DE Added Me Into The Game And Thought I Wouldn't Notice

DE added me into the game and thought I wouldn't notice

So he's got ADHD, got it.

I never feel more alienated from the trans community in general and other transfems in particular than when I see people going after "TMEs" and "transandrophobia truthers" and so on, ostensibly in the name of defending people like me. Or derailing their own perfectly decent points about transmisogyny by including some irrelevant, gratuitous dig at transmascs (or intersex people or "theyFABs" or whoever the target of the day is).

What the fuck are you doing? Do you get some kind of rush from deflecting TERFisms onto targets you've decided are more deserving or privileged than yourselves? What are you trying to achieve? If you want to do some weird 70s separatism tribute act then please just go your own way already and leave everyone else alone.

As a transfem who is not a woman and doesn't pass as one I don't trust "TMA/TME" proponents to have my back in any case. And I'm much more wary of engaging with trans spaces than I used to be because of this bullshit.

I'm so sorry to everyone who has been fucked over by this tendency. I hope we can get over it. Can we please collectively at least try to get a grip and maybe rethink how we're doing things a little bit? Because unless the goal really is self-cannibalization it's not working is it?

I couldn't not reblog this

Tankian Miku is real and can hurt you

"never mind “the man haters” to refer to a group of feminists you don't like. page one of the anti-sjw playbook" (previous tag) hot take, but using feminism as an excuse to hate men isn't very feminist, and it's immature in the very least. I know, it shocked me too... when I was 13 years old. Additionally, you are just grasping for straws now with your 'pick a random feminine name and you'll get a trans woman who has been harangued over this discourse' comment. Is that supposed to be a gotcha? Pack it up, guys, you can't use feminine names in your post about people who misuse 'transmisogyny' now because somewhere a trans woman has that name so you're singling her out! Get over yourself.

This conversation is over, as you're just losing your shit over nothing. Thanks for the engagement💀

we need to take the word 'transmisogyny' away from the man hating crowd because they literally have no idea what it means.

No Patricia, speaking about transandrophobia as something that exists isn't transmisogyny. That's like a TERF calling everyone who disagrees with her a sexist. If anything, denying the existence of transandrophobia is transandrophobic, because you're actively denying the existence of real issues and erasing struggles because you don't think the issues are actually that bad because 'women have it worse'. It's not a competition. Active attempts to erase the struggles of a group sounds like textbook bigotry to me, it's exactly what transphobic cis people do.

you tell a bitch to keep their cat indoors and suddenly their town is the first in the world to have eradicated every viral, bacterial and parasitic disease, they invented completely harmless cars, dogs and predators dont exist either but somehow the native songbird population is fine since the cats in this place have lost the hunting instinct, there's no pollutants or toxic plants and human cruelty has ceased to exist. and mr mittens has a chip in his brain that will explode if he doesnt go outside 10 hours of the day