Yeah Sorry I Cant Come Over Tonight I'm Busy

yeah sorry i cant come over tonight i'm busy

can't forget how she fakeclaimed us for being a system and having a fictionkin host.

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Aspen made a new video, fakeclaiming and using slurs again, what else is new? Link!

I mean, yeah, people are sometimes shit on massively for being fictionkin, but it's still not the same as being a system and you can also be fictionkin AND a system at the same time, holy shit??? Wow, who would've guessed????

And there's the slur she just loves to use, hmmmm.

I mean, cool, glad you support fictionkinning, but you also made fun of the ones who "take it too far" and call them "schizo"???? So like..???? I'm not seeing the actual support here.

No, I don't think every single person on TikTok and Tumblr who claims to have DID really does, but that's none of my fucking business and that's between them and their therapist. I am not their therapist, I am not a professional, and even professionals cannot accurately declare whether or not someone is a system from a fucking tumblr post or tiktok video. I'm still going to show them support instead of fakeclaiming them like a little bitch.

You're still being ableist and just sounds like you don't support systems who have a lot of fictives. You are chronically online, girlie pop.

Hey if someone is a spiritual kinnie and you want to go and tell them “Ackshually you’re delusional, those memories aren’t real you’re just a system” because they have kin memories (unprompted!) you’re an asshole!

-from a SYSTEM who has a host with spiritual kin memories, thanks!

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so. the people who were banned in aspencord have all been unbanned.

we rejoined for a little while, and for a bit it was as if nothing changed.

yet a lot has changed.

we don't forgive Aspen even despite her acknowledgement that it was shitty. yes she's never acknowledged her actions were bad before so that is a step in the right direction, but even then our forgiveness isn't so easily earned. even if she was unmedicated during that time, I won't believe she's so easily changed. I mean, yeah, I do shitty things while unmedicated too, but it's not like I'm proud of it and I own up and do better.

she hurt us. and when we were back in the server we were anxious constantly. not because of the usual "worrying we'll miss out on the fun", but because of what happened before. I could feel us slipping into the conforming mindset that we had during our initial time there and it was agony.

so we couldn't stay. we couldn't stay despite the fact we mostly just wanted to collect screenshots of shitty behavior. we couldn't even do that much.

we feared so much for possible dogpiling that conversations were almost agonizing. knowing what's happened in the past, and seeing people who participated in dogpiling us now being in the mod team, we were fearful.

we're never going back. we never intend to go back. even if Aspen herself apologized with all her heart and soul and personally invited us back, we will never go back.

our forgiveness isn't earned that easily and never will be.

dude this exactly. when I was back in the server for a short period of time I saw this come up in regards to another system who I honestly think is pretty cool. they kept like harassing them "change your pfp we don't allow faceclaims of real people" and it was shit like this that made us snap and leave before more shit hit the fan.

I get the no roleplay thing in some cases, but for us at least, a lot of our fictives joke about source related events and in some cases have a high level of attachment to their source and memories. I know for a fact malachite in particular makes jokes about his source memories all the time, because that's just what he does. he's relatively source separated, yeah, but he still feels a decent amount of attachment.

and the faceclaim thing mentioning celebrities just feels like fucking bullshit to me. I get it when it's people you personally know like don't do that but celebrities???? people who AREN'T systems do that shit all the time why aren't we allowed to do it?

I'm convinced Aspen hates introjects which is fucking rich coming from her of all people.

The rule I had to change my pfp and everyone was aggressive sounding used no tone tags until they realised

????

I get that the whole no roleplaying thing, but she calls other systems with a lot of introjects "LARPers" anyway, soooo.

Also "expected to have some level of source separation", how about you just don't try to force another system into doing what you want them to do? I do support source separation 100% and alters are not their source, but forcing an alter from a system that isn't yours into changing their name or PFP (unless it's offensive) is just... weird? Though when it comes to PFP's, I'd personally be super uncomfortable if someone used a faceclaim of my body for their alter, but I'm just an average joe out in the wild.

I know this is likely a risky thing to post that alters themselves should choose whether or not to change their name, but that is my honest opinion about it.

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