Hot Take But Liek

Hot take but liek…

It’s not up to other people online to validate your system. That’s between you and your therapist. If you’re so insecure about your system/disorder that you feel like you have to rely on others online “confirming” whether or not you’re a system… that’s a problem that you need to work through. NGL I kinda hate all these “am I valid? uwu” posts I see on Tumblr. Liek… no body but yourself and your therapist is gonna be able to answer that question buddy.

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As an autistic person, the implications of "if they really cared I wouldn't have to say it" culture are really scary. Because I want to know what hurts your feelings, what crosses your boundaries, where the line between teasing and being mean is at for you, what you need, and how to make you feel loved. And the implication that if my disability makes me unable to figure out these things through intuition alone, then I'm just not worth having around, is genuinely heartbreaking

erm.....

heart to heart

How do people do the coolest shit with their simply plural? I see some people with the prettiest images with those masks and I am a clueless person who has never image edited in my life.

I am in awe and silently hoping someone may bestow this knowledge upon me.

Pretty please. With a cherry on top. 🙏

Watching someone go from "cool system on the internet that we follow" to "fakeclaimer because their experience of being a system don't match up with others" is very sad and disappointing.

This person is blocked by us now, but ugh.