Hey As A Local Aroace, I Want To Specify Something.

hey as a local aroace, i want to specify something.

were no strangers to love. you know the rules and so do i (do i). a full commitments what im thinking of. you wouldnt get this from any other guy. i just wanna tell you how im feeling. gotta make you understand. never gonna give you up. never gonna let you down. never gonna run around and desert you. never gonna make you cry. never gonna say goodbye. never gonna tell a lie and hurt you

Yknow the thing with being Aroace is that sometimes people don't recognise that as queer. I be talking with some acquaintances and they ask if I have a boyfriend/if me and X are together. My response is usually "No, I'm Aroace and not interested in relationships" and then I see them in a week and they ask the same question again.

It's frustrating, that just because I'm not gay/lesbian/bi/pan that my identity can be brushed off like it doesn't matter, that just because I'm not the aforementioned identities I'm not queer.

Don't send me condolences for being Aroace, I'm not broken or in the wrong for being aspec, that's just who I am. I won't "find the right one" because I'm a romance repulsed Aroace person.

That's why aspec representation is so important, so that people like those can learn that aspec identities ARE valid and DESERVE respect! The A doesn't stand for ally!

(no hate to gay/lesbian/bi/pan folks, dw :] )

Polites was the therapist friend before therapy was a thing.

thanks Dana for the new TREMENDOUS information

edit: basically during Momocon Dana confirmed that Hunter was created as a toddler, which implies he's been witnessing the horrors since he was something like 3