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-------------🌿Trying IS Enough🌿-----------

Even in the times you Don't Want To do something you know you need to, know there is strength in having that power to do it. To set your mind fixed and make it happen. That determination and fortitude speaks for a lot., and if thats not reason enough, you'll have My respect for doing what you need to do for you.

Whatever value that may hold.

It's not fun, it's not easy or courageous in feeling. It's often ugly and debilitating and makes us feel stuck more than the thoughts before it leading to the awareness of those needs. I know. I know it sucks and often times it hurts and hurts, but it does t get better if you're not trying for you,.even if you don't feel others may be trying as hard, this is YOUR life. You don't just have the choice but the Duty to take control of it for you.

No one wants to do the hard thing. Sometimes we haven't any other choice than to not and make it worse or to find the courage in ourselves to do it. I am ready to provide you that. To talk to you as long as it takes to help motivate you for good for you.

Fighting has many different forms. Make your fight about winning for you. I will always support you in it.

I will always be PROUD of you for trying because giving 100 percent won't look the same any day to the next. Some days it'll look like 20 in comparison and THATS OKAY.

You give it your best, and I will defend it to the death. No one can ask more than that of you. Not religion, not parents, not yourself. You are good in Trying. You don't have to SUCCEED to be Good.

You Dont Have To Succeed To Be Good.

I am proud of you for trying. Always. 🌿

He helped me put the quilt together

bony and bruised but not for you

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----------------🌿Self Worth🌿--------------

When we have a knack to hold experience after experience that every time we're shown kindness, given attention, shown a feigned sense of empathy, handed flowers and it burns to the ground,. We come to one of two conclusions. It was our fault, or it was theirs., and after a point, whichever or both, you grow a lack of trust. In your judgment, in your willingness to try again and experience that familiar hurt. That sting. That Stab.

Wanna know why it hurts? You wouldn't have done it to them like that, or not as knowingly without change.

Pain is pain. To love is to be vulnerable. You can not have it genuine without both those and this truth. Even the right fit will make mistakes.

The point is, we are all ALWAYS learning. Always. No matter whether we wait for the right algorithm in a pause as the world continues around us or we go with a pace to maintain as the blood flows. Don't let what happened at that time and that time and that time stop you from experiencing today how you want, need, and deserve. Today isn't that time. You never ever ever have to go back to that time or that time..

Today is your time, and you Can discover new times with someone you deserve. Someone who is patient with your heart. Someone who doesn't see the big picture after it's gone because they're celebrating all of it in the very real excitement and sometimes struggle to balance that within the Now. With you in the Now.

There is so much beauty in the world.

Like Beaches? Humans go there.

Like Nature and Parks? Humans go there.

Like Bookstores and Libraries? Humans go there.

Sure, youll have your crabgrass laden field time and again,. Don't give up chasing those wildflower hills. The open skies. The laughter. The whimsy. The love of love.

Don't give up on your heart because someone else couldn't hold it right. Take the time you need to evaluate how you want it held now, and take the time you need with someone to discover their intentions and efforts to match. If they can't wait, if they can't do the time to LEARN and find the things about you that make you brilliant in YOUR eyes., if they can't take the time to appreciate what makes you you, or for you to have time seeing them for who they are, Really Who they are.. Let them go have less somewhere else. They aren't ready for you. Not the other way around. Small morals don't lead big dreams. Small excuses will never set sail to the ocean of big possibilities.

Your Pace Is Your Own, but Set One.

Even if that means you're not into dating again, even if that means you're not into Boys™️ again.

Even if you decide to wait x time before you feel you've allowed yourself adequate time to be okay for you and prioritize you and get back to you, before even considering another Dip into that big ocean.. just do what makes you feel Happy. You deserve that. At the end of every day. With or without someone.

You deserve to be Happy. Because you Do.

No excuses about back when, not deserving..this and that..no.

Today is today, and you are still Living Organic Matter. That deserves peace, sunlight, hydration, a chance to journal to the moon in night,. The right PH in the soil of your planted surroundings.

You deserve that, because painful as summer was, then,. In scortching your earth and wilting your leaves.. fall is upon you,. A chance to shake off and drop all the weight of those things,. Let them fall as leaves do to the ground and fertilize the life again after frost has thawed and melted in. Give the warmth a chance to hold your shimmer a while., to see it feed your roots.

Breathe. Today, you're here for you. 🌿

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__________💔•About Healing•❤️__________

Healing isnt just getting well so you can go make the same mistakes. I think a lot of you worry about that; "Well, what's the point when I always end up here?", because if you keep ending up here, you haven't healed what needed to be for that standard, that routine or path to change.

Healing is a form of self education. Learning what you need to know better what's good for you and what isn't. A COMPASS. You are establishing a compass of morality and emotional stability so you can see the bad before it sees you. So in the event you're approached by that same old spicy distracting allure, you have a sense of worth that overweighs the lust of a temporarily good thing in a cute human saying the right thing having seen the weakness of opportunity. You ARE stronger than that weakness, but it's an active Choice to seek that strength and use it to your advantage.

For you. Heal. For your safety. Heal. For your heart. Heal. For your soul. Heal.

There's a lot of really awful hate in this world, for no reason at all.. practice love.

Practice Love, especially with yourself. It sounds fucking stupid, psych nonsense or squishy cushion fairytale...

I love you, Tumblr Stranger.

I love you, Tumblr Mutual.

I love you, Followers and Friends.

If people can hate for no reason, why not lead by example Loving without one?

The world is a scary place. It's even scarier when you feel alone. Know that this is a safe space, Always. And you are Never Alone. 🌿