Pride Month Aspec Headcanons Day 23

Pride Month Aspec Headcanons Day 23

Jonathan Crane - DC - Aroace

Aroace Jonathan just makes sense to me. It just does.

Depending on the version of Jonathan would depend on how interesting he find the relationship between fear and attraction are. Sometimes he doesn't care at all and just wants to keep working on his initial work. Other times, he finds it intriguing since he doesn't feel it himself and takes note of it to see how it can influence his fear gas, etc etc.

Mainly, he's just vibin', doing his own thing and probably makes fun of the other rogues' terrible love lives when they complain too much around him.

Writing an ace character into my story like: does this universe have ace rings the same way this one does? Probably not. Am I gonna give the character one anyway? Yeah

apparently someone in Edinburgh has been updating the street signs for pride

Pride Month Aspec Headcanons Day 24

Spider-Noir - Spider-Man: Into the Spiderverse - Aromantic

I love the Spiderverse a lot. It's just natural that I give one of the spideys the honors of being aspec. Spider Noir gives off very aromantic vibes to me. Not from him "closing himself off to emotion" though. He's just bad at coping with stress. Nah, he'd be aro no matter what. He's too busy punching Nazis and loving his friends to care about romance.

Would he have the terminology for it in his own world? Probably not (yet). But goin' around the multiverse helps him find out there's a word for what he feels (or doesn't feel) and he's happy to learn and adopt it. Also he'd love the different shades in the flag, coming from a black and white universe and all

Also as far as I remember in his backstory, he never mentioned Gwen or MJ in a romantic sense (unlike some of the other Spideys), so there's that too

Seeing ace flowers on my way to a queer afternoon tea? More likely than you think.

Pride Month Asepc Headcanons Day 20

Jo March - Little Women - Greyrose

Not to sound like your standard white girl, but when I read Little Women, I connected a lot with Jo and related to her quite a bit in regards to her dreams and independence.

It was more than just that, though. And I know there's the lesbian vs aroace debate with her just like there is with Barbie. However, I see her more as greyrose.

I'm probably going to do a terrible job explaining this, but when I read the story, I actually really like her relationship with The Professor. She doesn't seem to experience rose feelings often but they finally aligned with Fritz. A once in a lifetime chance and they made it work out.

This story gave me a lot of hope. At the time I read it, I was wondering if I was greyromantic as well as ace. Jo's story and the fact that she ended comfortable and happy on her own terms, which just so happened to also include Fritz, brought me comfort. It helped me know that, no matter what, so long as I do my best to do what makes me happy, it'll all turn out. It also gave me hope in someday being able to find someone who accepts that my asexuality makes me approach relationships differently and we'll be able to make it work, too.