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_______🌿Learning New Languages🌿______
Saying what you mean and how to say that Clearly in communication can sometimes be difficult all on its own as n area of development.
We want to be heard, understood,. But how do we come about being receptive in a way that's good to Us?
It's easy to fall back into the simplicity of self diminishing languages. Punishing ourselves for the smallest little things and inconveniences. You know what's not simple? Trying to stop when you've made it a habit in every event you don't do to your own satisfaction.
It's harder still to stop when there are self deprecating jokes in the social circles. Most think nothing of it,. A little jab. A little prod at the amusement of others to open their mouths and say something that befits no one with heart.
This goes with another Write that I did here about Practicing Mindful Positivity.
This is no different. From the media you consume to the people you socialize with and the areas you frequent. Some of you realize you put in a lot here, only to get the same energy out you do anywhere else you try. Part of that could be from bringing in the same energy (feeling like you're the mistake, making all the mistakes), but more than not, you're surrounded by unconsensual meda.
Media you have control of, but it's hard to weed out the negative in a place so many go to unload the negative and put so much of that out in the world. It's important to vent. It's IMPORTANT to Vent., to not hold all that in, but there's also Passive Release over Agressive Release.
You can talk about your day., your work, your stubbed toes or cut hand without it being how Stupid you were in this or how Dumb that was to do and you knew better..
You made mistakes. The day felt like a loss, but you kept trying. Things got worse, and now you're worse for wear than you started. It wasn't the day you deserved, but it's the one despite your efforts for good, and to get back up, you ended up tired, aching, and maimed on the ground. You can't say you didn't try and try. The point again is not to succeed. It's to try until you feel you do enough for you, and in many cases of practicing enough, you do succeed, and that always feels good! It's okay to be mad. It's OKAY to be frustrated and Voice that, but consider a blog Just for the harder things you need to vent, going over it a few times there and trying to rewrite it with the same energy, but in a positive and maybe even Educational sort of way, even if only for yourself. That's a well dedicated page of method, development and atonement, healthier than any name calling or diminishing of your effort.
Practice. Practice. Practice.
Positivity, like any other energy, can and does take habit after a time. You put it into practice, you make routines of those practices, those routines become mindful awarenesses and before you know it, the flowers are reaching through the picket boards just begging for a little attention from so much sunshine walking.
Language is super important.
We need it to communicate with ourselves and with others. It should be utilized in a way both those aspects hold happiness, if not educational awareness. Development. GROWTH.
The same things all these posts are about rely Wholly on Communication. Before anyone else, with yourself. This is a harder lesson for many. To stop punishing yourself in your head, in your words, in the way you write things and take blame for EVERYTHING. Sorry sorry sorry sorry no. Stop being sorry for everything, not all that is yours to carry. Let's dust you off, straighten that crown and remember,.
You are in charge. You have a say. Make that say for and about you in the most Uplifting and Positive ways you can. It won't be easy to start., but by the time it's routine, you'll see you in the mirror again, and you'll be smiling.
You matter. Your VOICE matters. Don't let it or you go unheard another day. ♻️
Do Unto Others includes YOU. 🌿
I'm proud of you for being here today.
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Angry? Sad? Scared? Worried? Confused? Bitter? Anxious? Nervous? Unsure?
My ASKs [Public and Private] & Inbox are ALWAYS OPEN. This is a Judgement Free Zone.
Not ready to talk? That's okay, this post and posts like it under my 📖 tag are just for you in those instances. Please take your time there.
[Friendly reminder that this tag 📖 in my tags list will ALWAYS lead you to Positivity. Self Health, Internal Growth And Development, Truthful Reassurance, Tools to learn HOW to Fish and not just more fish in the now.. it is not monitored who shares or uses these posts. These ones I write myself just for all of you. It's for all of us. Share it. Use it. Recycle it. Chew it like ginger gum. For an intrinsic boost of wellness.]
Need Help? Positive✨️Energy? SELF Health?
Hard day?
Hard LIFE?
Shit Sucks?
I have things about that, Here : 📖
Please feel free to turn some pages any time you feel the need to hear good. Truth. Healthy placement. Development. Growth for you.
It's for you. For me, and anyone who needs it. Any time.
[Click tag attached to post for +1up wellness]
unfortunately a lot of the corny self help advice turns out to be true but the thing is you have to come to those conclusions yourself otherwise it just sounds dismissive and dumb
Need Help? Positive✨️Energy? SELF Health?
Hard day?
Hard LIFE?
Shit Sucks?
I have things about that, Here : 📖
Please feel free to turn some pages any time you feel the need to hear good. Truth. Healthy placement. Development. Growth for you.
It's for you. For me, and anyone who needs it. Any time.
[Click tag attached to post for +1up wellness]
Someday someone is going to be so soft and gentle with your heart.
__________🌿PSA to Say Hello!🌿_________
No matter what, for those who come to me with or for anything you may want to talk about, ask,.
