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mspec lesbians, mspec gays, lesboys, turigirls, straightbians, straightcians and other mspec monos, as well as, afab transfems, amab transmasc and other "controversial" labels are valid as fuck!
y'all should understand that genderfluid, multigender, varioriented and intersex people exist and their experiences towards their sexuality/romantic orientation and their gender is unique and should be celebrated not hated.
if you don't understand any of these labels, educate yourself and please be kind to people. in the end of the day we are all human beings and we all deserve to be respected.
bye my dear humans :)
The first split attraction model (SAM) was made in 1879 by Karl Heinrich Ulrichs and described bisexuality as well as heteroromantic homosexuality. There’s literally a whole ass wikipedia article on this. Let’s use our brains here a bit, okay?
unpopular opinion time: just because someone is queer doesn't mean they are automatically a good person.
If your account isn’t a safe space for Mspec Lesbians, Lesboys, Mspec Gays, Turigirls, Straight Lesbians, Straight Gays, Cis Trans folks, AFAB TransFems, AMAB TransMascs, Mspec Straights, etc. then don’t call it a “LGBTQIA+ safe space”.
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!
"wait but how can that work ?" instead of asking how their queer identity works, and how can it be valid, maybe ask them their experiences. ask how it feels to themself being a mspec mono, or lesboy, or turigirl, or whatever. instead of getting angry at queer identities which dont fit your standard, just perhaps let it go and ask them as a person what their identity means to them. stop policing identities and open up your mind a little.
so I got an 'anti good faith identities' blog recommended to me. Tumblr, what makes you think I, a user of good faith identities and hardcore supporter of those who do, want to see something like that on my dash? I mean, hey, it's a free report and block in the very least, but I'm here to enjoy my stay thank you very much.
:33 < realised there isnt any flag for mspec gaybians so i made one !1!!1!
:33 < youcan call it mspec gay and lesbian, mspec gaybian, ectect :3
:33 < designed by me !! ^_^ :33
:33 < happy mspec lesbian visibility week take this silly :3
we need more of this in the queer community
im multigender, genderfluid, and gay in literally every single direction. and i like to be open about that part of myself [online, where its safe]. it actually makes me more proud of my queer identity when people get mad at me over it. if i find out that you hate lesboys? well, im gonna make sure im loud about that part of my identity around you. ill change my icon, share art, put it on my profile, etc. same for turigirl, gaybian, bi-gay, whatever. i dont identify as those things purely out of spite, but i sure as hell am loud and proud of who i am out of spite.
exist out of spite
i've found motivation in hatred, i know that sounds stupid. but exist out of spite. changing your identity to fit other's comfort is just you letting them kick you down. i had a friend i'd known for a while ditch me out of the blue for me not caring if someone was a lesboy. now i identify as a lesboy myself. and every time i talk about it, i feel i'm rubbing it in their face. i love existing, and i love confusing people. you cannot deconstruct gender without doing the same to attractions. i love male lesbians, and i love female gays. not just transmasc folks, but anyone who identifies as male and lesbian. my toxic trait is idgaf.
my toxic trait is idgaf