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See, when people say bi4bi percabeth, this is truly the only thing I imagine 😂😂😂 so wholesome and funny

bi 4 bi percabeth,,,,, 👉👈

Evil Girlfriends 💖💕

Tbh, this ship has grown on me, so here’s my drawing of them ❤️💜

All the Sloths (Bi4Bi Flag) - Pride Sloths

Another specific request today! (From @bi-dykes-on-bikes ) This is one I wasn't at all familiar with, and when I went looking it up, it looks like there's a couple different ideas of a Bi4Bi flag kicking around. [Image description: Four cartoon sloths standing bipedally in a line, each with a Bi for Bi Pride flag in some way or another. The first one wears the flag as a cape; the second one is holding the flag on a stick; the third one is waving it in the air; the fourth one is holding the flag up in front of itself. The sloths are all slightly different shades of brown. The Bi for Bi Pride Flag is made up of 7 stripes, with a pair of crescent moons "back to back" in the centre. The top three and bottom three are the same width, but the middle stripe is thinner. The stripes are in lavender, periwinkle blue, pale blue, pale pink, pink, purple and indigo. The pair of crescent moons are in white.]

Bi women can’t talk about being in relationships with men because that’s seen as forcing heterosexuality upon gay and lesbian people. Bi women who previously identified as something other than bi can’t talk about the process of realizing they were bi because that’s seen as forcing heterosexuality upon lesbians. Bi women can only talk about being in relationships with women if they add 15 caveats about how they hate other bi women now and have discarded their bisexuality. Bi women in relationships with bi men or with lesbians have to swear up and down that they aren’t fetishizing their partners. 

Bi women can’t talk about being happy (either single or in a relationship) because then people will take that as us having no problems in the world. Bi people can’t talk about mundane issues such as media representation or language about bisexuals because that’s too trivial. Bi women can’t talk about their sex lives or wanting to be polyamorous because that’s seen as too dirty and too gross and too predatory. Bi women can’t produce or consume “sappy wuhluhwuh content” because that’s seen as defanging and disrespecting lesbian identity and yet they can’t talk about bisexual social alienation/trauma/invisibility/loneliness because “invisibility is a privilege” and because “those things are just stolen terms from gay and lesbian people”. 

Bi women can’t talk about being unicorn hunted on dating apps because apparently they don’t face that issue and instead perpetuate it and force lesbians to have threesomes with their male partners (apparently). Bi women can’t talk about intracommunity biphobia without being told that we aren’t radical for dating men and that LGBT spaces are safe gay spaces that we’d be invading. 

Bi women can’t call themselves gay even when they’re in gay relationships. Bi women can’t call themselves tops or bottoms even when they’re having regular gay sex. Bi women can’t call themselves queer because that’s a slur but oh wait, it’s okay when other people weaponize that word against us. Bi women can’t call themselves masc or femme because they’d be stealing those terms from lesbians but oh wait they can’t call themselves tomcats, does, or stags because those terms are cringeworthy imitations of butch/femme. Bi women can’t talk about gender expression without being told they’re appropriating “real” gay culture. Bi women can’t talk about femininity without being told they perform it for men and bi women can’t talk about masculinity without being told that being bi makes it impossible for them to be masculine. 

Bi women can’t talk about how unique relationships between bi women and bi men or bi women and bi women or bi men and bi men are. Bi women can’t call their relationships “bisexual” relationships because that’s somehow “anti-materialism”. Bi women can’t talk about loving their male partners because that’s anti-feminist but they can’t talk about hating men as a class or their trauma with respect to men without being told that it means they must actually be “lesbians suffering from comphet”. 

Bi women can’t talk about solidarity with LGBT people without being seen as selfish, nor can they talk about just bi women without being seen as selfish. 

Bi women can’t talk about the material, systemic, and sexual violence we face because apparently it isn’t real, no matter how much empirically validated proof we offer, and if we do talk about it, we’re stealing lesbian specific experiences or erasing lesbian specific experiences or trying to claim gay and lesbian specific experiences. 

Bi women can’t talk about our place in overall LGBT history (because we were apparently invented in 1998) and we can’t talk about bisexual history (because that’s *spins wheel* taking the focus off the REAL radicals in the community). 

Bi women have to be politically perfect all the time and have to allow people to scrutinize their personal lives and interpersonal relationships and sexual histories/traumas but it’s okay for people to not be in solidarity with us or to even offer us an ounce of empathy (and if we ask for it we’re whiny, selfish, and crying about non-issues). Bi women have to hate themselves and each other and hold each other responsible for all the world’s problems 24/7 but can never hold people responsible for biphobia. 

Bi women can’t even talk about any of these things on their own blogs, in their own spaces, on their own time, with other bi women, because that’s just too much.

There really is no winning. 

Photos not mine, from Pinterest (however, the added text and filtering is done by me :)

Photos not mine, from Pinterest, except the handholding, Love is Love, and hearts photos are all made by me, and the filtering of all images are done by me

Aragorn and Arwen are history's first Bi4Bi couple no I will not elaborate further

I need me a piece of media where a woman simps for a man but like, in a clearly bi4bi way

Percy: Hey, look at this dude he's kinda hot ngl.

*Annabeth looks over, makes a face*

Annabeth: Percy, it's a good thing that you're already with me 'cause your taste in men is shit.

Happy couples sicken me.

Gwendsay sweep ♡

They're so t4t bi4bi we were absolutely robbed of opposite aesthetic gfs </3

I don't know why the quality is absolute ass but yeah..

Two tickets for Barbie and Oppenheimer please! <3

Kinda rushed and messy but I really wanted to draw this <333

Kinda upset about this one ngl... Anyways saint Mary above please bless 🙏🙏 me