Life Advice For Sun In 7th House Natives WITH EMPTY 1ST HOUSE

Life advice for sun in 7th house natives WITH EMPTY 1ST HOUSE

Sun in 7th house people sabotage their lives so much. I am speaking for the natives with an empty 1st house and sun in 7th house. Sun is your ego, identify and self esteem. When sun is in your 7th house and there is no planet in the 1st house to give you a "sense of self", sun from descendant will project its traits on other people.

These natives can see their own traits in other people and especially the insecurities. They tend to see their own insecurities in others, whether the others realize it or not. It makes them flinch and cringe. Since they are aware of their insecurities and also see them in other people, they tend to sabotage themselves based on their insecurities.

Sun in 7th house with empty 1st house weakens the self confidence of the native. They tend to base their self esteem on other people's opinions of them and are super pleasers. They also tend to have arrogance and ego in their personality traits. They seem to want high respect and status in society. In relationships, they might suffer with ego issues and who's the better/smarter/more successful/more talented person issues.

Life advice is to

Accept your insecurities and inferiority complex

It is okay to have insecurities. Insecurities are just feelings. Accept them and move on

Control your arrogance that wants to have it all. You're not special. You're just deeply self conscious

People do have similar traits as you. Accept them and accept yourself

Curb your inferiority. Your father figure probably never saw you the way you are. He likely misunderstood you or had his own mental image of you or could not see your personality as real. So as an adult you feel deeply insecure of your real personality and want attention, recognition, validation from everyone. Arrogance is a mask for inferiority. What are your inferiority signs? Recognize them and heal them.

Astro notes about 8th house placements

These natives seem to always have problems with other people. Either they have people in life who manipulate them or use them or lie to them or only there for their resources.

They also tend to attract mixed reactions from people. Sometimes people are charmed by them and then unpredictably they lose interest and start ignoring them.

Somehow people around them show irrational hatred towards them. Whether they try to dominate them or control them or insult them or make them feel inferior

These natives are really perceptive of other people's motivations so it hurts to know that other is manipulating them but they cannot do anything against it.

These native struggle with weak boundaries and are massive givers. They give give give in relationships, not just romantic but others also.

These natives struggle with energy and emotions. On an emotional level, they feel chaos from the behaviour and actions of others but they don't oppose them out of fear. Internally they ruminate, obsess and go through emotional rollercoaster trying to make sense of other people's behaviour.

They can be really authentic people or at least in touch with their inner core. But whether they show authenticity or not depends upon their surroundings, psychological maturity and series of life events.

8th house is all about unpredictable, unforeseen and sudden events. But these natives also have a gift of intuition. They can feel the event happening though it has not happened yet. Eventually it does come to happen and they knew it was going to happen.

Some planets like Saturn in 8th house makes them resistant to change. These natives find it hard to change their personality because of the strictly material qualities of Saturn. They are unable to see the spiritual side of life and cling on to the material things desperately. This unfortunate situation causes much karmic lessons and prolonged struggles.

Moon, Sun and Venus in 8th house natives are the ones to psychologically transform during the periods of 8th house. They tend to destroy and recreate themselves throughout their lives. Some of the most secure people to be around because they are internally aware of human nature and psyche.

Venus and Jupiter in 8th house do really give rich spouse. If spouse is not rich at time of marriage, they become rich anyway after marriage. It does give a comfortable home life to native while spouse takes care of financial needs, especially in female natives.

Harsh planets like Saturn in 8th house gives life full of karmic struggles. It gives them delayed results, chronic diseases, financial ups and downs. 8th house is concerned with sudden gains and sudden losses.

These natives are initiated into psychiatry and tantric side of life. Eventually after emotional chaos one after another, they tend to look for answers in occult. They are suddenly exposed to occult out of nowhere. Maybe someday they stumble upon astro website or book. Maybe they get a tarot out of nowhere or make impulsive purchase.

Astro and tarot do really work for them. Especially for sun/moon/venus in 8th house natives, they can really figure out meaning, solutions and spiritual reasons for their problems using these tools. A lot of their headache will relieve if they start looking at their problems in a spiritual way. For eg, loss of money or paying taxes is 'sacrifice of the previous possession'; death of a loved one is the 'giving back to universe for greater cause'. The assured thing about 8th house is that it always gives back what it takes. The gain is either equal to or even much bigger than the loss.

