Hey Just Checking In Want To Make Sure You're Doing Ok :D

Hey just checking in want to make sure you're doing ok :D

HAHA I'M DANDY.

(All jokes aside tho, I really appreciate the ask 🖤 hope you're doing better than I am)

I enjoy novels with a bit of romance just like the next guy, but I'm getting sick of reading the same lame ass relationship dynamic where a masculine man with anger issues and overprotective tendencies (that end up paying off in the end) is with a feminine woman who has little to no personality besides sarcastic comments and sex appeal (and was obviously written by a man who had no idea how to write women).

That being said, does anyone have any book recommendations featuring a relationship dynamic that's more interesting and less misogynistic? Preferably where the woman is the dominant, masculine one in the relationship and the man is softer and more feminine.

(Bonus points if there's a kidnapping involved. I eat that shit for breakfast.)

"On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?' And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness."

-Matthew 7:22-23

Here's your reminder that Biblical scripture is not a customizable template awaiting your feelings and individual bias to fill in the lines. You can claim to commit murder or any other atrocity "in the name of Jesus," but just know that those will be His words to you on Judgement Day.

Stop forming baseless opinions and begin opening up your heart and mind to His perfect teaching.

Borderlines of Tumblr who have been either hospitalized or medicated (or both)... how did it affect you? What were some pros and cons of your experience?

I know DBT and other types of therapy are the highest recommended forms of treatment for those with BPD. I've been going to therapy for the past few months, and my therapist truly is amazing, but my loved ones and I have recently made the difficult decision that I need more intense care than I am receiving. We're not sure exactly what method to pursue, but the options on the table are medication and hospitalization. I don't know how I feel about either to be honest with you, I just know I can't live like this anymore. I'd like to hear some of your stories before coming to any sort of conclusion. If you'd take the time to comment or reblog or even privately dm me on this topic it would mean the world to me.

Thanks guys.

I feel this so much. I have traumatic memories attached to, of all things, Perfect by Ed Sheeran. Yes, you read that right, ED FUCKING SHEERAN.

I hate that songs will have memories attached to them so you can't listen to them anymore without crying. Most of the time it will be a sad song right? Well I didn't get lucky with that

WHY DO I WANT TO CRY AT THIS.

LIKE WTF DO YOU MEAN THE DAMN TUMBLING PADDIES

meow /positive

Absolutely.