If not for any other reason, I can't stand the little blue marker Ⓜ️ messages and reacts notify with so every single message or notification I look into and often immediately if I'm available mentally. I open and read everything. I promise I will try to do my best. I know I'm a bit awkward, but you're always welcome to come say hi. I am friendly. I'm just a freak. Hearing from those who care what I post, how I post, just need a boost, a chat about semantics or nature or a deserving compliment because you've felt without lately to get through the day a little easier., we all deserve to know someone is proud of us, is listening with the intent to understand. Makes room for us to have a voice. I am proud of you for simply being you and being here with yourself today. Don't forget you have your own voice, and it's welcome here should you feel like being sociable.
[If you are coming for help but you don't feel like you can be sociable, I add to THIS: 📖 tag daily or very near daily. It's all Positivity. Growth and development. Tried and true methods, reminders, tips and tricks, boosters,. All good. All positive. All the time. Help yourself always]
I know a lot of us worry; "Well, what if I put myself out there and do that work to break through the anxiety and they don't even respond?",. Firstly.. you're worth more than the reliance of response from me or anyone else outside a consenting adult dynamic. Don't worry if you do the work and someone doesn't get that, see that effort.. sure, it's a loss, but it's not yours. They didn't click, and that's a shame. It just wasn't meant to mesh sometimes, and that doesn't mean you're worth any less than being the complete human you are, or your value is reliant on the attention others give. You can learn strength in independence, in your reliance to self. Respect you.
Please hydrate, take your medicine and maybe have a wee snack? Pretty please? Sunshine maybe? Hm? Doesn't that sound healthy?
Thanks for coming to my show! 💃
[Friendly reminder that this tag 📖 in my tags list will ALWAYS lead you to Positivity. Self Health, Internal Growth And Development, Truthful Reassurance, Tools to learn HOW to Fish and not just more fish in the now.. it is not monitored who shares or uses these posts. These ones I write myself just for all of you. It's for all of us. Share it. Use it. Recycle it. Chew it like ginger gum. For an intrinsic boost of wellness.]
_______🌿Learning New Languages🌿______
Saying what you mean and how to say that Clearly in communication can sometimes be difficult all on its own as n area of development.
We want to be heard, understood,. But how do we come about being receptive in a way that's good to Us?
It's easy to fall back into the simplicity of self diminishing languages. Punishing ourselves for the smallest little things and inconveniences. You know what's not simple? Trying to stop when you've made it a habit in every event you don't do to your own satisfaction.
It's harder still to stop when there are self deprecating jokes in the social circles. Most think nothing of it,. A little jab. A little prod at the amusement of others to open their mouths and say something that befits no one with heart.
This goes with another Write that I did here about Practicing Mindful Positivity.
This is no different. From the media you consume to the people you socialize with and the areas you frequent. Some of you realize you put in a lot here, only to get the same energy out you do anywhere else you try. Part of that could be from bringing in the same energy (feeling like you're the mistake, making all the mistakes), but more than not, you're surrounded by unconsensual meda.
Media you have control of, but it's hard to weed out the negative in a place so many go to unload the negative and put so much of that out in the world. It's important to vent. It's IMPORTANT to Vent., to not hold all that in, but there's also Passive Release over Agressive Release.
You can talk about your day., your work, your stubbed toes or cut hand without it being how Stupid you were in this or how Dumb that was to do and you knew better..
You made mistakes. The day felt like a loss, but you kept trying. Things got worse, and now you're worse for wear than you started. It wasn't the day you deserved, but it's the one despite your efforts for good, and to get back up, you ended up tired, aching, and maimed on the ground. You can't say you didn't try and try. The point again is not to succeed. It's to try until you feel you do enough for you, and in many cases of practicing enough, you do succeed, and that always feels good! It's okay to be mad. It's OKAY to be frustrated and Voice that, but consider a blog Just for the harder things you need to vent, going over it a few times there and trying to rewrite it with the same energy, but in a positive and maybe even Educational sort of way, even if only for yourself. That's a well dedicated page of method, development and atonement, healthier than any name calling or diminishing of your effort.
Practice. Practice. Practice.
Positivity, like any other energy, can and does take habit after a time. You put it into practice, you make routines of those practices, those routines become mindful awarenesses and before you know it, the flowers are reaching through the picket boards just begging for a little attention from so much sunshine walking.
Language is super important.
We need it to communicate with ourselves and with others. It should be utilized in a way both those aspects hold happiness, if not educational awareness. Development. GROWTH.
The same things all these posts are about rely Wholly on Communication. Before anyone else, with yourself. This is a harder lesson for many. To stop punishing yourself in your head, in your words, in the way you write things and take blame for EVERYTHING. Sorry sorry sorry sorry no. Stop being sorry for everything, not all that is yours to carry. Let's dust you off, straighten that crown and remember,.
You are in charge. You have a say. Make that say for and about you in the most Uplifting and Positive ways you can. It won't be easy to start., but by the time it's routine, you'll see you in the mirror again, and you'll be smiling.
You matter. Your VOICE matters. Don't let it or you go unheard another day. ♻️
Do Unto Others includes YOU. 🌿
I'm proud of you for being here today.
=======================
Angry? Sad? Scared? Worried? Confused? Bitter? Anxious? Nervous? Unsure?
My ASKs [Public and Private] & Inbox are ALWAYS OPEN. This is a Judgement Free Zone.
Not ready to talk? That's okay, this post and posts like it under my 📖 tag are just for you in those instances. Please take your time there.