SUN IN 7th House. THE NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP.

SUN IN 7th house. THE NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP.

I have my sun in 7th house so this is my personal insight:

🌕 I feel so useless when I am not in a relationship

🌕 Relationship is the number 1 motivation in my life

🌕 Marriage is so important to me

🌕 I wanted to get married since I was a child. I actually value the security of marriage.

🌕 I do want a dominating, strong, assertive husband because I want to be proud of my husband. I want to worship my husband and I do want a fatherly figure in my partner.

🌕 I had a tendency to idealize opposite gender. I would romanticize any man and ignored their flaws.

🌕 Not parents, not friends, not sibling, not pets - but my hubby hub hub is the most important person in my life

🌕 I didn't have self esteem, self image and sense of self

🌕 I was a people pleaser and had no boundaries as a teenager

🌕 I was hypersensitive to rejection and other people's opinion of me. I was super gullible and cared too much about my social image. I didnt go to school to learn or study but to show off my image and boost my ego.

🌕 I had a fragile ego and was arrogant

🌕 I basically depended on other people for survival because I didnt know who I was. i wanted to be adored admired liked by everyone in the world.

🌺 Now I have healed myself. I work on my sense of self and self respect. I know who I AM and who I AM NOT. I am not dramatic. I am laid back and calmer. I have career goals. My marriage is a part of my life but not everything. I am currently single uh oh -

How to combat jealousy and envy as an 8th house Venus woman?

🌑 I don't know. No matter how much shadow work I do, there is still weak point where I slip into jealousy and envy again. But let us look at some tools.

🌑 Dichotomy of control: Identify what is causing the envy? Is the other woman more beautiful, successful, intelligent, popular? Is this under your control? No. What is under your control? Your actions. What is your action? To perform your destiny.

🌑 Be content with what you have: Will envy boost your treasures or make you beautiful? No. Will envy make the other person ugly or failure? No. It is a useless emotion. Focus on your destiny.

🌑 Is it that you are afraid of losing someone? You are afraid of losing your partner? I used to be jealous of other girls in my class because I thought that my parents consider them better daughters than me. I even dreamt once that a classmate has called me on phone and my parents are around so I panic that they will think that this "classmate is a good girl" but "their own daughter rose moon is a bad girl". What can I do about it? Nothing. Rejection from parents/partner? Take the loss and channel it into art.

🌑 Learn to embrace the mundane ordinary life of everyday. Perhaps you are envious of others because you imagine them as perfect ideal women deserving to be worshipped. Have you ever contemplated that this life you are wasting in the anticipation of some grand success or approval to boost your self worth is THE LIFE that you have? The little things like the colour of your bedsheet, the hairstyle you make today, the same old lunch you eat everyday, the same old plants in your house, these little things are all that life is made up of.

🌑 Avoid toxic and wrong people. Do not be a people pleaser. This one was the hardest lesson for me. I was a naive selfless person who would befriend everyone because do unto others what you would be done by lol. I would please all my friends, exhaust myself by making them happy, put their happiness above mine and asked for nothing in return. I was like walking "Use Me" robot. How could I avoid "toxic" people? I am the cool girl, the fun girl, the easy going! Yay! Until it hit me like a brick that I have been taken advantage of unfairly. Toxic people are real. They come in many shapes and forms. The world is NOT rainbows and sunshine. Being spiritual does not mean that you are doormat. This realization alone calmed me down.

Let us see how many of these tools I can implement in my own life in future.

A lot of us have learned astrology from internet. I do not have any books or teacher. I started browsing astrology and psychic stuff as a game when I was a young teenager. I kept reading astrology and watched YouTube videos until I got old enough to connect things on my own. Now I am a genuine astrologer. I give the whole credit to internet.

1. I wonder if all of us who have learned astrology from internet are ruled by some specific planetary placement?

2. How are we different from our previous generations?

3. What is internet? Is internet the manifestation of knowledge of some kind? Since everything in universe is constantly evolving, is internet the new evolution of "books and libraries"?

4. Is internet ruled by Mercury or Jupiter?

1. During my Ketu Antardasha from July 2021 onwards, I slept a lot. I used to sleep around 12 to 15 hours a day. I have slept so much that I have constant fatigue and headache.

2. I isolated myself and lived in loneliness. I only talked to my family and that too very less.

3. I studied astrology a lot.

4. My mania ended. It cured my BPD symptoms.

5. I feel like a part of me died psychologically.

6. I probably healed my intergenerational emotional issues.

7. I dont know how many mental illnesses I had, but it probably cured most of them.

8. I am calmer, self aware, stable, self secure and spiritual/Philosophical.

9. My libido didnt change but I can control it. I am not obsessed with sex anymore.

VENUS IN 8TH HOUSE

🌑 Secret relationship

🌑 Romantic life hidden from public eye

🌑 Goddess of sensuality

🌑 Spiritual mind

🌑 Rich partner + inheritance

🌑 Magnetic personality

🌑 Mysterious vibes

🌑 Public image is different from real personality

🌑 Intimidating vibes

🌑 May meet partner in dark place/on internet/hidden place // no one knows except you two

Not every thought is intuition.

Some of these thoughts are mere anxiety and paranoia.

Some of these thoughts are mere your irrational mind doing irrational things.

Some of these thoughts are just you imagining the worst circumstances.

Some of these thoughts are just wishful thinking.

Intuition is:

1. Inner knowing

2. Synchronicity in your surroundings

3. Dream interpretation

4. Knowing that something is true but dont know how or why

5. That click of mind when something suddenly makes sense

6. Try writing down your thought and see if it seems valid

Learn to distinguish betqeen these.