I Did This Spread When I Was Feeling Like The Amount Of Self Care I Require Is Too Much And Everybody

I did this spread when I was feeling like the amount of self care I require is too much and everybody seemed to be fine without that work. But, I'm beginning to completely understand that each human is soo far different than the one you live beside or the one have in your life, we are all unique and I think it's time I realised. I am who I am, the care I give myself is worth it cause I need it. If you are struggling with giving yourself time or being nice to yourself, always remember to treat yourself the way you'd treat someone dear to you. Would you demand your friend to work hard when she is hurting and is on the brim of tears? Then why do you do it to yourself? When you treat yourself special and care for yourself, everybody will slowly but surely see you, the way you see yourself ✨

The lesson of this year was : I need myself the most

And I look forward to understanding,knowing and loving myself dearly

Sending you lots of love 💙✨

Have an amazing end of the year Homo sapiens!

"The more we define ourselves in relation to the people around us, the more lost we are."

I heard this on a podcast and realised how lost I actually was. Lately it's been hard to look at someone and not think of how they seem to have it better than me, this bitterness had accumulated so much I couldn't enjoy the little things I once used to enjoy.

I've been thinking of how the world nowadays is isolating in one way and is collapsed in another way, have you noticed how much the 'influence', people miles away form us have on us? It's confusing and hard to develop your own opinion when everyone have ready made answers for you to ingrain into your brain. To feel lonely yet have other's opinions go round and round in your mind is suffocating, and I want it to stop.

To "think out of the box" is the new 'idea', but I feel like everyone is out of 'the box' and we are on top of eachother, crushing eachother, each trying to view the sky a little bit more clearer.

To be yourself, I've realised is actually hard.

To clear all that clutter I have in my brain, I need time, I believe everyone does. To declutter millions of opinions, views, criticism and gossip. Social media is not bad, I think it is just hard to manage all the content we are constantly dumped with. How can someone create beautiful and unique ideas that symbolise them if all they are shown are other people, their beliefs, their opinions and their views?

In conclusion, taking time off and restructuring your thoughts and ideas with your qualities and the way you wish to live is necessary.

Many people on social media have inspired me and made me dream big and bright, I love media for that. I'm learning to be a bigger and better version of myself and I believe to do that I first have to know and understand what my opinions, views,qualities and beliefs are.

I hope you have an amazing time ahead ✨.Thank you for reading ❤️

- Avil Hopes

jungkook chose to stay longer to listen to armys singing ‘magic shop’ 🥺

I might eventually go and edit this but

Likes can only go so far for artists. Artists may exclusively upload their artwork to tumblr, or don’t have the time to use other sites and prefer tumblr over deviantART due to its simplicity, but the tagging system can make it harder to navigate. Many artists on tumblr tag with high-traffic tags or use their own tags to prevent tag clogging which eventually become lost. That’s why it’s very important to reblog an artist’s work. 

I’m not trying to push you to ruin your blog’s aesthetic or something, nor am I saying that “you must absolutely reblog your favourite artist’s work or you’re trash”, all I’m saying is if you truly want to support your favourite artist, instead of just liking their posts, try to reblog them once in a while. The more reblogs they receive, the more exposure/notes/followers they may receive, and it’s just one of the easiest ways to show you care about them.

*This does not mean to reblog unsourced artwork or works reuploaded to another person’s blog without permission (re:stolen). Nor does this mean to reblog artworks without the artist’s consent, even if this case is slim.

"What's my thang? Tell me now". Do you wonder why things are the way it is? Do you wish you were somewhere else, than right here?