Since people's perception of them is so unpredictable and the way people behave towards them is mixed, these natives learn astro to figure out the personality and motivations of the people they are exposed to. They tend to look for patterns in people to protect themselves from betrayal, being used and taken advantage of.

These native live a secretive life. They hide their life details from public eye. Hardly have a presence on social media and even then they tend to be rather private. But they can struggle with oversharing if air signs are involved.

Often times they can feel lonely in their battle against karmic lessons. Feels like no one understands their problems. They may not even get sympathy from people. If they open up to someone, it is always a person who will use their vulnerability to manipulate them for personal gains or gossip about their problems. Eventually they learn to keep things to heart and take things to grave. This is how they have the reputation of being "mysterious".

Also people seem to be irritated, annoyed and frustrated with them. It seems that 8th house natives always have karmic and emotional struggles going on. If they dare tell someone about it, that person is annoyed and ignore them or call their problem not important or change the topics or not take them seriously. I have seen it happen so many times with these natives. It really isolates the native in their dark times and they learn to be strong and solitary in journey.

At some point in their lives they switch from purely material thinking to reason+spirituality. They dabble between spiritual tools and mental tools to live their lives. Life does get quite hard for them especially with the 8th house emotional torture. I think that the emotional aspects of 8th house are really not talked about. No matter the sign placed in it, 8th house planets can give extreme emotional swings, pain, chaos, painful feelings that force them to do shadow work. It brings forth the unconscious sides of their psyche and with force they learn to acknowledge and make peace with it.

If you find someone with 8th house planets who is emotionally distraught, suffering mixed reactions from people and tired of their problems, do initiate them into occult. Tell them about spirituality, self healing and self development. Do gift them a tarot deck or introduce them to astro website or youtube channel. If they are not already initiated into occult by nature, they might eventually look to astral, cosmic, spiritual, emotional plane for the solutions to their problems. Things will start making sense to them sooner or later and they will transform into a new identity.

Many times these natives hide their occult interests from people due to fear of being judged, ridiculed and shamed. Since other people don't face the same emotions they do, they call these natives sensitive, dramatic and superstitious, even crazy sometimes. They do struggle with not being taken seriously by people even if they are knowledgeable and resourceful. People somehow either ignore them or judge them. It might also be because of inner voice of the native to self sabotage. Do check out "You can heal your life" or similar books sometimes.

How do 8th house natives transform?

8th house is the house of transformations but what is transformation and how do they transform? Transformation follows chaos and crisis. Being 8th house, the crisis is sudden, unpredictable, unforeseen and unplanned. Here are some of the ways they transform themselves:

Starting a romantic relationship suddenly

Suddenly getting married within months of meeting

Sudden breakup of relationship

Unexpected pregnancy

Unexpected job termination

Vehicle accidents

Diseases that transform their lifestyle

Surgeries that change the way they look

Gender change surgery

Sudden divorce

Sudden widowhood

Changing the way they look by hair colour, makeup, cosmetic surgery

Changing the career

Consuming and learninf a lot of astrology content

Mindlessly watching a lot of tarot videos

Mental breakdowns or psychosis

Moving countries. Packing bags and going somewhere else

Changing their identity in any way. Eg, name, address, last name, city of location, citizenship, gender change, sexuality change (from straight to bi or homosexual), changing their wardrobe

Many times small transformations like deleting their social media accounts and starting afresh. After a crisis or emotional chaos, they end up deleting all of their social media accounts to destroy their identity then start everything from scratch in a different way

Changing their hobbies and interests. Oftentimes they develop interest in occult, spirituality and mysticism

Oftentimes these natives also go into philosophy, religion studies, research for self learning because of 9th house effect. They will not go for proper college degree in higher education unless they have 9th house planets, but with 8th house placements they will be pulled to 9th house theme after evolution and maturity

Oftentimes the transformations can be painful like physical abuse or punishment or jail time or disease that isolates them (cancer, AIDS, coma condition)

These natives trigger chaos in their environment. They create drama, fights, crisis, yell, shout, cry for the transformational energy. With emotional chaos, they are faced with parts of themselves that were hidden to them previously. Now with these parts visible, it is time to change and transform into something else

Shamanic, tantric works, witchcraft, supernatural, paranormal practices, books and conversations also transform them

Sleeping is also transformation. Many 8th house natives feel like a different person after sleeping. Especially when they slept after a chaotic situation. Their dream interpretation or sleep paralysis or dreams during REM cycle can tell a lot of spiritual ideas to them that transform them.

