Consider-your-potatoes-mashed - Ouch

DURING DISABILITY AWARENESS MONTH?

THIS IS A SUPER SPREADER EVENT. THIS IS THE COVID VIRUS' WET DREAM TO BREED NEW SUPER VIRUSES.

LIKE "YOU GET A COVID STRAIN. AND YOU GET A COVID STRAIN. AND YOU'RE ALL GETTING DIFFERENT COVID STRAINS."

I love One Piece as much as anyone BUT WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS SHIT. LUFFY WOULD NOT WANT YOU ENDANGERING DISABLED PEOPLE LIKE THIS.

If you went to this without a mask. Don't talk to me. You're not worthy of my presence.

-fae

One way to be an ally to disabled queer people:

If you want to attend a pride event, ask about their accessibility plans and policies.

Ask about their covid policies. Ask if they are accessible to mobility aid users. Ask if they will have strobe lights, if there will be bathrooms, if there is water. Make the event planners consider who they may have left out, even if the person being left out isn't you. Have your friends ask as well. Help create a demand. Help get conversations started. Help people see where things could be more accessible.

Because when we, the disabled, ask these questions? We're much more likely to get ignored, and much less likely to be heard when we raise hell.

So help us raise hell when we need it. Demand to know why your local Pride event isn't requiring masks, or is charging for water, or doesn't have wheelchair ramps, or whatever other accessibility issue you catch.

Stop leaving us behind. We need your fucking help.

Heat is fucking ableist i just want to go outside and not feel like I’m dying or going to pass out. Like sure being cold sucks and at a certain point it hurts like hell but for me at least heat and being hot is so much worse.

(I feel like I should note that technically the first bit of this (calling heat ableist) is a joke but I stand by it at the same time)

Is the high if the day 71 F? Yes. Do I still feel like that’s too hot? Also yes I will be sweating my fucking ass off and trying to walk as little as possible which is still more than I’d like cause I’m doing college classes this summer and the campus is massive.

i feel like we dont talk enough about how distressing and disturbing memory loss issues are. forgetting what you were talking about halfway through a sentence, putting something down and instantly forgetting where you put it. having to reread one paragraph over and over again because by the time youve moved onto the next sentence you dont remember what the one before it said. always doubting if your memories of things are real, not being able to remember important life events.

its so incredibly scary, it feels like your mind is constantly playing tricks on you and you start to doubt whats real and what isnt.

“i forgot” is treated like a lazy excuse when it’s genuinely such a big issue for so many people.

I mean like...yes, it's okay to like kids' media regardless of if you're autistic or not. No, of course your sole argument for why it doesn't deserve mockery shouldn't be "but they might be autistic". But I don't think that means we need to or should deny that there is somewhat of a connection, or that this mockery is often rooted in ableism.

Like the autistic people who stick to or fixate on children's media are not some made up stereotype, that's a real thing and there are various reasons that can happen, such as those stories being easier to understand socially, cartoon faces having more exaggerated expressions, etc. And then there are things like comorbid intellectual disabilities and other developmental disorders.

I cannot tell you how many teenagers I knew in special ed loved media that was aimed at much younger audiences. Way more than in typical mainstream classes. That's not an accident. And it's not something we should shy away from accepting or try to distance ourselves from. Like yeah of course, it's not all of us. But if you want to seriously discuss an issue of judging people for not acting how they're expected to with regards to their age, you can't deny the role of ableism against developmental disorders.