For The Ask Game!!!

💫🧡💗 for the ask game!!!

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Ask game here

💫 - what's your headcount (if you know)?

More than 1300 but like 70% of them are fragments lol

🧡 - do you source-identify?

Kind of, it depends on many factors because in some things I do source-identify and in other I don't

💗 - do you dress up the body in a certain way when you front, or do you not mind how it's already dressed?

Normally we dress up in ways that we like but some alters do little modifications in the appearance to be more comfortable

I didn't expect this but here we go

We actually have multiple front rooms tho we just know good about the main front room as it is... Well the main one lol

It's just a huge room with a super big console, some chairs and other specific rooms like extensions, idk it's very strange to explain it

Idk who to tag, however that wants to do it go ahead 😭

system tag game ! :D

endos do not interact !!

do you have a fronting room ? if so , what does it look like ? how does each headmate feel about the fronting room ?

@rigormortisangel @fangsinyourheart @munebat @sacryficing /nf , and uhhh any other sys mutuals i’m blanking sorry fellas

my fronting room is a giant cardboard box , details are to be figured out i guess ?? i think its really silly /pos , oscar loves it because it likes closed spaces , mordu thinks it’s stupid , i don’t know crash’s opinions , and idk if zephyr’s even been here lol !

As the one who made the list, yeah bro

The systober it's just for fun, if you want to skip a day, don't do it, do it late, just specific days go ahead

The activity is just for fun and not to be seen as an obligation

We're super busy and stressed over irl shit rn but we wanna do systober so badddd

Yall think it'd be okay if we did it late? /genq

-🧟‍♂️ (He/him)

I feel silly for doing this

!! ASK GAME !!

I guarantee no accuracy lol

👥 - How many people are in your system

🎨 - What's everyone's favorite colors?

⌚ - Most common fronters?

🧾 - Collective pronouns?

📚 - Everyone's pronouns?

🍼 - Most common age group?

🎞 - Do you have any fictives?

💖 - Are there any romantic relationships in your system?

🔢 - Does anyone have a favorite number?

🧠 - Are any of your alters neurodivergent?

🏳‍🌈 - How many people are LGBTQIA+

👽 - Do you have any non-human alters (including hybrids)?

🏓 - What are some common hobbies?

😋 - What is the most liked food between everyone?

👀 - Current hyperfixations?

📖 - Do you guys have any collective interests?

🗺 - What is your headspace like? (If you have one)

🐕 - Does anyone have a pet?

🏷 - Does your system have a name?

💭 - Does anyone wanna share something about their source? Feel free to ramble, anyone can answer too!

💥 - Most chaotic group?

😇 - Any demon/angel/god alters?

👴 - Who is the oldest?

🏥 - Are you diagnosed? If yes, was it difficult? If not, do you want one & why or why not?

🏡 - What is your system dynamic (ex, family, friends, complete strangers, etc)

🔂- How do you keep track of your system? (Members, switches, etc)

🐣- Any childhood things that should've tipped you off to being a system?

👍- Do you like being a system?

📤- Do you know any systems IRL?

💕- Do you prefer in-system dating or out-of-system dating?

🙄- What's the most annoying thing about being a system?

❔ - How bad is your amnesia?

💬- Best quote from an alter?

🎮- Do alters have separate accounts for games or do you all share an account?

⬇️ Joke ones ⬇️

🐎 - how often do your alters think about the Trojan empire?

🔮 - do you believe in gravity?

Our syscourse code

Just to make sure, we're open about asks about this and maybe some debates, but if you're not respectful we're just gonna delete it, and if you feel our stances bad or shit like that you're free to block us and unfollow our sideblogs, we're just doing this because we feel like and so the answers are gonna have some more in depth explantion

This is not meant to be a place for attacks, any kind of comment about that would be deleted and reblogs doing with that kind of thing I will block the account without hessitation

Also, endos DNI, don't care if this is tagged with the syscourse tag, it's just because it has to do not because I want you to interact, I gift free blocks yk?

[Syscourse code link]

Question one - Do you believe in endogenic plurality

🤚(NA) - I believe in it but am against it / 👇(NU) - Other

To dive a bit better I do believe in the possibility of experiencing something similar to plurality without the disorder, does this means it would be the same kind of plurality than systems with CDD? Of course not because they're not the same thing, even some people with the disorder don't consider themselves plurals/systems so saying is an only CDD experience it's kinda wonky

I don't believe there's such a thing like "endo system" because system in the context of plurality has been use to explain the CDDs so using it for another types of internal experience that has nothing to do is straight up ableist

I'm also against the endo community because of the way the present and handle thing

It's more like, shit the non CDD "plurals" ruined themselves LMAO /vneg

Question two - Opinion on tulpas

💛 (TC) - I think it is cultural appropriation, and other terms are better

Like if you practice that for real good use it, but many people that use the term tulpa is straight up appropriation and they can find better terms for that :/

Question three - Do you think endos just don't remember their trauma

📘(NETR) - People sometimes misunderstand their identity, it doesn't mean everyone is misunderstanding / not remembering.

It's a big it depends case yk? Understanding yourself it's hard

Question four - Opinion on shared spaces

🔸(NSP) - Shared spaces are good but there should also be specific spaces for disordered, traumagenic, endogenic, etc spaces.

