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we need more of this in the queer community
im multigender, genderfluid, and gay in literally every single direction. and i like to be open about that part of myself [online, where its safe]. it actually makes me more proud of my queer identity when people get mad at me over it. if i find out that you hate lesboys? well, im gonna make sure im loud about that part of my identity around you. ill change my icon, share art, put it on my profile, etc. same for turigirl, gaybian, bi-gay, whatever. i dont identify as those things purely out of spite, but i sure as hell am loud and proud of who i am out of spite.
exist out of spite
i've found motivation in hatred, i know that sounds stupid. but exist out of spite. changing your identity to fit other's comfort is just you letting them kick you down. i had a friend i'd known for a while ditch me out of the blue for me not caring if someone was a lesboy. now i identify as a lesboy myself. and every time i talk about it, i feel i'm rubbing it in their face. i love existing, and i love confusing people. you cannot deconstruct gender without doing the same to attractions. i love male lesbians, and i love female gays. not just transmasc folks, but anyone who identifies as male and lesbian. my toxic trait is idgaf.
my toxic trait is idgaf