It/its - Tumblr Posts
This but with xeo/neo pronouns.
"we need more complicated queer identities!"
You can't even handle it/it's pronouns
It pronouns are possibly the most fitting for God but I don’t wanna use those for him because I genuinely respect the people and creatures who use it/its pronouns and I don’t want my utter disdain for God to be associated with them
guys i designed some pronoun badges!!!! they’re designed as part of my pride corvids collection, and merch links + f2u PNGs are available here!! don’t be afraid to send me a message if your pronouns aren’t there - i’m happy to make more!
With Pride Month right around the corner, my mind keeps reminding me of homophobia I’ve experienced over the years. Here’s some that I experienced from one Christian guy I used to be friends with:
Got mad every time I called myself gay (his reasoning was only guys exclusively attracted to guys could call themselves gay)
Said bisexuality and pansexuality were the same
Wouldn’t let me call myself pan in his presence
Called me the wrong pronouns even after the MANY times I’ve told him the pronouns made me uncomfortable
Told me I was an idiot for believing intersex people exist and also don’t need “fixing”
Called me a lesbian even though I’m not one
Thought I was greedy for being pan
Told me I’d grow out of being trans
Said they/them pronouns made zero sense
Was 10x more homophobic toward me after learning I wasn’t a girl
Told me I’d never not be a girl and was delusional for thinking otherwise
Thought the fact that I occasionally am repulsed by romance made me immature
Argued with me about the existence of bigender and intersex people
Used the h-slur for intersex individuals
Claimed lgbt didn’t exist before 2000
Thought that me being trans meant I was lying to myself and everyone around me
Told me I claimed to be trans because I didn’t like who I was
Referred to me as an object and it/its pronouns after I told him she/her made me uncomfortable (Note: nothing wrong with people who use it/it’s pronouns, but they’re not my pronouns)
Called me childish for my occasional sex repulsion
Told me that me being lgbt “went against God”
Called me a slut for being pan and for being polyamorous
Here's an introduction post I guess? Just call me Kitten, I'm a transgender man and I use he/him they/them or it/its pronouns. I don't really know what to title this weird little blog of mine but it's mostly just gonna revolve around my fantasies and probably a lot of short story writing pertaining to them. As far as the...audience? I guess? I don't really know what to call anyone who stumbles across this blog to be honest, but I have no preference for who interacts, all I ask is respect of my gender and pronouns and any triggers I may share.
why are twitter users calling out the therian kittengirl who's wanted by the US government and who just leaked the US no-fly list with a ":3" for being a bi lesbian. lgbt infighters are on another level. it has 9 girlfriends and is an enemy of the state, I think it can use whatever labels it wants at this point 😭
i use any pronouns so in theory i would not care and i dont, at least for individuals. i dont mind one person referring to me with only one set, or a few people using a mix of only some sets. however i would be sad if nobody used my favorite pronouns or if everyone used one set. i think as long as a wide variety of pronouns are used about me in total, then i dont care what an individual uses. i actually find it fun when people pick what sets and how they use them for me! i like the variety :)
tumblr users who use multiple sets of pronouns,
like if you use she/they/it do you want people to swtich up which ones they're using or if someone just always uses it/its for you is that fine
i read once someone being like "if someone uses multiple sets of pronouns and you don't alternate that's the same as misgendering them" and that really stuck out to me since i don't feel the same way at all like if u wanna pick ur fav pronoun and use that i really don't care, but i wanted to see if im like ? weird 4 that ?
pls reblog im so curious and also i have 3.5 followers
doodle I did for shiver day :3
it/shark/fang/he for shiver only. ty.
silly guy
★reblogs, likes, and follows are appreciated & encouraged <3
Legit being an Inclusionist is actually really fun and easy to do. Not giving a fuck about what someone labels themself as or why is fun and easy to do. Letting people express themselves and not harassing them into fitting perfectly cut boxes is fun and easy to do.
Being an Inclusionist is great. It's legit like. I'm here. I'm sitting here. We are both sitting here. We are all just vibing. We are having a good time because none of us give a shit. That's it. That is literally it. Maybe come and quietly sit with us in a metaphorical field and you'll feel better and less full of toxic gatekeepy bigotry.
“we want more weird queer people” you guys can’t handle it/its users
You know what’s weird? People’s opinions on it/it’s pronouns
They say it’s “dehumanizing”
But you call your unborn children it?
You say “it’s a boy” or “it’s a girl” which means it is actually pronouns too
And I NEVER hear anyone calling their babies they don’t know the sex of “they”
You are more comfortable using it/it’s pronouns for a baby that can’t consent to those pronouns then using them for someone who literally likes being called it and CONSENTS to using those pronouns
Can y’all stop acting like using it/it’s pronouns for people who WANT to use them is horrible?