It's good to have shared spaces even outside the plural things, but it's' also important to have specific spaces for the ones who don't want to be in more general ones or want to be in a more specific side if they need to, just like any other space it's good to have the general one and the specific one and respect each others boundaries

Question five - Do you think endogenic plurality is comparable to transX

🟢(TXU) - Not unless the person themselves considers their plurality transX

I believe that transX or trans-ID as I called them is one of the worst shits and I can't believe it's possible to be "transplural" in any kind of way, so yeah don't compare something that can happen with a shit thing

Question six - Do you think you can have DID/OSDD/UDD without trauma

🌑(DTNO) - No

No need to explain myself lol

Question seven - Do you think introjects from other cultures should be able to use that culture's names if they aren't bodily part of it (eg. Japanese introject using Japanese names, while in a white body)

🟦(CNNU) - Other

It has been brought to my attention that people don't really understand what a closed culture is and it's really annoying me, they're policing something they don't fully understand and most of the time is for moral superiority or social pressure especially in the system community which is fucking toxic and shit

Names that are really closed it's not ok to keep them if not given as their disrespectful to the culture, but even with some cultures being close that doesn't mean the names will be closed

So it's more of depends on the name context rather than "the name is from x culture?"

Question eight - Opinion on researched self diagnosis

🌳(SDXI) - If the person has done extensive research it's okay / ☘️(SDXNU) - Other

I don't believe one can diagnose oneself as the disorders are very complex and has a lot of things going on, specially when a lot of things go an overlap with symptoms and conduct behavior on the individual, not just when talking about complex dissociative disorders but for any kind of mental health disorder

Just like physical things you can't diagnosis with some body sickness, sure you can have your suspicions and recognize you might have something based on what you know about it but you can be correct or incorrect about your suspicions, the same happens here

I don't believe you can diagnosis yourself, I believe you can self recognize to have a complex dissociative disorder but using medical diagnosis names while it's just a suspicions I think is wrong, doing enough research like a very good one that takes you several reading months I see that the recognizement of the symptoms can be explained by the system phenomena, but don't claim a specific type of CDD please, that's something only the professionals can do

Question nine - Sysmed as a term

🗯(IDN) I do not want to have an opinion on this

I'm still forming my opinion on this one and therefore I don't want to be in the opinion discourse about this

Question ten - Traumascum as a term

🥖(TSH) - I think it's harmful / 🥧(TSA) - I am against it

This is harmful and ableist as shit, why do people even think this is ok to use? Wtf 💀

Question eleven - Endogenic systems using the term 'system'

🦎(ESD) - If they are diagnosed / 🐲 (ESO) - I think they should use other terms

If they have the diagnosis of a complex dissociative disorder they can use the term system just for describing the alters, if they're gonna describe another part that isn't dissociated and therefore a symptom of the disorder use another term, just like using two different terms at the same time to be respectful with the disorder, yk what I mean?

Question twelve - Endogenic systems using the term 'alter'

🐛 (EAD) - If they are diagnosed / 🐝 (ESO) - I think they should use other terms

Is the same explanation as the above just change system with alters and that, doesn't have lot of backup explaining outside that

Question thirteen - Xeno-origins

🐬(XEN) - I don't understand their purpose

I genuinely can't understand them

So yea that's all, probably I'll make a blog just for talking about syscourse if I feel like or if I have a lot of asks surrounding this post in my inbox because I don't want this to be a syscourse blog because I'm honestly stressed as fuck when it comes to the stupidity of syscourse talking

That's all byeeee

Oh yes I like this games

— ୨୧₊˚ SYSTEM ASK GAME ...

positive posting and silly posting because i'm TIRED of syscourse GRAAAHHH EVERYBODY STFU AND BE HAPPY!!!!!

GENERAL QUESTIONS ...

💫 - what's your headcount (if you know)? ⭐ - are you commonly blurry, or do you usually know who's fronting? 🌟 - who are your frequent fronters currently? ✨ - do you have roles (gatekeepers, hosts, etc.)? do you have any non-conventional ones, if so? (ones that aren't commonly used)

FOR FICTIVES ...

❤ - what is your source or sources, and do you like it/them? 🧡 - do you source-identify? 💛 - what are your opinions on sourcemates in general? 💚 - have you ever directly consumed your source? 🩵 - do you think that the fandoms representation of your source character is accurate, or do you dislike it?

FOR ANY ALTER ...

💘 - do you have a "theme song"/a song you think represents you well? 💝 - do you have friends or relationships in general in headspace? 💖 - do you like fronting? why or why not? 💗 - do you dress up the body in a certain way when you front, or do you not mind how it's already dressed? 💞 - how well do you function with your headmates? EXTRA QUESTIONS (JUST FOR FUN) ...

🫂 - do you have a comfort item, song, or anything like that which you enjoy? 👥 - does your system argue over music playing? 👤 - what's your favorite part of headspace, if you have one? 🗣 - do you have a collective interest in anything?

if any of these questions are similar to a certain other ask game it's because i made one of these a while ago ... BEAR WITH ME GUYS. also please send these in to me as well