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It’s a meme in our system now. Inside joke.

Also: colored picture of Simon📖! He looks a lot healthier than Sick!Simon, mostly because he is. Blue makes sure he takes care of himself, and he writes a lot for his own enjoyment, not because a therapist told him to.

We’ve been discussing possibly posting some of his writing. He’s debating about it.

How Simon Henriksson of him ;p

-🩶👻

Oh boy oh boy oh boy!!

Haven’t been fake claimed to our faces yet. And we don’t have different handwriting, mostly because we rely 100% on muscle memory for writing.

In favor of our most recent post about people making "DID fakers" bingo, I made my own DID bingo card. Feel free to fill it out and see if you have a bingo

–John

you've stripped him of so many of his qualities that it's no longer "he would not say that". it's "who the fuck even is that guy"

May this post serve as a reminder:

Don’t trauma dump on the internet. No matter how upset you are. Write it in a journal first, calm down, and then reread it later. If you still want to share it, share it.

Don’t be like Ghost and post a bunch of stuff on the internet, reread it, and then immediately delete the message as you realize it’s not something you should share with everyone and their mother.

-☀️

You’re not wrong for defending yourself. Be selfish. Take pride in yourself. Live a life you’re proud of, and don’t let anyone else’s negative view of you bring you down. Because this is your life.

It’s your life. If they’re not happy with it, it’s not their problem.

I’m apart of a system that struggles to defend themselves. Protectors sometimes fail to do this because other alters hold them back in fear of being perceived in a negative light.

But you don’t need to worry about that.

Today, I want you to make a list of the things you can and can’t control in your life. The things you have no control over? Don’t worry about them. Now, it’ll hurt when those things don’t go your way. That’s fine. It’s normal, even. But you should put more of your focus on what you can control.

We’re starting a new journal to help our mental health. I’m going to post the exercises we’re doing so that you may join us as we try and improve our mental health and self-confidence.

Stay safe out there, Stars! :)

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source trauma sucks ass because theres no way to explain it to non systems without sounding fuckin insane

like yeah i can remember these things in vivid detail and it hurts me to my soul to think about them but its not like it happend in the real world so why does it matter