Positive Reinforcement - Tumblr Posts
As a special pedagogy student, I can say that it's a very common and successful way of rewarding kids for doing something or just behaving correctly
When they get a sticker, let's say because they cleaned their desk, they learn that their behaviour is being rewarded with something they like, instead of stickers we can use candy/toy/a trip. They will be repeating correct behaviour to receive the reward
It's called operant conditioning, more detailed, positive reinforcement
I don't know why I wrote all that, maybe because I wanted to explain why the stuff works, or just wanted to show off hihi
The day planner of "You did it!" stickers has begun 😂
Yes. I gave myself a sticker for doing my job.
_______🌿Learning New Languages🌿______
Saying what you mean and how to say that Clearly in communication can sometimes be difficult all on its own as n area of development.
We want to be heard, understood,. But how do we come about being receptive in a way that's good to Us?
It's easy to fall back into the simplicity of self diminishing languages. Punishing ourselves for the smallest little things and inconveniences. You know what's not simple? Trying to stop when you've made it a habit in every event you don't do to your own satisfaction.
It's harder still to stop when there are self deprecating jokes in the social circles. Most think nothing of it,. A little jab. A little prod at the amusement of others to open their mouths and say something that befits no one with heart.
This goes with another Write that I did here about Practicing Mindful Positivity.
This is no different. From the media you consume to the people you socialize with and the areas you frequent. Some of you realize you put in a lot here, only to get the same energy out you do anywhere else you try. Part of that could be from bringing in the same energy (feeling like you're the mistake, making all the mistakes), but more than not, you're surrounded by unconsensual meda.
Media you have control of, but it's hard to weed out the negative in a place so many go to unload the negative and put so much of that out in the world. It's important to vent. It's IMPORTANT to Vent., to not hold all that in, but there's also Passive Release over Agressive Release.
You can talk about your day., your work, your stubbed toes or cut hand without it being how Stupid you were in this or how Dumb that was to do and you knew better..
You made mistakes. The day felt like a loss, but you kept trying. Things got worse, and now you're worse for wear than you started. It wasn't the day you deserved, but it's the one despite your efforts for good, and to get back up, you ended up tired, aching, and maimed on the ground. You can't say you didn't try and try. The point again is not to succeed. It's to try until you feel you do enough for you, and in many cases of practicing enough, you do succeed, and that always feels good! It's okay to be mad. It's OKAY to be frustrated and Voice that, but consider a blog Just for the harder things you need to vent, going over it a few times there and trying to rewrite it with the same energy, but in a positive and maybe even Educational sort of way, even if only for yourself. That's a well dedicated page of method, development and atonement, healthier than any name calling or diminishing of your effort.
Practice. Practice. Practice.
Positivity, like any other energy, can and does take habit after a time. You put it into practice, you make routines of those practices, those routines become mindful awarenesses and before you know it, the flowers are reaching through the picket boards just begging for a little attention from so much sunshine walking.
Language is super important.
We need it to communicate with ourselves and with others. It should be utilized in a way both those aspects hold happiness, if not educational awareness. Development. GROWTH.
The same things all these posts are about rely Wholly on Communication. Before anyone else, with yourself. This is a harder lesson for many. To stop punishing yourself in your head, in your words, in the way you write things and take blame for EVERYTHING. Sorry sorry sorry sorry no. Stop being sorry for everything, not all that is yours to carry. Let's dust you off, straighten that crown and remember,.
You are in charge. You have a say. Make that say for and about you in the most Uplifting and Positive ways you can. It won't be easy to start., but by the time it's routine, you'll see you in the mirror again, and you'll be smiling.
You matter. Your VOICE matters. Don't let it or you go unheard another day. ♻️
Do Unto Others includes YOU. 🌿
I'm proud of you for being here today.
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Angry? Sad? Scared? Worried? Confused? Bitter? Anxious? Nervous? Unsure?
My ASKs [Public and Private] & Inbox are ALWAYS OPEN. This is a Judgement Free Zone.
Not ready to talk? That's okay, this post and posts like it under my 📖 tag are just for you in those instances. Please take your time there.
