Thank You For The Support Darling @missdrarrydawn And Taking A Stand With Me.

Thank you for the support darling @missdrarrydawn and taking a stand with me.

SHIP AND LET SHIP

Guys oh my god, what the fuck is going on here holy shit—

Aren't we all one community ffs?

Isn't it enough that most of the wider HP fandom dislikes us already?

Are we really going to send each other death threats over fictional characters' sex positions?

They don't even exist are you fucking kidding me—

I just saw everything that went down with @sorry-i-ship-drarry and I am so upset because oh my god this went too far, I mean fucking death threats—

Anyways sorry, all this rant just to say I'm going to spread #shipandletship as requested because oh my god PLEASE let's finally just ship and let ship.

We'll all be much happier for it.

Brb I'm actually in tears 😭@weirdvibeskid thank you so so so much

I didn't want to involve you or your friends in something like that. That sounds like an accusation... Anyway, I'm sorry. I just wanted to talk. If you don't want to, you don't have to respond to these messages. You said you could always be approached for support, which I did. I just wanted to talk to someone about the injustice and the hatred that we Draco!bottom stans now receive. Purposely triggering innocent fans out of revenge is a very low thing to do. I hope you agree with in.

Hey love, I'm sorry for having taking this lightly before.

Before I begin, here's a few thing the blogger ( in the pictures) must know, I like your content, it's great and it's thoroughly amusing but i must say the way your approach is, it's nothing more than offensive. I've remained in much fandoms to finally know that drarry is a problematic fandom but not a toxic one, however what you're trying to do is trying to impose your ideals/preferences over others which isn't right. I've said this 3 times before this and I'll say this again,

EVERYONE HAVE LIBERTY TO CHOOSE, PREFER, SHIP WHATEVER AND WHOEVER THEY WANT WITHOUT HAVING TO BE CALLED OUT.

It is our choice to prefer who tops and who bottoms but frankly it doesn't even matter, it's all canon but I have to call you on the way you're addressed it in the offensive way by calling people " pussies " for shipping, preferring or saying what's on their mind. The trigger is not you posting anything or you talking about what you choose, it's the offensive way you've bought it in front and I'm sorry for the way you've immaturely tried to make it everyone's problem for preferring what they prefer. I like your guts, I admire them for making an exclusive bottom harry blog but at what stake ? At the stake of recieving hate everyday ?!! It should be a safe place for everyone and following your words, it creates nothing more but emotions that are filled with despise . I apologize but I will not, and will not let other's support your way of imposing your preference as though taking an oath to ship nothing but bottom harry. You have to understand that people have choices, that they have other preferences. If you're talking about canonically Draco being a fitter Dom just because how's he in the books, let me excuse you , drarry is a fanon and it's not in the books, it's our choice to deviate from the books. And I understand you were triggered by someone else for saying nasty things for that matter, but you cannot make everyone accountable or making everyone follow your lead. I'm sorry if my word's hurt you but I could not have silently stood and watched you doing whatever it was you were trying to do. I really am sorry for my harshness.

Coming to the anon, I am much more apologetic to you, you have not accused me of anything. I must confess that I was Shocked and sort of weirded out when you reached out but I am glad you did and even after my last post you did sent an ask again because otherwise I would not have taken a stand. I am glad that you approached me and you did the right thing, I'm always here to support you in thick and thin for what's right. And yes my inbox still remains open for anything and I will support you, wholeheartedly will.

Side note- I do not intend on bringing hate into the community or make this a toxic fandom. If anyone needs to talk to me personally, I am more than willing to. Please do not hate them, or the anon !!! Please do not.

