; Below The Cut Is Me Rambling About Me And Romance / Possibly Being On The Aromantic Spectrum Somewhere

; below the cut is me rambling about me and romance / possibly being on the aromantic spectrum somewhere but very ungrammaticality correct, and with little to no sense. Sorry in advance. /gen /lh

; what would you call it when I like the idea of romance, reading romance, etc. And I also still feel attraction to ppl who I think are attractive- but it's not necessarily romantic. It's more " oh my god they're so pretty I'd love to date them but not actually it'd js be cool because they're so hsvshsvsh " ..

; but I've been in romantic relationships and romantically liked them but then it kinda always dwindles away ?? And also it didn't necessarily take long for that romantic attraction to appear in the first place, but like I didn't even " notice " its presence until they confessed then I was like oh wait me too what !??

; but also some days I look at pictures of people who I used to absolutely jsbshsvs and suddenly they're js a person, and then the next day oh my god they're so pretty date me now ahhhhsgsvsh but not really js more of be my really close probably married best friend but like only once we're close, you're pretty but also not ?? But I wouldn't mind other common relationship things, even sexual things maybe sometimes one day idk ( grayace btw !! ), but it doesn't mean anything but also wait it does !?? But also it sometimes goes away then comes back ahhhhh

; help because that sounds like so many arospec identities all at the same time and like HELP !??? HELP MEEE /gen

; nodding my head while stuffing more microlabels into my super secret bag of queerness+ ( the premium subscription ofc ofc, only costs 30 more hours of your time and stress !!! 🤭🤭 )

Little reminder that if you don't like microlabels because they feel like they're "made up" or "mocking the community", they're not fuckin for you. They're for the people who understand that labels aren't important and that anyone can have as many or as little as they want. So yes, I'll keep my 50 different microlabels that are all just different flavors of aromantic or toric or non-binary, and if you have a problem with that, it fuckin sucks to be you, doesn't it <2

; " In my world, there are two places you can stand. Next to me or the fuck away " !??? OP IM ADDING THIS TO MY QUOTE LIST WHAT. /pos ( but also this whole post. This 100 times omg. )

i have a burning hatred for relationship hierarchies.

Why is it offensive to want to just be friends? Why is it expected for romantic partners to always take prioritization over friends? Why is it rude to tell someone you aren't friends, just chill with each other? Why are queerplatonic relationships seen as a step down from romantic relationships? Why is it bad to not want to make step ups in romantic relationships?

these labels have different meanings and levels importance to everyone, therefore they have no meaning or importance.

in my world, there are two places you can stand. next to me or the fuck away.

; ☹️ you. You are.

hey as a local aroace, i want to specify something.

were no strangers to love. you know the rules and so do i (do i). a full commitments what im thinking of. you wouldnt get this from any other guy. i just wanna tell you how im feeling. gotta make you understand. never gonna give you up. never gonna let you down. never gonna run around and desert you. never gonna make you cry. never gonna say goodbye. never gonna tell a lie and hurt you

; a very tired ( for multiple reasons ) queer over here 👋

I’m ace, aro and tired

Reblog if you are also LGBT+ and tired

; js found out people literally aren't joking and feel romantic attraction to ppl they find attractive even if they don't know them / only saw a post about them. Uhhhhhhhhhhh !??