One Of The Most Pathetic Things You Can Do Is Make A Cringe Compilation. You're Really Seeing Happy Individuals

one of the most pathetic things you can do is make a cringe compilation. you're really seeing happy individuals existing and celebrating themselves, and your first instinct is that it's 'cringe'? that's truly one of the saddest things I've ever heard. I hope those hollow laughs are worth it.

"cis men dni" are you ready to come out of your "no boys allowed" treehouse yet. its time for lunch.

absolutely off the rails behavior when cis lesbians become enraged when you tell them that it's butchphobic to exclude butches who are transfemme, trans women, transmasc, men, take testosterone, have penises, and/or get top/bottom surgery from the butch and lesbian community. like the fact that we have historically always belonged to the lesbian community has been coming from the mouths of gnc and transfemme & transmasc butches for decades but everyone plugs their ears and doesn't listen.

the lesbian community has such a long and rich history of being a safe place for transfemme, trans women, transmasc, masc, intersex, genderqueer, non binary, and male presenting people who take testosterone and get top and bottom surgeries. before the rise of lesbian separatism and political lesbianism, transmascs & transfemme butches in lesbian spaces were not an issue. also in the past there just wasn't anywhere else for us to go. we were shoved into lesbian spaces by force, but also wanted to stay there because it's a community that's dear to our hearts and still means a lot to us

lesbians were the ones who made it safe for us to be there in the first place.

it's unfathomable to see people who say you should respect butches when it comes to their pronouns, identity, etc., to not invalidate their genders, to not assume anything about what gender they identify with- but the second they find out that some butches who are transfemme, trans women, or take T and still identify as lesbians and dykes they police our identities and bodies and insinuate that we can't be real butch lesbians for x, y and z reasons.

it's just insidious to exclude transfem butches and butch trans women on so many levels. i see this constantly and it's never called out as a form of butchphobia as well as a form of transmisogyny, especially when that person does not want to get bottom surgery. to call any MtF butch a man that's invading the lesbian community is to admit that one knows nothing about the complex gender identities and struggles transfemme butches and butch trans women face. to identify this way is one of the most prolific and powerful expressions of butchness, and what it means to be a butch lesbian. to deny these people the right to call themselves butch is inherently, inarguably butch and lesbophobic as well as trans/misogynistic.

to chase any of these people out of butch, lesbian, dyke and sapphic spaces is inherently butchphobia. yes, butchphobia affects perisex cis butch women, but it also affects so many more people. it affects transmascs and men. it affects genderqueer and non binary people. it affects bigender men. it affects transfemme lesbians and trans lesbian women. it affects trans girls and mtf lesbians in general. it affects intersex people. it affects lesboys. it affects boy/guydykes. it affects queer people of color. it affects studs.

it affects dykes, lesbians, and sapphics in general. this is a form of lesbophobia, trans/androphobia, intersexism, and especially butchphobia, no matter what. we have to accept ALL butches who don't fit into a neat little box of what a masculine queer person should be like.

YEAH. It pisses me off so much. I just want to browse queer tags without seeing nsfw but I guess some people are too GOOD to properly tag their shit. y'all... there are existing tags. Creating new ones feels like a way to dodge the filter and disrespect those of us who don't want to see sex posts in sfw tags! is it REALLY so much to ask for people to not post their ENTIRE dick and balls without proper tagging??!

I'm not entirely convinced some of these blogs are real people though, some of them feel like bot accounts or pieces of shit that steal the nsfw photos of trans women for fetish content. still fucking annoying because tags get flooded by improperly tagged nsfw. 'oh but if we tagged these things correctly we'd get mass reported or something!' an issue that needs to be resolved, but not by pulling out the ancient texts of old to make your fuckass 8 million fuckin tags that EVADE MY FILTERS I am so TIRED-

The amount of people who don't know how to tag shit properly on queer tags is INSANE. There's so much porn/nsfw on our feed because no one can just tag something 'nsfw' they have to invent some new fucking tag like 'lesbian ns/fw' or 'ns/ft.' I don't want to have to filter 50+ tags just because youre too lazy to tag properly.

Trans men and trans women are not opposites. Hope this helps!

"everyone of any identity can be trans and gender diverse and gnc and genderfluid and genderqueer and bigender and multigender and wo/men and boygirls and girlboys and enbies. except gays and lesbians. gays and lesbians can't be any of these things. men only. women only." do you HEAR yourselves.

why must gays and lesbians specifically be corralled into the tightest, most restrictive boxes logically possible? to keep them "pure"? i wonder where that logic comes from !