Unfortunately, many 8th house placement natives somehow dont venture into occult all their lives. Their other placements keep them distant from occult. So they never learn to channel their energy through constructive and spiritual ways. For eg, wife who cheats, argues, lies, controls her husband but never finds out this is just spiritual cries from her soul for emotional and psychic healing.

8th house energy without occult, spiritual, psychic healing is pure disaster.

The power of acknowledgement and validation

Being an 8th house moon/venus, life got really messy many times. Things happened suddenly, my emotional state was chaotic and it felt like whatever happened in my life path was out of my conscious control. It felt like my life was destined to unfold like that, with all the good and bad, and each downfall would be a turning point for me to emotionally and psychologically reinvent myself.

Growing up, unaware of psychology and astrology, I repressed and normalized all the toxic behaviours i saw in my surroundings. During my 8th house ruler's time period, all that debris came up to the surface and I began to process my trauma.

This is when I realized the power of acknowledging and validating someone's life experiences and emotions. This is when I learned how powerful it is when someone validates your trauma and acknowledges your feelings. Especially for 8th house natives who crave deep bonding yet find themselves alone in the crowd, occult can be a powerful tool to connect with their feelings and subconscious world.

I have seen one Saturn in 8th house native in pisces sign suffering because they dont trust in self healing. Their life was full of ups and downs, delays, struggles, long lasting health issues, life threatening events. Saturn made them disciplined, hard working, pushed them to their limits. But it also restricted their emotional state. It made them repulsive to healing. They are stuck in emotional patterns of self destruction and self sabotage. I read their birth chart and tried to acknowledge their feelings.

But I also learned that people dont change until they are ready to change. That is a tough thing to do. Very tough. Change comes from deep within. And it is a lifelong process. This is why venus in 8th house is famous for changing after each relationship. Because the change comes from within. The desire to genuinely want a better relationship. Their lover exposes to them everything that is wrong with their psyche. They bringe forth everything that was hidden from their conscious awareness. These natives then begin to fix things. This is healing.

Earlier I was really critical of occult communities and called them bullshit. But now I empathize. I understand that different people find validation of their feelings from different sources. Some find from watching tarot videos on YouTube, some from reading tarot spreads, some from astro communities, some from professional help.

I also find it funny how once upon a time I was the girl who used to message my birth chart to astrologer for them to read mine and tell me things about my life. I was so clueless when I saw my birth chart. But now, after healing, after going though 8th house period, after seeing rock bottom, I can naturally read my own birth chart. I can use my intuition to navigate astro. I can read other people's charts and connect them to their behaviour. I am better able to read people. Earlier my perception of other people was totally messed up. I would invest myself in wrong people, give my heart and soul to them and then face betrayal that would break me into pieces.

So, yes, validation of life experiences, being heard, being seen, being acknowledged are really powerful tools for emotional healing.

Astro observation about 11th house placements/Aquarius placements

Hello workaholics!

Sun in 11th house natives are social butterflies. They can be the most silent person at home but are social butterflies in public. They also travel a lot. They are travelling all day for job purpose from one place to other. They have natural charm in public. People trust them with their money. People want to do business with them. These natives emit a natural businessperson energy that people want to commit to. For eg, to understand better, people with sun in 7th house attract a lot of potential romantic partner who perceive them as people they want to be with romantically. Similarly, Sun in 11th house people attract a lot of people who want to commit to them for business purposes. This is really fascinating to see how people perceive them as business savvy.

Jupiter in 11th house people also attract people who commit to their ideas. Since 11th house is all about social networking, money and especially business. These natives attract people who want to commit to their wisdom, brainchild, vision and ideas. For eg, Steve Jobs had Jupiter in 11th house (sidereal astro) and he really was a visionary man in whose ideas and visions people invested their money and wanted to do business with him. I am not making it up.

11th house/Aquarius natives are all about work. It is their life theme. They have a long fulfilling work life with late retirement. They always are doing some work. They know how to make money. They know how to grind. They have the potential and caliber. Saturn rules Aquarius: patience, discipline, hard work, long hours. They have that. They cannot retire early and enjoy life. They love to hustle all their lives.

These natives also spend less time at home relaxing and more time doing work or business. They have the caliber to do side hustle. It really comes naturally to them. They are the ones to be doing 2/3 business or work at a time. Making money. Vision, ideas, grit and social charm -- they got it all.

