I Need Advice - Tumblr Posts

hi, so this is my first ever post but I really wanted to post about this. I'm alex and I'm a trans guy, and I'm currently so excited because I'm getting my first ever binder on Monday!!!

I just wanted to come on here and ask if anyone has any tips for binders? I just want to make sure I'm binding safely because I want to be able to get top surgery in the future so I don't wanna fuck up my breast tissue too badly lol

Lately I have been in doubt about my sexuality, I have always known that I like women AND men, but lately I have only thought about girls, the "men" of my interest are fictitious so, I am still in doubt, does anyone know how to get rid of the doubt???

writers block is a complete bitch and I hate it with a deep passion 😐 I want to post on a schedule but my brain doesn’t ever follow through. I don’t know how these writers go to school, homework, work, and write like give me advice

I have a date on Saturday and I feel like I'm dying of neveres

Cause even though I really like this guy how tf does anyone do dates, how do they enjoy the waiting I feel like I'm dying like I just wanna fast forward to the date

Y’all help, I’m trying out for our schools musical (hadestown) and I’m hoping for Persephone but I have no clue what to sing for auditions

Like I’m not allowed to do something from the musical but I don’t know what else to do, and my friend was like: do something from ✨a✨ musical, and that’s so fucking unhelpful because I can’t think of any songs from other musicals that give Persephone vibes

Think I’m gonna start a new series for all my 2 followers called “racist/sexist/homophobic things my parents do that they don’t realize is kinda bad”

Examples: we have family coming over, me, a female, is asked to vacuum the whole house. My brother and dad sit and watch tv while the women are cleaning.

Bonus! My grandpa likes to threaten to throw me in the pool and/or tickle me even though I hate it. I flinch every time he comes near me now. My parents tell me to let him tease me because I’m his only granddaughter, and apparently that makes it okay. He’s not like this with the grandsons.

DnD DM's of tumblr: how tf do you come up with a campaign. I have no idea what I'm doing plz help

Hey, sooo I have a problem.

I'm having some trouble getting motivated to post on Tumblr. When I post a bunch of small drawings I end up posting like twice every day because I enjoy drawing small things more than I do actual comics. But the issue is I have a lot of ideas to draw actual lengthy comics, however when I tell myself that I shouldn't post anything else until I have my comic page finished (or even started) I find myself unmotivated to draw. Then I end up not posting for weeks.

I'm actually begging for help here. Idk if this is an ADHD thing or what but please comment what I should do.

SOMEONE HELP I’M PANICKING

OK SO I ADMIN A LGBT+ ACCOUNT ON INSTAGRAM (@THE.TRANSBITCHES JUST IN CASE YOU WANNA FOLLOW) AND I POSTED A PHOTO AND I SEE THAT SOMEONE FOLLOWED US SO I CHECK IT OUT AND IT’S MY MOTHER! I HAVEN’T TOLD HER THAT I’M GENDERFLUID YET AND IT SAYS IT IN THE BIO THAT I AM SO NOW IDK WHAT TO DO!!?! IT SAYS THAT I’M GENDERFLUID RIGHT BY MY NAME (MY PREFERRED NAME, WHICH IS LEO) AND IDK IF SHE KNOWS THAT I LIKE TO GO BY THE NAME LEO AND NOW I’M JUST FREAKING OUT AD I’M JUST ASDFGHJKLZXCVBNMQWERTYUIOP  I NEED ASSISTANCE I WANNA CRY

“Now tell me how did all my dreams turn to nightmares;

How did I lose it when I was right there?”

Can someone give me advice please? What to do if your dreams are slipping out of your fingers right before your own eyes, and it’s your own fault?

Hey, so small thing to add onto the disability post I have, anyone know what household items I could possibly use to make standing easier? Or to make breathing easier? Or to just make being conscious easier?

I need some advice...

Okay so... I think I might be bigender. This means I could switch between male and female at any time. The thing is... I don't know if my parents are going to understand it. They say that you could only decide if your LGBT+ if you are over 40 years old. I really relate to Alex Fierro from Magnums Chase and want to be who i am. What do i do?

Hey yall :) I just wanted some advice, please don’t read any further if you get triggered by mentions of ED or Weight or anything like that, love yall.

I’m really conflicted rn, I don’t know who to talk to about this bc I’m scared my friends or family will think I’m overreacting

It’s no big deal, but it rubbed me the wrong way

I was walking to school after grabbing some lunch with my friends and Bf, we were talking about what food to get after school bc we were doing extra work and most likely wouldn’t be able to get home for a proper dinner.

and I jokingly said “I can finish a McDonald’s cheeseburger in a few bites”

I was laughing and my friend were laughing along too, it was obvious I was exaggerating, but my boyfriend goes

“I can tell”

And I laughed it off at the time, I already wasn’t having a great day, he had been making a few other jabs at me throughout the day, so I elected to ignore it, we went back to school, I felt humiliated, so I just plugged in my headphones, picked at a bag of crisps and did some work on my laptop.

I didn’t know how to confront it earlier, but I was so upset, to the point that I was uncomfortable around him, I was making spelling mistakes on my course work, to which he made a few more jabs at me for.

I’ve had an ed for the past 4 years, im slightly chubby, I don’t know how to go about this without looking like I’m playing it up or making myself look like a victim.

I know this isn’t what I usually post, sorry.

Imma gonna vent here hehe

Y'know how it hurts to choose between your found family and your beloved partner?

WELL, I CAN'T CHOOSE BETWEEN THEM.

I CAN'T. I JUST CAN'T.

I'D RATHER SACRIFICE MY OWN LIFE AND DREAM TO BECOME A MAN THAN CHOOSING BETWEEN MY LOVED ONES.

For context:

My partner wants to fly to Serbia and live here with me, and they said that they can't stay in Saint Petersburg, where my found family lives because my partner had some conflicts with certain person from my found family.

I don't want to abandon any of them and I just can't choose.

Any tips on how to deal with this sh1t???

And WIBTA, if I sacrifice all of them and delete all my social media so they can't find me anywhere and can't push me for that decision? (Yes, I do have that thought in mind rn, and I WISH I DIDN'T.)

UPD: Yes, we did break up. Yes, I've chosen my found family. I don't want someone to manipulate me into dumping everyone I feel attached for except for them. IM. NOT. YOUR. TOY. AND. NEVER. WILL. BE.

NEVER force your couple into dumping everyone else just to please your own ego.