VENUS IN 8TH HOUSE

VENUS IN 8TH HOUSE

🌑 Secret relationship

🌑 Romantic life hidden from public eye

🌑 Goddess of sensuality

🌑 Spiritual mind

🌑 Rich partner + inheritance

🌑 Magnetic personality

🌑 Mysterious vibes

🌑 Public image is different from real personality

🌑 Intimidating vibes

🌑 May meet partner in dark place/on internet/hidden place // no one knows except you two

I don't enjoy memes anymore

During my college days I was obsessed with 9gag and reddit

Check out r/pornomemes. This is a subreddit I made and moderated for around 1.5 years

I don't find them enjoyable anymore. Reasons:

Sheer saturation in the meme market

Hive mind and people pleasing

Except people who make memes on niche subjects, most of them are insecure and have low self esteem. You would be surprised to know how many memes users have low self esteem

It is like a drug and gives temporary good feeling

It is depressing. I used to browse r/2meirl42meirl4meirl and it was the saddest period of my life

There is no satisfaction or pleasure

I thought I was cool for watching memes. No. It was mere waste of time. I don't remember a single thing I watched. My mind was only programmed to scrolling

But this habit was hard to break because there was nothing else as enjoyable and short term fun. Everyone was on internet, so why not me..? Until I found philosophy and occult. I actually remember what I read. My time goes into enriching my knowledge. It makes me a better person day by day. I have better self esteem.

I like to write. Some day I wish to write books/research papers/seminar papers/website entries/newspaper articles or my own repository of articles.

I have given up short term gratification altogether. Sex is the only thing I like that gives instant happiness but in all other areas of my life, I want to aim big and work towards something that will take years to flourish. Work is the only thing that is both financially and emotionally rewarding.

I don't eat fast food either. So there is a correlation between these since i am not consuming anything that has a drug like effect on my mind.

Hey, just wanted to let you know how much I loved your 'how to move past trauma' post. There's something traumatic happened long ago that still hurts me. And I liked your post a lot. I'll practice all of those things :) Thank you 💕

Thank you for that.

Trauma can definitely stay in your mind for a long time. I dont know how most people look so happy (especially on social media, TV, glamour world) but the real plain ordinary life is just confusing and messy.

I dont think healing from trauma makes you forget it. It just does not affect you anymore. It doesn't hurt you anymore. You are indifferent to it. You dont care it happened. You don't wish what "should" have happened.

You fucked up? You fucked up. Shit happened? Shit happened. And dont think after reading this that I am super calm and smart. I feel anxiety 100 times a day over the past events.

Not every thought is intuition.

Some of these thoughts are mere anxiety and paranoia.

Some of these thoughts are mere your irrational mind doing irrational things.

Some of these thoughts are just you imagining the worst circumstances.

Some of these thoughts are just wishful thinking.

Intuition is:

1. Inner knowing

2. Synchronicity in your surroundings

3. Dream interpretation

4. Knowing that something is true but dont know how or why

5. That click of mind when something suddenly makes sense

6. Try writing down your thought and see if it seems valid

Learn to distinguish betqeen these.

8th house and Favourite Person

I have not seen anyone talk about the Favourite Person phenomenon for people with 8th house placements. 8th house gives obsessive tendencies and your FP is the one you obsess over. FP can be anyone and it happens subconsciously.

You know what I am talking about if you have ever experienced it in your life. So how to get over this obsession and live your life?

🌑 Do shadow work, discover your insecurities, heal yourself by sleeping and let your brain fix itself in sleep. This worked for me.

🌑 Avoid mindless entertainment like movies music TV social media porn memes YouTube except for necessary things. Use your 8th house energy for healing and spirituality.

🌑 You are either spiritual already or interested in it. So read about it and practice its activities in your life.

🌑 You can't own, control, obsess over, possess your FP. Learn to take responsibility for your emotions. Start slow but it gets easier. Learn DBT skills. Improvise. It takes practice to deal with 8th house flood of emotions.

🌑 Your intuition is your gift. Meditate. Trust your gut feeling. Differentiate between INTUITION, ANXIETY, PARANOIA. Not every thought is intuition.

🌑 Obsession is not love. The only person deserving of "love" is yourself.

🌑 Vipassana meditation

🌑 8th house is a gift and a curse so learn to ride the waves. Only you can do it. It takes trial and error. But once you learn to master it, 8th house will give you SPIRITUAL BOOST like nothing else.

SUN IN 7th house. THE NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP.

I have my sun in 7th house so this is my personal insight:

🌕 I feel so useless when I am not in a relationship

🌕 Relationship is the number 1 motivation in my life

🌕 Marriage is so important to me

🌕 I wanted to get married since I was a child. I actually value the security of marriage.

🌕 I do want a dominating, strong, assertive husband because I want to be proud of my husband. I want to worship my husband and I do want a fatherly figure in my partner.

🌕 I had a tendency to idealize opposite gender. I would romanticize any man and ignored their flaws.

🌕 Not parents, not friends, not sibling, not pets - but my hubby hub hub is the most important person in my life

🌕 I didn't have self esteem, self image and sense of self

🌕 I was a people pleaser and had no boundaries as a teenager

🌕 I was hypersensitive to rejection and other people's opinion of me. I was super gullible and cared too much about my social image. I didnt go to school to learn or study but to show off my image and boost my ego.

🌕 I had a fragile ego and was arrogant

🌕 I basically depended on other people for survival because I didnt know who I was. i wanted to be adored admired liked by everyone in the world.

🌺 Now I have healed myself. I work on my sense of self and self respect. I know who I AM and who I AM NOT. I am not dramatic. I am laid back and calmer. I have career goals. My marriage is a part of my life but not everything. I am currently single uh oh -