( there's more )

Tagging only for support because I know I need it, the community needs it, but do not, never support me without feeling i am Right here, do not support me if you think I'm wrong, please do not, I request you - @drarryboosterclub @avenueofesc @drarrywords @thehopelessromanticsworld @dearly-devoted-dawdler @maladaptiveprince @textrovert-01 @drarrily-we-row-along @writing5ever @thebusyfangirl @draco-and-harry-malfoy-pottah @thebiwholivedhp @phoebedelia @lyssarose @booksarealwaysbettersworlds-blo @malfoydusk @malfoytookmyheart @weirdvibeskid @daddiesdrarryy @drarrycandy @unsuspicious-nobody @upon-poppyhills @rockingrobin69 @drarrymicrofic @drarryjustbecause @kattarcherlife @krystalliumm @kpoper13things @shipoftheseuss @sunflowerishdolphin ( please, I request you, do not support me until you haven't talked with me or if you think there's more to the story)

And I'm prepared to be hated upon now...

2 things before I get down to actually replying this ask

1. I'm still keeping the account holders name confidential because I don't want to be the reason there's hate here

2. Please, please I request do not trample me after This..

Now getting to the crux of it, I am sorry you have to go through this, and whoever the Anon Before this had addressed this to me. I'm extremely sorry for how you've been triggered.. but I must say, I must put emphasis on ITS PEOPLE'S CHOICES. Whoever you ship, whoever you stan, whomever you prefer as top, whoever you prefer as bottom is entirely your own personal preference, which have nothing to do with anyone else. I wish I could go deeper and help you out with whatever it is but I don't, I strongly don't want to be meddled into something like this which have too much dramatics. You can call me out for keeping the blogger confidential but frankly all because this is drarry community and even if there's hate, I need you to know there's love here too. We're all sitting on the same boat, some at the front, some at the back, but at the end of the day, we are on the same waters, in the same boat. I'm sorry for everything you have to go through but I can't,and I don't want to be the reason Someone tramples me or my friends or any of the rest of my mutual blogger's and i don't Want to be the reason someone hates me or hates my mutuals. Making an exclusive blog as such takes guts which I may never have, but I will strongly say, the way it's been addressed back isn't right.

I hope I've tried my best to convey whatever I had in mind and you understood it too. It takes a lot in me to say this, but please, I say it in the kindest ways possible, do not meddle me into Dramatics as such. You can always text me personally and I promise to always reply, but this, I request you not to drag me into this or for that matter any of my mutuals.

All the love.

You are very very very talented. 🤍

@drarrywords will you STOPPPPP

YOU KNOW MY INBOX IS ALREADY FLOODING.

You're gonna need some ass whooping 😭

☹ why are you asking to stop..

Why are you making me cry... 😭😭😭.

I accept now, I do. Thank you so so so so much × Infinity

Can I ask for your kind attention ?!

I drafted this three Times and here it is. If you haven't noticed, there's a lot of drama that went down last night and as of this morning on my account based on- THIS.

And here's my final words:

Does sex positions really matter !? My beloved friend last night (@weirdvibeskid ) said some really good things about there being bigger problems in world than top and bottom and instead of focusing on that we're focusing on top and bottom harry or not... Really ? Is it really that necessary ?

And even if so you feel like that, tell me one thing, do we really have to segregate the fandom in two different parts based on whether harry tops or bottom! I thought we're all in the same boat but seems like few are rowing their own boats on the periphery throwing fishes at us. ( Terrible metaphor ik). I don't think it is relevant but I don't know how many Times I've said it and how many more Times I'll say this but SHIP AND LET SHIP. this is a preference, and not something that is supposed to go down in history books. Shall I make you all lead into my way and tell you to follow nothing but top harry and call you out when you don't !!?? Is it fair !? Of course not but then why do some people think it's their job to bring everyone under one umbrella. Please the roads too big and the umbrella too small and it's raining, let someone take shelter under others umbrella.

