Nmlnm - Tumblr Posts
When my mum asks about my friends (how they are etc.) she says:
"How are your girls?"
She says the same thing when she is asking me if I listen to female singers at some moment:
"You're listening to your girls, don't you?"
It seems like maybe she knows that I'm gay, but I also think that she completly don't know about that
(Btw, in polish "girl" and "girlfriend" is the same word)
Hey, lesbians of Tumblr who are also fans of an specific male artist. Do you guys also have a song made by him that is mostly perceived as straight, but you're just like: No. You're lesbian. You're a nmlnm song, now, because I said so.
Because, eh, um... you know, I- Erhm... *Profusely sweating in “Lady In My Life” by Michael Jackson.*
(/hj /genq)
Identity police alert!! Mind your own fucking business
Mx, the only things I said were:
Men (and by that, I mean BINARY MEN, since y'all love to twist it) cannot be lesbians, and saying that they can is actually fucking dangerous to lesbians, because we are constantly forced into and invalidated for not liking men. Saying that binary men can be lesbians is only reinforcing that and do no good for the lesbian community at all.
Multigender people don't fit into the gender binary. We are nonbinary exactly because we don't identify exclusively and/or 100% with male nor female. We are included inside the nonbinary umbrella by definition, there is no fucking denying that. We are not binary men nor binary women. Point. Blank. Period.
Long story short, if you're gonna call me “Identity police” for saying literal FACTS about both the lesbian and the multigender community, go on. But do note that labels DO mean something, because they have history, they have definitions and erasing them meanings makes no good for the community.
Happy pride month guys! Hope everyone is doing well :)
okay bitch we gotta have a talk. in this post i won't even say my view on said discourse so you can see how serious i am about respecting cultures and knowing when to stop. when it comes to lesbian identities and discourse about "male lesbians" its okay to just leave it at what happened in america with american lesbian history. seriously. AS A WHITE PERSON YOU SHOULD NOT BE POLICING LABELS LIKE WLW/NMLNM AND SAYING ITS ANTI BLACK WHEN ITS NOT. you don't actually care especially when multiple black people have said it is not fucking anti black to use that label! you just want to use a gotcha because the person didn't care about the western lesbian history your using to prove your point so u use anti blackness as a gotcha and thats weird as hell. AS A AMERICAN/NON AFRICAN YOU SHOULD NOT BE SPEAKING ON AFRICAN LESBIANISM AND TWISTING OUR CULTURE TO FIT YOUR ARGUMENT. we did not use man lesbian in the way you want us to. i have been surrounded by older african lesbian elders, african lesbians, and trans men. we have never had history of men being lesbians. some of our cultures dont have words like butch or femme. learn to speak on what you are. american, white etc. dont use anyone else's race or culture no matter how your intentions are. im pissed bc yall are weird
I wont ever in my lifetime, show u a photo of someone I like, cuz u either got it from their younger sisters insta or his firefighters insta page💀
this is all i need in S4 Vol.2
Can we just take a moment to focus on the amazing dynamic between Robin and Nancy?
Two incredibly smart girls, who don’t really know each other, and yet share the same friend group, realize that despite their differences they work so well with each other. To the point that even though Nancy seemed annoyed at first, she quickly started to pick robin for everything, victor visit, Creel house visit, car rides, etc. Nancy is clean, precise, organized while Robin is messy, chaotic, spontaneous and these differences originally drew them apart but now are what pull them so close together. Their love for everything different about each other and everything they share is truly incredible.
