sunray242 - Half dead
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I Find It So Interesting The Way People Are So Different

I find it so interesting the way people are so different

Like I just read a post where a mother was having a hard conversation with her son in the car and she said having hard conversations in the car is great because you're in close proximity and can't really leave but don't have to look at each other (and yes she asked her kid if he wanted to have the conversation before jumping in and the conversation went really well)

Now, I personally love this idea. I think it works and I have had many hard conversations with my parents in the car and I find it easier to talk in the car, and it seemed about half the people in the comments agreed with me and her parenting style.

But, half of the comments disagreed. Some harder than others. One person had the tone of "I can't BELIEVE someone thinks this is good parenting!!! I would NEVER do this with my child!!! How DARE YOU!!" and to be frank I don't get it. I don't get why people don't like this way of parenting

But I also do get it. I get that some people might have had bad times in these circumstances or their parents tried to do this but didn't give the kid a choice or were forceful about it. Then I get why you wouldn't like it.

But th main thing I don't get is when people don't get that people are different. Like the person mentioned before was so forceful about this being bad parenting and such but maybe that's what works for them. The same things that work for me might not work for you but you can't just push all of your beliefs on everyone who believes something different than you or had different experiences than you did.


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