenders because they reveal how arbitrary gender symbolism already is.

we can say ‘my gender is space, cool rocks, and curiosity.’ 👽

is that any more strange than saying, ‘femininity is empathy, flowers, and the color pink’? 🌸

gender is what we make of it, whether practical, picturesque, poetry or prose <3 💖

can we stop stealing ‘coercively assigned [sex] at birth’ from intersex people

we already have afab and amab. let intersex people have some fucking terminology for the horrific ways that society enforces strict gender norms upon them. let intersex people have terminology for forced surgeries and hormone therapy and all the other things society forces upon them

stop stealing intersex terminology. just because we are trans doesn’t mean we can steal the words that intersex people are using for their unique and specific experiences