Soulmate Sounds Legit. Thank You So Much For The PAC

Soulmate sounds legit. Thank you so much for the PAC 😊

I'm glad it was accurate ヾ(＾-＾)ノ

☀ pac,, what should you focus on this summer? ☀

🌊 pile one,,

this summer you should focus on finding a balance between work and play. keep in mind, this doesn't just mean working your ass off. it means letting yourself relax too when you need to. you may have to let yourself have more fun. you have to learn to congratulate yourself for your major ( and even minor) successes and to not hold your failures above your head. giving yourself praise for doing good is not a crime. you may end up getting a summer job.

🥥 pile two,,

you need to get out more this summer. you could struggle with depression, which could stop you from leaving the house or a fear of taking risks. this summer work to get yourself out the house. you need to take more risks and try new things. possibly for your love life. you might need to see more people. a past lover might have scarred you, but these new people aren't them. you've been through it once so you've experienced the worst already. trust me, you'll live.

👙 pile three,,

if you're in school, you should study more this summer. you might have slacked off really heavily in class and missed out on some information or forgot it. maybe you're trying to go to a new school that has high standards for students. either way, studying over break could be good. don't let other stuff get in your way. personal things could have distracted you in school. well this summer, push those aside. ignore your distractions and start studying. don't overwork yourself.

PAC, what you're doing right vs wrong

one two three

Pile one,,

Right:

currently you're working on yourself and dedicating time for yourself. you're analyzing the past and improving based on what you did wrong before. this mental health journey is really significant for you. working on your personal hobbies and talents is really helpful right now and could be a way you are dedicating time for yourself.

Wrong:

right now you are pushing people away and ignoring the people that genuinely care about you and are in your best interest. you're fearing change and actively refusing to improve or change at all. you're also holding yourself to this incredible standard. you're letting yourself rely on others too much/letting others rely on you too much and it's making you/them weaker. you have to get out of your head and make changes yourself.

Pile two,,

Right:

you're taking a rest, especially from people. you're holding yourself back from dealing with a toxic masculine person (could be any gender ofc). this person is negative for you and it's best to keep your distance as you're doing right now. you're doing something new, a big change from how things usually are for you. you're finally taking this leap and moving forward.

Wrong:

You're currently being a bit lost in your own delusions. You keep settling for people who are less. You let people treat you terribly and still only give them the best. You don't give yourself enough credit and you have really low self esteem. You're always knowingly letting people use you. You're ignoring your mental health flaws and pretending like you're done healing when you aren't. it might be tough but you have to keep going. i guarantee you got this.

Pile three,,

Right:

you acknowledge your flaws and mental health struggles. you are able to understand how you are and why you're like that. you may often psychoanalyze yourself, especially your trauma responses. you're learning more about yourself and are studying your behaviors. doing this can help you be able to solve the problems you have.

Wrong:

Even though you know what you have to do to fix the problems you deal with, you don't take action. this could possibly be because of depression. you're so used to living the way you are now that you don't find a point in helping yourself. you're also being overgenerous with people when you don't have enough to give to others. you could be letting people vent knowing you're not in the right place. it's best for you if you just tell them you need a break or need help. if they still demand from you, they aren't good to keep around.

Hi for your pac, what you're doing right vs wrong, I chose pile 3 and you are on point. The last part is eye opening to be honest.

I'm so glad it helped you <3333

pac,, how can you be more confident? what's holding you back?

pile one,,

instead of focusing your energy on others, focus more on yourself. focus on yourself like you're your own crush (I will- mitski). stop settling for people that aren't what you're looking for. if they're bad to you then don't keep them around. they're what's holding you back. you deserve what you want. you have a more negative perspective. if you were less pessimistic, at least towards yourself and your own efforts, it would significantly improve your confidence. you need to let go of this idea that confidence means always feeling good about yourself, never having bad days, and having a mild superiority complex.

pile two,,

your romanticism of your sadness and mental illness is holding you back. you most likely have depression and low self esteem so you learned to live with it instead of learning to heal it. finding some hobbies or something you're good at would increase your confident. you could have grown up thinking you didn't have any specific talent or had to be good at everything so you didn't find just one thing that made you happy that you could do. there's something you know you have to led go off. you have to work on your mental health and emotional regulation. positive affirmations could help a lot. also make sure to calm yourself in a healthy way when you get overwhelmed.

pile three,,

so you're most definitely a creative. you've been working towards better confidence and bettering yourself overall. there's something new bringing balance in. you just have to trust. this feels like it could be something you've been working to manifest for a while. continuing being creative and confident in the art you created will make you more confident as a person. the way you've been moving forward is very strong. just keep pushing through and don't give up. taking breaks is okay and doesn't mean giving up. if you've been thinking about starting something new artistically, especially music, then take the leap. don't do it for other's approval. it's your art, your business.

pac,, what should you do to move forward?

pile one,,

the first thing you should focus on is healing your trauma or any negative past you've been holding onto. during this time it would help to accept help from others and be open to assistance even if you're scared of opening up. healing your inner child could be very significant. you have a lot of work to do regarding your mental health. neglecting and ignoring your mental struggles won't make them go away. you probably like to imagine others caring for you but you need to be the one to care for you. opal (the jack stauber short) may also be significant. having a healthy routine even if it's just focusing on one specific thing would really make a large impact on you for the better.

pile two,,

i feel like you were probably bullied. you were treated as weird or excluded in some way. like fire drill (Melanie Martinez). you spent a long time feeling weak. it's time to actually stand up for yourself. friends and possibly romantic partners even have treated you wrongly in the past. you should be using these past experiences to your advantage instead of beating yourself over it. how do you wanna be different now? what people do you wish to attract now? how can you avoid things like that happening again? you are very intuitive but you don't use your spiritual abilities to help yourself. trust yourself more often. you don't have to act tough or hard to protect yourself. just protect yourself like you wish others did back then.

pile three,,

this pile feels less amused. like kind of tired. you could currently struggle with depression. you've felt like you had to fight your entire life. not just others, but also your own emotions. you don't allow yourself to feel. you probably grew up in a chaotic environment where you felt it was best/safer for you to not feel at all and developed that mindset early on. you need to balance your mood and emotions. you also need to let go of this fighter mindset. i'm getting fighter by jack stauber and dollhouse by Melanie. you have to take care of yourself and your own feelings. like in that one best american girl scene (mitski) where she started kissing her hand. you could also use music a lot to cope as a way of escapism.