Previously I had mentioned that @the-boy-who-bottomed had sadly called Someone out and had hated upon . Here's the entire thing, they were commented on with death threat's for shipping top Draco.. really death threat's ? That bad!? And their replies were childish, yes but they were not Directed towards the entire otherwise fandom. The mistake was that they didn't mention it was for haters, the comments they gave back and yes we felt attacked, even me. But again, I've spoken to them and it's sorted that they believe too in SHIP AND LET SHIP and that they are guilty of their mistake for making others feel as if they're attacked. Their intentions are nothing but pure but yes they played fire with fire and that's out context.Please people, understand/bear with me. They too are supportive of ship and let ship but perhaps their approach was different than mine.

Coming to the original problem... What's hate without love right?! But I call it why must there be hate when there's no love. If you can't love someone, you have no right to hate them. If there's Anyone who suffers the most are content creators. If you don't like their content or its not pleasing to you, please, I mean it in the kindest ways possible, please leave it, don't like it, don't do anything but don't spread hate. They created a post for the community, for entertainment and rather than admiring whatever they're doing, why do you have give them threats for it to not be pleasant for you ?! We content creators make everything for pleasure, an escape from reality, to break free from the cycle life is, to grow/improve our talent, to give something people can laugh at, to give something people can enjoy, then why must there be hate? Why! Why does it matter what we believe in and why does it matter what you believe in. It's not religion, the world is not divided into Catholics and protestants, or Americans and Europeans or east Asian and South Asian. There diversity and we should be grateful that there is. Then why must there be hate..

We're all a part of a small community, can't we Live harmoniously without imposing on anyone our beliefs, and if you do so " you're a Karen " and I'd rather be a Susan than a Karen.

This goes for every bottom harry and bottom draco fan, stop for the love of harry potter, for Merlin's sake, allow people to have their own ships, to have their own preferences, to have their own fan created loves stories, to have their own head canons. Stop spreading hate, stop shading on people, stop doing this because it's not only but morally unjustified.

For anyone who developed hate for @the-boy-who-bottomed, here's something that'll make you feel better about them. Even I fought with them, I had arguments and here's what we've landed upon. Our opinions are same, but they've lost their voice and I take the blame of having created hatred towards them..I'm sorry.

I request everyone to forgive them, I'm saying this again, blame me for this, but do not make them feel guilty about everything they did, they already do so.

And for anyone who wants to say " we didn't ask you to take matters in your own hands" I know you didn't. I know you didn't. I had to. And for that matter, I hate politics, I hate voicing my opinions in fear and because of lack of confidence and I must tell this is all I have thought about my entire day, because I'm still Afraid and this have taken on me.

At last after having seen everything go down, here's a tiny request that people don't have to oblige to, it's not some sort of movement or anything but for support, I'd be cherished if you can add tags #shipandletship for a while till it cools down a little in the posts you make for a day or two to support this. No pressure of course. I wouldn't even mind if nobody does it.

For everyone who supported me, I hope you can see and forgive them the way I have. I'd be very happy if you can and help make this a better place.

And this one is specifically for that anon who bought this up, I hope you're doing fine and I hope we can talk this through, I would love to. I also hope you understand everything and you can find it in your big heart to forgive them.

I swear this is the last time I'm adding you all, there's no one who feels more guilty than me for dragging everyone into this @drarrywords @rockingrobin69 @lyssarose @railmeharrypotter @draco-and-harry-malfoy-pottah @littlebodybigheartttt @weirdvibeskid @flakeyakey @drarryboosterclub @avenueofesc @slytherinnbitch @thehopelessromanticsworld @dearly-devoted-dawdler @maladaptiveprince @textrovert-01 @drarrily-we-row-along @writing5ever @thebusyfangirl @thebiwholivedhp @malfoydusk @malfoytookmyheart @unsuspicious-nobody @upon-poppyhills @kattarcherlife @krystalliumm @sunflowerishdolphin @drarry-top-draco-is-superior @topdraco-bottomharry , @hmupotter @pwrtty @wherearetherats , @lostmykiliel , @thoughtfulllamashepherdherring

I'm still here if you need to talk.

All the love.