I get it, you feel like it/it’s pronouns are dehumanizing, trust me, I know, you’re like the 99th person to say this to me
And I see this EVERY TIME when people say anything about using it/it’s pronouns,
👏just👏use👏people’s👏pronouns👏
End of story
Transphobes will casually call random trans people an it, and then get angry when some of us reclaim 'it' and use that pronoun for ourselves. 💀
"I support trans people!" quick, are you normal about the concept of transandrophobia? Do you think it's just 'white men trying to be oppressed'? Do you brush it off as merely misdirected transmisogyny? Do you scoff at the struggles of trans men and go 'but trans women have it worse! talk to a trans woman and see how bad THEY have it!'?
Do you use a trans man's chest size as an excuse for constant misgendering? Do you hold transmasculine people to a standard of needing to be feminine so to not scare the women, but proceed to not take their gender seriously if they do perform femininity? Do you use your horribly veiled misandry as an excuse to make trans men feel unsafe in queer spaces?
Are you normal about AFAB transfems and AMAB transmascs? Intersex trans people? GNC trans people? Trans people who use xenogenders? Trans people who use it/its or other neopronouns? She/her transmascs and he/him transfems? Can you acknowledge that, sometimes, people are simultaneously transmasc and transfem? Do you accept transmasc women, transfem men, etc?
Do you invalidate the identities of trans women who have beards, or present 'masculinely'? Do you see them as predatory posers? Do you go out of your way to misgender trans women who happen to actually be predators, because 'clearly they were just men'? Do you shame trans women for exploring their sexuality?
Are autistic trans people not able to make decisions on their own transition, as far as you're concerned? Are our ways of expressing and seeing gender 'stupid' to you? Is the concept of autigender too 'insane' to you? Do you see our gender identities as simply jokes?
Can you survive being around a trans man lesbian or a veldian (link) trans woman? Can you support a multigender person who is both gay AND lesbian? Can you include transmasculine nonbinary people in your 'support' of nonbinary lesbians?
I've used the term 'conditional support' a few times, but it is very much conditional support if you explode over one trans person's identity, and then turn around and act all supportive of another's. If all it takes for you not to support a trans person is how they label their gender or sexuality, how they present, what their body looks like, etc, you are not supportive of trans people! Your 'support' is very limited and strict. You have one rigid idea of what trans people are 'supposed' to be, and anyone who deviates isn't valid or worthy, and that is NOT the kind of behavior an ally should exhibit. It is not the way you treat other trans people, and it is far from supportive.
bigots: you're an abnormal freak!
'weird' trans people: okay, I'm abnormal and I'm okay with that.
bigots: wait, no-
I love this, people tried to hurt y'all and you're like 'actually, this slays. thank you for the pronouns!' ultimate power move. Bigots stay losing
i've been referred to by it/its a lot more lately and i'm realizing just how much i love that. it feels so comfortable and natural. we're using it/its as our primary pronouns from now on, this rules. it feels right as an androgynous person, as an intersex person, as a butch dyke, as a nonhuman, as a genderfucker, as a genderqueer person, as a punk. i don't feel dehumanized in a bad way. one would refer to a wolf, a coyote or a horse as "it". that suits me just fine, as all of those things. all i feel is something right
tip for people who struggle with pronouns: fake it until you make it. I'd rather someone theatrically get my pronouns right than blatantly ignore them in place of the 'easier' option for them. I'd rather have someone go 'IT went to the coffee shop to get HIR morning coffee' than 'they, they, they' when it's in obvious replacement of my preferred pronouns.
Nobody with an ounce of patience expects you to be a pronoun god, but we do expect our pronouns and identities to not be brushed under the rug for the comfort of yourself. and people who do 'throw fits' have every right to, because it's fucking insulting to not be correctly gendered after politely correcting people like we often do. people have pronoun pins, or even pieces of clothing to give you visual cues (though looking at clothing cannot be a foolproof way to aid in guessing someone's pronouns) of what they like to be called, as well; for example, I saw this tiktok of somebody with they/them earrings who apparently STILL got misgendered, and that's when it very much feels purposeful.
don't be a dick. Unless you want to be lumped with the 'what is a woman', genital obsessed weirdoes, put the damn effort in.
Seriously though, I have yet to hear anyone use 'it' for me bc of the nature of pronouns- however the idea of it just brings me so much joy. Like yes that is me the feral dragon man in your closet.
I’m sorry but I love being called an it. “But it’s dehumanizing!!” Okay? And what if I told you that’s kinda the point?? 🤨
Eng:
How do you feel about redesigning Smokey? I think it will have 3 forms. The one you've already seen, the one that looks more human and completely cat..
Русский:
Что вы думаете о редизайне Смоки? Я думаю, что оно будет иметь 3 формы. Ту, которую вы уже видели, ту, которая больше похожа на человека и ту, которая будет полностью котом..