Public places is where they shine. Sun in 11th house or Aquarius natives shine in public settings. They love to be amongst large groups of people. They love the validation it gives them.

But no placement comes without shadow side. Behind their workaholic attitude is an intense self sabotage. I remember watching Jobs movie and Steve's character says "why did my mother birth me if she had to leave me anyway?" I have seen that these natives are workaholic as a way to avoid the shame of self sabotage. They use work to avoid the intimacy in other areas of life. They feel a compulsive urge to work work work! It is the need to individuation in them and run from their self reflection. For eg, some people understand themselves using occult tools like astro and tarot. Whereas others understand themselves by being in a relationship. While others understand themselves through work and business. It is the different areas of life with different tools that people use to individuate. To individuate yourself means to understand all parts of yourself.

These natives understand themselves when they go out in public and do their work. They even wonder why not other people do the same. They wonder why others are not workaholic like them.

Whether anything in life is significant or not?

We are often taught, "You are insignificant in the grand scheme of universe. Nothing matters. You will die anyway". If I accept this assertion, then how will I know what things are significant in my life? If everything is insignificant then why do I live and why do I exist? Why make any effort at all?

If everything is insignificant then will you ever defend yourself in an argument? Will you ever act in self defense? Will you ever protect your family and tribe? If yes, then how are these things insignificant? It means that those things ARE significant. That those things do matter. That you do matter in the grand scheme of universe.

Is this an arbitrary decision between which things are significant and which are not? If my father is significant to me, is a stranger man also as significant to me as my father? How so? 1. The stranger man could be father to a child; 2. The stranger man had emotions and personality; 3. The stranger man has a life history and destiny; 4. Do unto others what you would want to be done to yourself. In this way, even a stranger man in streets is as significant to me as my father. If a stranger is valuable to me then his life does matter in the grand scheme of things.

Life is significant. Life is meaningful. What is 'meaning'? It is anything that helps me learn something, improve myself or unlearn something that no longer serves me. Is self improvement meaningful? Is it significant in the grand scheme of universe? It is significant to me.

For so long I am here alive on earth, I will deal with my inner conscience and emotions. Doing self improvement makes me feel right. It makes me feel worthwhile. It gives me self respect. I feel like I belong to a team of "the good citizens of the universe".

I want to make a good impression on others. Doing self improvement, being authentic, socializing with my real face, doing work, in every day of my life I have to engage in a lot of things that make up my life. I want to leave a good impression on others.

I believe that anyone behaves in "good way" only because of knowledge of consequence. If a so called evil act did not have any consequence then anyone would do it without any second thought. It is not just about legal or social or financial consequences, sometimes people worry about karmic consequences. For eg, if I abuse someone, karma will come back at me. In other cases, wasting your time, energy, resources are the consequences of engaging in useless arguments.

Nobody likes being around "negative" people. If I go around saying nothing matters life is meaningless, I will make no friends. It does not imply that I am a people pleaser. It means that such nihilistic attitude towards life gets on your nerves. For eg, why go to school or college or job if nothing matters? Why do marriage or have kids or take care of your parents if nothing matters? Why have doctors or scientists or service workers if nothing matters? Why cook or clean or eat or sleep if nothing matters? It means that life does matter. We have to have some meaning in life to even survive.

Does this mean that I am not Nihilist? I am Nihilistic. I believe that life is meaningful. And I also believe that life is meaningless. It is a balance of meaningful and meaningless. Everything matters yet nothing matters.

So I personally chose to apply nihilism in mindless situations. Like gossiping, partying, watching movies or porn or listening to songs. These are the things which I find to be meaningless in my life. 1. I dont make money from them; 2. They do not give me happiness; 3. They dont make me feel worthwhile. They dont make me feel like I am doing something right with my life. 4. I have been to "that" side of the world. The dating, smoking, drinking or the so called "cool" side of the world. It looks rebellious from a distance. It looks like they are living out their shadows. They are free in the ways I was not. They were having fun, enjoying life, giving a middle finger to society.

Until I got even closer to the scene and realized that the whole cool vibe thing is just a glamorous smoke. Those people were hiding massive insecurities and terrible character dysfunction behind the mask. The difference is that those people chose to deal with their insecurities and flaws with mind numbing distractions. I finally decided to walk a path o self development and meaning.