Ableds Will B Shitty Abt Disabled Ppl Needing Carers But Then Hire A Plumber When They Can't Fix Their

ableds will b shitty abt disabled ppl needing carers but then hire a plumber when they can't fix their plumbing themselves, what happened 2 all that "do it urself" "stop being lazy and take some responsibility" bs "don't go 2 the doctor if u just power thru it and do ur best every day 1 day u'll recover from that bullet wound all on ur own, if u go 2 the doctor u'll just become dependent and u'll b being a leech on society but if u just act like u don't hav a bullet wound and hold urself 2 the same expectations as if u didn't 2 the point where u hate urself 4 even wanting help in the 1st place then 1 day u'll develop deadpool lvl regeneration" like damn bitch at least buy me dinner 1st b4 u fuk me over that much

mayb society can just fuk off and cry abt it if me being happy as a disabled person upsets them so fkin much

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Femme

i was 2day years old when i found out that the term "femme" is not just specifically 4 lesbians but 4 any queer person of any gender who connects w/ the term [link here] and so now it's time once again 2 figure out if a term the straights said wasn't 4 me applies 2 me or not

this comic sums up my feelings as a white passing mixed person

like sure ppl look at me and think im white but i think ppl don't realise that that doesn't mean im treated as a white person, i get treated differently as soon as they find out im mixed and not white and i still get comments abt my hair and my body proportions which r different bc im mixed not 2 mention deit culture,

[warning disordered eating, ppl being shitty abt bodies race fetish and mixed baby fetish talk and gatekeeping mention]

i had a problem w/ eating where i wouldn't eat any more than 2 small meals a day and sometimes only 1 small meal a day and sometimes not even that and yet bc of how my fat distribution naturally is i still had my big thighs and ppl called me fat bc of it, not 2 mention the fact that most of the "positivity posts" abt my body type [im kinda a pear shape] is white ppl fetishising it and acting like that somehow makes them better

not 2 mention finding out that 1 of the reasons i exist is bc my dad had a race fetish but whenever monoracial ppl talk abt stuff like that most of the 1s ive seen on youtube still do a 180 2 then talk abt how "mixed ppl aren't our allies" and say we're the same as white ppl, it rly does feel that as soon as we hit puberty they demonise us especially when we start talking abt our own experiences

then there's the fact that the "mixed look" is defined atm by white ppl trying 2 look like us but then that gets labelled as oppression that's only against monoracial ppl

tbh this is y after years of putting up w/ this shit im starting think that the term white passing should b retired bc it's just the same as the term straight passing being used against bisexual ppl, dealing w/ bigotry and then on top of that dealing w/ erasure from ur own community and being told u don't belong there only 4 them 2 then turn around and call u stuck up 4 not interacting w/ them is not a privilege

Credit: @pet_foolery

im on a roll ranting abt things that r annoying me 2day ig so while im here fuck ouran high school host club

im so sick of seeing it show up on "top 10 anime w/ nb characters" lists, 1] the main character is not even confirmed nb and 2] the show is so bad, like i know a lot of ppl reading this probably haven't looked at the show since they were a teenager but i decided 2 look back on it bc i remembered some weird shit and thought "nah it couldn't hav been that bad" but it was, watching ohshc is like when ur in the cottagecore tag and u come across 1 of those tradwife posts where u think it's cottagecore at 1st but then u read the description and c there's some alt right bs going on

in short ohshc is full of misogyny, lesbophobia, fetishization of queer men, incest and pedo shit and glorification of sexual assult

the literal plot of the show is a gnc afab falls 4 this rich boy and hijinks ensue and they now need 2 crossdress and pretend 2 b a guy also the rich boy wants 2 b w/ them but also wants them 2 conform 2 gender norms and is only ok w/ them being gnc when it's 4 the profit of the host club so it's actually way worse if u do read the main character as nb bc rich dick is constantly trying 2 get them 2 b "more like a girl"

also the whole fanservice w/ the incest twins

also the antagonists 2 just a group of lesbians from the rival school and rich dick has a whole arse speech abt how lesbians bad and not what god intended or w/e tf, also even if that 1 was due 2 translation from sub 2 dub they still use the lesbians exclusively 4 feminazi "jokes" including making them do a nazi salute in front of the nazi flag also the show wants u 2 ship the 1 that's called "the boy lolita" [aka pedo bait] w/ his cousin who is also his man servant

and then there was that epsiode where rich dick flirted w/ an elementary school kid and they recruited another elementary school kid into their host club who then was flirting w/ and getting hit on by high schoolers as if that's somehow normal

and then there's the fuking beach episode where the main character is scolded 4 trying 2 save these 2 teenage girls who were being sexually assaulted [groped] by 2 guys who were i think in their 40s or some shit? point being every1 tells her she shouldn't hav tried 2 help bc "she's a girl" and she should've instead relied on the men 2 help her save them, later in the same episode glasses bitch pretends he's going 2 rape her 2 remind her of her place as a woman and this is played as fanservice

and that's just the bs i can remember off the top of my head

so yeh don't go 2 ohshc if u want good nb rep, i'd recommend just watching steven universe or craig of the creek, if u want anime the sub of tiger and bunny might b a good 1 2 check out

as a trans person living in the uk i always cringe a little whenever i c some1 in america call the uk "terf island" and act like it's all 1 entity and every country in the uk agrees and act like it's so much worse than the usa when some states in america still hav the trans panic clause, don't get me wrong the uk is full of terfs but it's got less open transphobia than the usa and it's not like the uk is more transphobic, it's just transphobic in a different way and that's w/out talking abt the americans on the dirtbag left who use it as an excuse 2 straight up dehumanize every1 living in the uk and make "jokes" abt nuking the whole place, not 2 mention i feel like a lot of ppl in the usa 4get that not everywhere in the uk agrees and scotland is still currently [unfortunately] part of the uk, i live in scotland and in terms of legal stuff im a lot less scared living here than i would b in the usa, im honestly so sick of hearing americans say that transphobia is more prevalent here than it is where they live, it honestly just feels like they r using it as an excuse 2 point fingers instead of dealing w/ their own country's problems