I Mean Some Ppl Do Get Violent When They Find Out Ur Not White But Go Off Ig :/

i mean some ppl do get violent when they find out ur not white but go off ig :/

acting like we're privileged once again

erasure

as some1 who's from the UK i can confirm that mixed ppl exist outside the US

do i even need 2 fucking say anything on this 1???

unironically using the term "exotic" 2 describe how we look b*tch im not a pet

apparently some1 thinks that american = white

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fuck this im having a bad day bc of ppl being weird abt me being mixed w/ black and mixed w/ white so im just making this a masterpost of all the kinda bs i deal w/ bc so many ppl don't seem 2 believe me when i say me and others like me go thru this shit, gonna reblog this w/ any new shit i find

apparently they r comparing us 2 coffee now

weird race fetish bs

weird eugenics bs

in case u thought it was only 4 coffee cups

as some1 who is "white passing" this is bs erasure is not a privilege, being mistaken 4 ur oppressors and being pitted against ur own community is not a privilege not 2 mention racism is not only colourism there's also featurism ect [sry if bad spelling i haven't seen that word written down b4] p much none of us that r considered "white passing" even look fully white bc most of us still look different bc of being mixed even if it's not our skin colour that looks different and those of us who do still belong in our community [speaking as some1 considered white passing but my hair and body shape r different bc im mixed]

some1 acting like us saying we're mixed is asking 4 special treatment

just 2 b clear the problem isn't ppl not guessing our race right it's ppl insisting that they know what race we r better than we do even when we tell them that we're mixed and then being racist even when they do acknowledge it

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fuck this im having a bad day bc of ppl being weird abt me being mixed w/ black and mixed w/ white so im just making this a masterpost of all the kinda bs i deal w/ bc so many ppl don't seem 2 believe me when i say me and others like me go thru this shit, gonna reblog this w/ any new shit i find

apparently they r comparing us 2 coffee now

weird race fetish bs

weird eugenics bs

in case u thought it was only 4 coffee cups

this is also a problem with the system pride flag being stolen and then used as the "super straight" flag

Yaknow how this week is aromantic awareness week and as the name states, is to spread awareness about aromanticism? I have been wearing the aro flag frequently wherever I go, and also have been keeping a small version of the flag on my bag to celebrate! However, I am extremely agitated over just how little is truly known about aromantic people.

The intention of having the flag around was to spread representation of arospec people and to educate others on our identity! And I am very pissed off to know more people recognize the aromantic flag not as what it truly is, but instead this:

Today someone had called my flag a “dreamsexual flag” and i have never felt more offended.

They took our flag. I don’t want to have to constantly worry that people see my flag and think I support a bigot. There is more recognition of this flag as a “dream flag” than what it actually stands for. This is why more people should be educated about aros. We are already doing what we can to fight amatonormativity and I have never been more furious to have my identity belittled to a “dreamsexual flag.” That is not what aromanticism stands for, and it never ever will stand for that.

So please educate yourself! When you see that flag please know what it genuinely means. It stands for a beautiful community of people who experience little to no romantic attraction. It does not stand for a community of uneducated people stealing flags and supporting bigots. Thank you, and happy aromantic awareness week.

ppl rly do like 2 say that every disabled character in a queer relationship is child coded huh?

hey so since i just remembered that july is disability pride month i figured i'd go off since no1 can do shit, so let's unpack this post and y this bs of ppl saying every disabled character [especially those in queer relationships] is "child coded" pisses me off so much so i wanna start by saying that the term "child coded" does hav it's place, like w/ the whole 1000 year old dragon loli bs where the character is drawn exactly like how the artist draws kid characters, possibly also the characters even straight up calling them a loli or the character acting like an actual child or being treated like an actual child and them being a 1000 year old dragon is just an excuse 4 the piece of media they r in 2 put them in sexual situations [insert way 2 many anime as reference here] [dragon maid being 1 of them] or the other type of this trope where a character is literally stated 2 meant 2 appear like a child but is an adult and is still put in sexual/adult romance situations even tho it's stated they r meant 2 look like a child and it's clear that that's something the txt is playing into [huni from oran high school host club being a good example] [according 2 the wiki last time i checked it says that it was literally stated in the manga that he's meant 2 look 8 but he works at a host club and the story clearly plays into that given that his nickname is "the boy lolita", at least in the anime]

my problem is that some ppl want 2 act like disabled coding and child coding is the same thing and say that every disabled character is "child coded" and then from there say that they shouldn't b in relationships and ppl who use the term child coded 4 every disabled character seem 2 b even more likely 2 do so when the character is also in a queer relationship or when the fandom ships them in a queer relationship or has a queer headcanon 4 them

the most common type of misuse i've seen of this term tho is when ppl r shipping a character in a queer relationship and then some1 who is obviously made uncomfortable by queer stuff tries 2 say that the ship is a pedo ship by saying that they think 1 of the characters is child coded and this is a problem that has multiple layers bc w/ how it's being misused in this way it shows the following abt the person misusing it;

1] they c disabled ppl as children [especially feminine presenting and queer disabled ppl]

2] they don't want disabled ppl 2 b in relationships

3] they c all relationships w/ a disabled person as pedo shit

4] they don't want queer ppl in relationships

5] they c all queer relationships as pedo shit and so they look 4 any excuse 2 call it pedo shit even tho at least 90% of the time it's literally not

ppl rly do like 2 say that every disabled character in a queer relationship is child coded huh?

mixed people don't have a look stop spreading this narrative