There's No Wrong Way To Be Queer. I Received Some Anons Today Forgetting That, So Instead Of Giving Them

There's no wrong way to be queer. I received some anons today forgetting that, so instead of giving them more than a nod in ways of attention, I am here to remind you that:

if you're a lesbian who's a man/gay for men as a woman

if you use xenopronouns and/or neopronouns

if you date men as a lesbian or if you date as a loveless aro (or as an aro in general)

if you have sex as an ace person

if you abstain from sex and dating

etcetera, your experience is real. Your experience is supported here, and by people who are worth your time. People who say you can't do something while using a certain label, or mock your experiences, are not worth your time. There are horrible things directed at the queer community, and it's important to surround yourself with people who support YOU for YOU. The LGBTQ community seems to have issues with that but trust me when I say there are people who will support you.

I find myself upset when someone comes into my inbox to spread their closeminded views, but I remind myself that I am not doing anything wrong by existing. Neither are you. Keep being a staple of the queer experience. <2

If you think Jade was just an "incubator" and had no autonomy or choice, block me please.

Some of y'all are all about pro-choice, women's rights and bodily autonomy until a woman makes an active choice that you personally do not like. Please look at yourself in the mirror and see how weird you're being.

You're the ones being misogynistic, not the quest, and it was not preaching pro-life or whatever the fuck y'all are insisting on.

Have y'all forgotten one of the lead directors is a woman? Who would've overseen this quest being made? Have you forgotten how pro-women and generally pro-autonomy this game always has been? Literally the biggest point they make constantly is autonomy being ripped away is bad, it's horror, this quest is a tragedy, not a horror.

That is all.

i felt very pushed to stop identifying as a nonbinary/genderqueer person and instead identify as a man and a woman so i "could" identify as a lesbian & a gay man by the other queer people i knew, for a while, and then i realized that's just reinventing the binary. i'm allowed to be a genderqueer butch lesbian & gay bear. i'm allowed to be a genderqueer whatever the hell i want. fuck reinventing boxes to shove people into they're not real fags & dykes can do whatever the fuck we want

agender people are the coolest! I am "definitely" not biased at all :P

happy pride to agender people! when i first came out as trans, agender was an identity i was drawn to alongside neutrois, and genderqueer, because it was one of the first 'non binary' identities i found, that didn't ascribe to the male-female gender binary that's forced on to us. agender is a really versatile identity that can apply to a lot of people who have similar but unique experiences. it's a very cool identity that rarely gets talked about, but agender identities deserves attention. having DID, i have some alters who are agender. let's uplift folks on this spectrum of identity this month!

How are people who are anti pan/omni/ply even remotely regarded as anything but ridiculous? It’s like the final boss of anti mspec les/gay stupidity. What a fuckin joke.

@leonkennedyisgender

the whole "autistic people don't understand sex or sexual topics" infantilization thing is even funnier considering that most of the autists i know are about fifty times hornier than the average person and about a billion times weirder about it