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It was the sea that made her always restless.

daily clicks for palestine

donate to feed refugees in rafah

spreadsheet of gofundmes to evacuate families

fundraiser for esims for gaza

orgs to donate to

Forever walking the tightrope between being a hopeless romantic and a strong, independent woman.

Either this book was way too simple or it went completely over my head. I know what’s more likely.

Life is starting to feel like this song.

P.S. Song recommendations are welcome.

Read something on here along the lines of “You’re not a real reader if you read overhyped YA books like those written by Colleen Hoover.”

Remind me again, who is the authority on acknowledging “real” readers?

Would love to discuss this with a “real” reader who wouldn’t touch a CoHo book with a ten-foot pole and get to know their take on Homer, Iliad and Aeneid, which they’ve obviously been reading since utero.

People’s preferences are their business and you’re an entitled, self- important “real” reader with an excuse to pass unwarranted judgement on someone who just wants to read a freaking book. All I know is that an actual “real” reader, is just concerned about their ever growing pile of TBRs.

I’d rather read Wattpad fanfic written for pre-teens than judge someone for trying to take on or enjoy reading, even if it is CoHo. But maybe it’s just me.

This woman is a treasure trove of sarcasm.

Just some food for thought.

Some people think the worst place to be in is the “friend zone “, being in an unrequited state where you love someone but they don’t love you more than as a friend. While I do sympathize with people struggling with this, been there, done that, believe me, no one talks about what it is like to be on the other side of the spectrum.

Being the one they’re in love with, and being unable to reciprocate their feelings. The guilt that comes with feeling like you’re stringing them along and giving them false hope when you’re just being a good friend. Overthinking your words and actions so it’s not construed as something more than friendship. Acknowledging their great qualities and thinking how it would be so easy if you could just love them like they love you. Struggling to maintain boundaries when all you want to do is open up to them completely. People coming up to you and trying to get you to change your mind about giving your relationship a shot.

It’s painful, heartbreaking and so confusing.

While being in the friend zone sucks for many reasons, it doesn’t feel particularly good knowing you’ve unintentionally put someone there.

The duality of this situation is very intriguing.

Sometimes I get sad but then I change my wallpaper and it passes.

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a relationship with a good flirt to roast ratio >>>>

Every petal whispers rebirth 🌸🍒

Spring date idea 🌸🌿

A rainy morning, museum or bookstore or library and after the rain subsides, sitting under the sun at an outdoor cafe.

Black cat girlfriend 🤝 Golden retriever boyfriend

No because getting punished by my body for not getting pregnant is not very girls’ girl of her.

‘I made us a new Pinterest board’ gf 🥂 ‘I made us a new Spotify playlist’ bf

Dan Levy is a gem 💎 ✨

My toxic trait is reading a “sad” book and getting “sad” when the plot starts to get “sad”.

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Have high hopes for this one 📚

Just a silly person and her silly obsession with making silly pictures into silly souvenirs.

Winter Wonderland ❄️☃️

Into the woods 🌲

If I ever recommend a song, book or movie, it's never just a recommendation.

slow mornings⛅🍃☕

Slow mornings are a luxury. Getting to sip your tea or coffee while gazing out of your window without any rush is a luxury. Making your breakfast with soft music playing in the background is a luxury. Taking a walk outside to soak in the sunlight is a luxury. It really is the little things.