Nonbinary Ftm - Tumblr Posts

Reminder that masc voice training is a thing! So if you have voice dysphoria you might wanna try it at least for a month and see if it helps :]

tip for people who struggle with pronouns: fake it until you make it. I'd rather someone theatrically get my pronouns right than blatantly ignore them in place of the 'easier' option for them. I'd rather have someone go 'IT went to the coffee shop to get HIR morning coffee' than 'they, they, they' when it's in obvious replacement of my preferred pronouns.

Nobody with an ounce of patience expects you to be a pronoun god, but we do expect our pronouns and identities to not be brushed under the rug for the comfort of yourself. and people who do 'throw fits' have every right to, because it's fucking insulting to not be correctly gendered after politely correcting people like we often do. people have pronoun pins, or even pieces of clothing to give you visual cues (though looking at clothing cannot be a foolproof way to aid in guessing someone's pronouns) of what they like to be called, as well; for example, I saw this tiktok of somebody with they/them earrings who apparently STILL got misgendered, and that's when it very much feels purposeful.

don't be a dick. Unless you want to be lumped with the 'what is a woman', genital obsessed weirdoes, put the damn effort in.