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'Never Depend On A Man' is WOUNDED FEMININE ENERGY
Women with this mindset are afraid to be vulnerable and trust a man.
Maybe because of past heartbreak or because they didn’t have their own father as a trustworthy person in their lives.
But this mindset is unhealthy. Especially for women who desire relationships and love.
We must heal if we want a good relationship.
The healthy feminine is comfortable being vulnerable but also has boundaries.
You have to trust each other to have a healthy, harmonious relationship.
A woman is supposed to be able to depend on and trust her man.
Let’s face facts, women are the vulnerable ones especially during pregnancy and when we have kids. So we seek out security from our men.
It is natural and healthy to trust a man for security, resources and financially.
Our culture today has taught women to be too independent and it’s actually unhealthy for us. We stay guarded in relationships and attract the wrong men as a result. Men we cannot trust who leave us to struggle alone with the kids.
You cannot attract a healthy, masculine, dependable man if you do not believe you can trust or depend on a man.
Working like a Woman is not inferior to Working like a Man ♡
Not wanting to 'work hard' is not a setback.
There's nothing wrong with choosing your peace over a hard job...
Women were CREATED to live soft lives. We are not supposed to work hard like men.
Society has taught women to work against our nature and now women are waking up and creating movements like the 'lazy' girl job movement(Which I love)
Lazy girl jobs aren't really lazy when it comes to women but because society is so used to comparing women to men it is now seen as lazy.
It's only lazy in comparison(to men)
I've noticed how lazy girl jobs are the FEMININE jobs(Receptionist, WFH, low stress jobs)
We should stop striving to work like men because we are not men. So many of these women get burned out living primarily masculine lives instead of feminine lives.
#Worklikeawoman ♡
I prefer a soft life.
I don’t want to work hard like men.
I want to work easy like a woman.
I want a soft, easier, peaceful life. Not a hard one.
Soft Life Affirmations ♡
Soft Girl Era TIPS 🌸
• Don’t work too hard. Choose a easier, simple job. • Rest when you need to. This is not being lazy. • Romanticize your life. Light some candles or decorate your space • Prioritize your peace. Let go of things or people who bring you chaos
Soft Life Era Affirmations🌸
I don’t want to do anything. I don’t have dreams or aspirations… Just to lay in my bed all day and do nothing. Maybe take a stroll in the park. Smoke some weed and get high… I’m an artist so I love to paint, create things with my hands. But I feel no obligatory obsession toward these things. They are just there to pass the time when I feel it needs passing. I guess I do have a dream, and that dream is to be cared for, so that I don’t have to worry my pretty little head about much. Maybe go back to school for a bit, get a degree. But not for much, just to say I have. Cause mostly I just want an easy life. One filled with leisure and simple pleasures.🍃🌸🪐