I'm So Fucking Frustrated That Every Time I Look Up Stuff Like 'plus Sized Top Surgery' On Google I Still

I'm so fucking frustrated that every time I look up stuff like 'plus sized top surgery' on google I still get skinny twinks shoved down my throat and making me feel worse about my results that don't fucking look like that (shocker: fat person has different results!). I'm trying to see if a revision will actually help or if I'm just stuck with what I have because of my body type, and I can't fucking do that because suddenly fat transmascs don't exist! fucking christ give me a break

saw an anti good faith blog getting confused as to why TERFs were following them and. dear. my sweet, sweet, stranger on the internet. you may not realize it yet, but by policing queer people and their identities, you have one foot in the TERF door. TERFs love segregating the queer community... and here you are, dear one, doing the shit that TERFs eat right up.

TERF has become so synonymous with bad person (which is true btw, not claiming it isn't) that people stopped thinking critically about what TERF actually means. Like I just blocked a blog that had TERFs and lesbian men in their DNI. You are still vulnerable for falling into TERF thinking if you keep a strict binary thinking about sexuality and can't imagine multigender people IDing in contractionary ways or trans people having a different relationship with sexuality than you think they should have based on their gender. Just saying TERFs DNI does not make you immune for their thinking or automatically right about your opinions about trans people. Yes, TERFs are bad people, but people have to start thinking critically about what it means to be a TERF...

'I think it's very disrespectful to both, really. Whether it's Indian or black, I think it's very disrespectful to both' okay, so Trump is willing to misconstrue what it means to be biracial in order to leverage himself. That's super fucking insulting to me, and I hope it's insulting to other biracial Americans. If you don't give a fuck about trans or disabled people, at least you can acknowledge the guy's strategic racism. In the very least. Because this guy doesn't care about minorities, he doesn't even care about his fanbase of white people who, to me, appear to be mostly cishet and abled with some exceptions. If there are people who still go on to vote for this scumbag, that says a lot about them as people. They're self-entitled, stupid individuals who really think Trump has their interests in mind, and that's all that matters to them is that their own interests are being acknowledged and upheld... no matter how many people are harmed in the process. Sickening.

so real

Made this in like a minute out of frustration over a couple memories. Is this anything

The world would be a better place if cis people understood the concepts of gender euphoria and dysphoria as things that everyone experiences, not just trans people.

The woman is not wearing makeup and a short skirt for male attention. She is doing that because it gives her gender euphoria as a woman.

On a more serious note, if a man doesn't feel comfortable to wear a pink shirt; eat a pink ice cream; listen to a female singer who is popular; express his feelings; drink fruity juices; hold his girlfriend's purse; say certain words; act with kindness towards his loved ones; apologize; deescalate conflict; watch a movie enjoyed by women; play with a small and fluffy animal; because he thinks these things make him look girly, less manly or "nor a real man", that is no way to live. That man is experiencing intense levels of gender dysphoria and he needs help.

I feel like people only look at men like that and laugh and call them sexist. Some of them might be and they need to be called out for it, but I feel like gender dysphoria is very common in cis men and we should be calling it what it is.

A cis man doesn't "feel uncomfortable" when he paints his nails for the first time, he gets dysphoric. Just like the cis woman who wears jeans during summer because she forgot to shave her legs and is embarassed about it.

Dysphoria happens to cis people, All. The. Time. Pass the message on.

'why is my lesbianism not beautiful enough for you?' because you have the audacity to use masculine language for yourself. You're not 'non-man' enough to them. :/

these people would implode upon speaking to the butch community. Like the wider community, not just the diet TERFs and downright TERF butches. Because being a man or transmasculine is fairly common in those spaces from my understanding, and even if it's not it still happens.

idk sometimes when I look at lesbian communities, especially ones for lesbian teens, and see "anyone who identifies as a man do not interact" or "lesboys aren't welcomed," I just feel quite a bit of sadness because I'm just like these people. I'm a lesbian teenager who's had gay relations, that my mother disapproves of, that I feel much grief and yearning for. I see myself in lesbian art and writing and music. I still live as a teen girl. I'm just a nonbinary, bigender person. but because I use the word "boy" in some way to describe myself (not even man), I can't relate to those other people. I can't be part of your groups. I can't engage with your art. It's for the real lesbians only- cis, binary, or completely "fem aligned" nonbinary lesbians. I would say they wouldn't treat me the same if they actually knew me in real life, but considering I got the worst shit from people irl despite knowing how much I've been hurt for it, maybe that wouldn't happen either. idk, I just wonder why I'm not enough. why am I so different even when I say I'm just like you? why is my lesbianism not beautiful enough for you?