[Friendly reminder that this tag 📖 in my tags list will ALWAYS lead you to Positivity. Self Health, Internal Growth And Development, Truthful Reassurance, Tools to learn HOW to Fish and not just more fish in the now.. it is not monitored who shares or uses these posts. These ones I write myself just for all of you. It's for all of us. Share it. Use it. Recycle it. Chew it like ginger gum. For an intrinsic boost of wellness.]
[Friendly reminder that this tag 📖 in my tags list will ALWAYS lead you to Positivity. Self Health, Internal Growth And Development, Truthful Reassurance, Tools to learn HOW to Fish and not just more fish in the now.. it is not monitored who shares or uses these posts. These ones I write myself just for all of you. It's for all of us. Share it. Use it. Recycle it. Chew it like ginger gum. For an intrinsic boost of wellness.]
_______🌿Learning New Languages🌿______
Saying what you mean and how to say that Clearly in communication can sometimes be difficult all on its own as n area of development.
We want to be heard, understood,. But how do we come about being receptive in a way that's good to Us?
It's easy to fall back into the simplicity of self diminishing languages. Punishing ourselves for the smallest little things and inconveniences. You know what's not simple? Trying to stop when you've made it a habit in every event you don't do to your own satisfaction.
It's harder still to stop when there are self deprecating jokes in the social circles. Most think nothing of it,. A little jab. A little prod at the amusement of others to open their mouths and say something that befits no one with heart.
This goes with another Write that I did here about Practicing Mindful Positivity.
This is no different. From the media you consume to the people you socialize with and the areas you frequent. Some of you realize you put in a lot here, only to get the same energy out you do anywhere else you try. Part of that could be from bringing in the same energy (feeling like you're the mistake, making all the mistakes), but more than not, you're surrounded by unconsensual meda.
Media you have control of, but it's hard to weed out the negative in a place so many go to unload the negative and put so much of that out in the world. It's important to vent. It's IMPORTANT to Vent., to not hold all that in, but there's also Passive Release over Agressive Release.
You can talk about your day., your work, your stubbed toes or cut hand without it being how Stupid you were in this or how Dumb that was to do and you knew better..
You made mistakes. The day felt like a loss, but you kept trying. Things got worse, and now you're worse for wear than you started. It wasn't the day you deserved, but it's the one despite your efforts for good, and to get back up, you ended up tired, aching, and maimed on the ground. You can't say you didn't try and try. The point again is not to succeed. It's to try until you feel you do enough for you, and in many cases of practicing enough, you do succeed, and that always feels good! It's okay to be mad. It's OKAY to be frustrated and Voice that, but consider a blog Just for the harder things you need to vent, going over it a few times there and trying to rewrite it with the same energy, but in a positive and maybe even Educational sort of way, even if only for yourself. That's a well dedicated page of method, development and atonement, healthier than any name calling or diminishing of your effort.
Practice. Practice. Practice.
Positivity, like any other energy, can and does take habit after a time. You put it into practice, you make routines of those practices, those routines become mindful awarenesses and before you know it, the flowers are reaching through the picket boards just begging for a little attention from so much sunshine walking.
Language is super important.
We need it to communicate with ourselves and with others. It should be utilized in a way both those aspects hold happiness, if not educational awareness. Development. GROWTH.
The same things all these posts are about rely Wholly on Communication. Before anyone else, with yourself. This is a harder lesson for many. To stop punishing yourself in your head, in your words, in the way you write things and take blame for EVERYTHING. Sorry sorry sorry sorry no. Stop being sorry for everything, not all that is yours to carry. Let's dust you off, straighten that crown and remember,.
You are in charge. You have a say. Make that say for and about you in the most Uplifting and Positive ways you can. It won't be easy to start., but by the time it's routine, you'll see you in the mirror again, and you'll be smiling.
You matter. Your VOICE matters. Don't let it or you go unheard another day. ♻️
Do Unto Others includes YOU. 🌿
I'm proud of you for being here today.
=======================
Angry? Sad? Scared? Worried? Confused? Bitter? Anxious? Nervous? Unsure?
My ASKs [Public and Private] & Inbox are ALWAYS OPEN. This is a Judgement Free Zone.
Not ready to talk? That's okay, this post and posts like it under my 📖 tag are just for you in those instances. Please take your time there.