Chocoqtelle - Chocoqtelle

⠀ʚ ︶ㅤ۫ㅤ۪ㅤ𝖼𝖺𝖿𝖾 𝖼͟𝗈͟𝗆 𝖺𝗆𝗈𝗋ㅤֺㅤ֢ㅤૂ

˚ ༘ ♡ ˚ What odds are against you right now? ๋࣭ ⭑

🐰 pile one ୨୧⠀

the main things against you right now are things that you're causing yourself. you refuse to leave toxic situations and people and just leave yourself there as a way of emotionally harming/punishing yourself. you also don't acknowledge the good things you have/do. you only focus on the bad things and use bad situations and people to hurt yourself even more because you think you deserve it. you overwork and overthink yourself to the point that you don't even have the energy to try to convince yourself to stop sulking. try to be more optimistic and work less. there are more important things than working. you can't enjoy a fulfilling life if all you do is work through it without any time for enjoyment.

🥞 pile two ୨୧⠀

you have issues with letting go of the past. it's hard for you to focus and to manage your emotions. you could have bpd or bipolar disorder? either way, emotional management is difficult for you and small inconveniences trigger your anger issues easily. you have to learn how to manage that and not take the small things so seriously. you could have trauma that caused these issues,, especially if you have had father issues before or emotional abuse/reactionary abuse. you can seem immature sometimes because the way you react completely based off emotions. remember to take time to think about what actions you should take instead of what you want to do or feel like you have to do.

🍼 pile three ୨୧⠀

you're being held back because you always dedicate yourself too much to people who don't deserve it or ever give back to you. you're being taught the same lesson over and over without learning it. you can't keep giving people attention when they don't deserve it. you keep letting yourself go through heartbreak over and over again but don't ever notice the pattern. reflect more on what happened in the past (without stressing about it or being depressed about what happened) so you can notice what happened in all the situations. once you find the common factor,, it'll be easier for you to move forward. make sure to reflect more often and take care of yourself. you might have to do this through a diary/journal, photo book, any type of art, or shadow work.

⠀ʚ ︶ㅤ۫ㅤ۪ㅤthank you for readingㅤֺㅤ֢ㅤૂ

PAC, how will you unlock your fs's heart?

P1 P2 P2

P1

First off, making your partner feel safe and/or actually keeping them safe. Also going on dates. Your fs could struggle with trusting people. They like how you make sure they're alright financially but allow them to remain independent as well. I feel like you may be rich or more financially stable when in comparison to this person so they feel like they're living a life of luxury with you. They're glad you recognize your own flaws kind of like it's a hidden part of you.

P2

One of the reasons they'll fall in love with you is because you're very fair but less in a "harmonious balance" way and more in a "chaotic nanno" way. You're also very emotional mature or balanced. You know how to manage your emotions and seem mostly calm. You're independent and don't need others to fight your battles for you. It's not just to impress, you genuinely prefer to deal with your own issues. You stand out to them. I'm getting that you shine brighter than others to them.

P1

They're in love with you because you're able to remain being yourself regardless of backlash and hate from other people. You probably are good at making people feel better even if you're not doing it on purpose. You provide good insight for people when they need help with making important choices. You may have gone through some terrible things, maybe even with this person for some. If this person was wrong before, they wanna prove that they're better now. If not, they wanna show they can be better than how you were treated before by other people.

pac,, what is holding you back?

꒰ pile one ꒱

you're held back by this act or show you put on for validation from others. you act like you don't feel anything. you try to be calm and confident but it's okay to not be like that all the time. you have to stop worrying about others so much. you shouldn't care that much about what anybody else thinks about you. you should base your own self worth of how you actually feel without influence from other people. it's okay to not always be strong. dont be so obsessed with material things. money and items are comforting and all but there are more important things.

꒰ pile two ꒱

you have these really intense boundaries. possibly from a parental figure or someone you really looked up to. you have issues trusting people and opening up. you're choosing to ignore them or you're approaching them in the wrong way. you have to approach your issues gently and slowly. it won't all disappear instantly. you might only be able to handle rough or aggressiveness from others and yourself but it's okay to be and feel soft sometimes. you may also be attracted to pile one.

꒰ pile three ꒱

you have such sweet wholesome energy. someone took advantage of you, though. they made you think they were trustworthy and then betrayed you. could have been a close friend. maybe even an entire friend group. this left you feeling lonely. you don't fit in because you're not around the right people. don't blame yourself for being "too awkward" or anything like that. you don't need to be everybody's friend. be your own friend first. you don't need the people you're looking for. they aren't like you and you shouldn't have to change who you are.

I'm back <333

Soulmate sounds legit. Thank you so much for the PAC 😊

I'm glad it was accurate ヾ(＾-＾)ノ

y'all I just found out abt dms on here 😭😭😭 I'm responding now tho 💀💀💀