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🎀The Dream Girl Sorority🎀
Being on a femininity/ level up/ hypergamy journey can get lonely. Most of the time, we don't start out with like-minded friends.
A few of us got inspired by 2pretty/ Kelsey and her old dreamgirl sorority to make our own server (as that one is no longer active).
The server is full of amazing women, helpful advice and stories of all the ups and down that accompany us on this journey.
If you'd like to join, here's the link!
🎀Stay safe🎀
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in black and white, my sisters will always be my favourite muses. thankful for the magic that is them 🪽
with love,
B 🫀
Feminine Tip: REST
Don't feel guilty for resting when you need to.
You're not lazy or a bum for prioritizing rest over work & being productive when you need it. No need to feel guilty.
Fun Fact: Women need 8-10 hours of sleep every night ♡
Listen to your body when it's time to rest.
The Soft Life isn't just a silly, unrealistic, fantasy world. Life can be easy, abundant & enjoyable.
Just believe & Align yourself ♡
Soft Life Affirmations
Working like a Woman is not inferior to Working like a Man ♡
Not wanting to 'work hard' is not a setback.
There's nothing wrong with choosing your peace over a hard job...
Women were CREATED to live soft lives. We are not supposed to work hard like men.
Society has taught women to work against our nature and now women are waking up and creating movements like the 'lazy' girl job movement(Which I love)
Lazy girl jobs aren't really lazy when it comes to women but because society is so used to comparing women to men it is now seen as lazy.
It's only lazy in comparison(to men)
I've noticed how lazy girl jobs are the FEMININE jobs(Receptionist, WFH, low stress jobs)
We should stop striving to work like men because we are not men. So many of these women get burned out living primarily masculine lives instead of feminine lives.
#Worklikeawoman ♡
𝘈 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘢𝘸𝘢𝘪𝘵𝘴 ♡
Soft Girl Era TIPS 🌸
• Don’t work too hard. Choose a easier, simple job. • Rest when you need to. This is not being lazy. • Romanticize your life. Light some candles or decorate your space • Prioritize your peace. Let go of things or people who bring you chaos
Soft Life Era Affirmations🌸
4 Tips to living a Soft Girl Life 🤍
Benefits of living a Soft Life
Slowing down & Being Present. We often rush through life leaving us no time to enjoy it.
Less Stress. You will start to make decisions that make your life easier not harder when you switch your mindset to a soft lifestyle.
Increased Feminine Energy. You will feel happier & more at peace.
How to live a Soft Girl Life 🤍
Self care can look like this 😴🌙💐
But it can also look like this. Sometimes the best way to care for your spirit is to surround yourself with people who love you and pour into you 🤍✨
So I encourage you, while you’re cultivating and curating your individual self-care routines, to remember to leave time and room for cultivating life-giving friendships.
✨ BOOKS TO READ ON YOUR HYPERGAMOUS JOURNEY!!! ✨
Stop using the pandemic as an excuse for not developing yourself and your social skills! It’s important to devote time to studying hypergamy, dating, social climbing, and femininity. Although nothing can replace real life interactions, reading books on the topic can help prime you for when these interactions do occur. Devote yourself to daily reading, ladies.
DATING
- Shanghai Girls: Uncensored & Unsentimental: How Formidable Chinese Women Use Their Feminity to Get Wealth and Power, By Lan Lan
- Ho Tactics, by G.L. Lambert
- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako
- How To Marry The Rich, by Ginie Sayles
FEMININITY
- Simply Irresistible, by Ellen T. White
- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako
SEDUCTION
- The Book of Courtesans, by Susan Griffin
- The Art of Seduction, by Robert Green
- The Seduction Mystique, by Ginie Sayles
- The Geisha Secret, by Hanako
SOCIAL CLIMBING
- Meet the Rich, by Ginie Sayles
- The Old Money Book: How To Live Better While Spending Less, by Byron Tully
- Modern Etiquette Made Easy, by Myka Meier
- The Social Climbers Bible, Dirk Wittenborn
You’re so sweet.♡
방법이 없어 달리 달리 🔞🇰🇷🌈
KBBQ is the best after-shoot meal. 🥩🍚
