Also Low Empathy Isnt An Abusive Trait. I Dont Feel Your Emotions Im An Abuser. Fr This Person Gonna

Also low empathy isn’t an abusive trait. I don’t feel your emotions ≠ I’m an abuser. Fr this person gonna get mad at someone for not feeling stuff and then say “well you’re not an ✨empath✨ so obviously you’re abusing me”. Swear to god ableists make no fucking sense.

there is no fucking way 💀💀💀

okay lets just !!! ignore ALLLL of my other symptoms because im not abusive i dont have npd sorry guys npd diagnosis cancelled i dont have it anymore sorry guys because this one person on the internet said so

Shoutout to people with Functional Neurological Disorder

Shoutout to people with functional tics

Shoutout to people who have dystonia

Shoutout to people with Psychogenic non-epileptic seizures

Shoutout to people with paralysis and or weakness

Shoutout to people with tremors

Shoutout to people who shut down/unresponsive episodes

Shoutout to people who have walking difficulties

Shoutout to people who have numbness

Shoutout to people who have speech problems

Shoutout to people with vision problems

Shoutout to people with hearing problems

Shoutout to people with memory loss

Shoutout to everyone with FND

“Everything is ableism these days”

Have you considered the fact that disabled people seeing ableism in every day language and life says more about society and its culture/history than it does about disabled people as a whole?

Discovered our first animal alter today (although he’s not technically an animal so animal presenting).

We have a good few non-humans (fantasy type folks) but no animals. He’s been here for a few years apparently and he’s called Alfie! He shapeshifts between animal forms and is an introject from His Dark Materials. Sooo yeah! Excited to have him around ✨✨

There are times when I relate to Villainelle deeply. A lot of the time she knows that what she’s doing is wrong (ie. not what people want). But occasionally she’ll do something morally wrong that she thinks people genuinely want her to do and therefore it must be right. And then she gets so confused when people are angry at her.

There’s that haunting look of utter hurt puzzlement in her eyes because she did what they asked so why is she being punished?

And that is such a neurodivergent experience it pains me.

anyway

aplatonic people are beautiful and good and deserving. having language to express how they experience the world is not a bad thing, and should Never be framed as such.

if you are aplatonic because of a personality disorder, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of autism, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of trauma, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of a fatigue disorder, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because you're just happier on your own, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of another reason i can't think of rn, you belong.

you are real, and you matter, and you deserve to find pride in being yourself.

- sincerely, an aroacespec