How To Come Untouched, A Tutorial:

How to come untouched, a tutorial:

So, after I shared with a couple of friends that I had the ability to masturbate with my mind, a tutorial was requested, and I figured this was the best place to share.

You will need:

-Your imagination (as vivid as possible, and try to train it to be as sense-integrative as possible: imagery, sound, touch, smell, anything you like, make it a full embodiment experience)

-Thighs you can press together tightly (friction might not be needed but if there is no pressure this will not work, there has to be a base physical element to ground yourself in your body)

Where you can do this:

-your bedroom

-the sofa in the living room of your parents' house (as long as nobody is in the room)

-your local/high school library (even if there are people around)

-anywhere as long as you dare tbh

Step 1: You need to go into this headspace where you let go of common inhibitions, not in a "drunk and excited" way, but in a "tired of all the pressure of the daily life" way. Maybe medidate, have a good cry, idk what works for you.

Step 2: choose a bunch of your deepest fantasms. The more intense the better. Now you're going to want to sink into that headspace further in order to explore the parts of your fantasm that are usually too dark for you, not because they scare you off, but because you're afraid. You need to let go of that fear.

Pro tip: for beginners, you might want to start with erotica/fanfic works for that fits those fantasm you want to explore. As you grow into your abilities, you will probably not need it anymore, but fiction is a good starting point, especially if you're not very aware/used to thinking about your most intimate kinks.

Step 3: clench your thighs close together, either close your eyes or focus all your attention on what you're reading, remember to bite your lip and hold it down if there are people around, and shove complete, razor-sharp focus (this is a skill you can train) on that story/fantasm you're working with. And then all that's left is having fun!!! This can also be a good occasion to practice your poker face ;)

Warning: as a beginner, this might take a lot of time. Do not be discouraged! The more you do it, the quicker you'll be able to get it/control how quickly you wanna cum if you're strapped for time or you really wanna enjoy it, and the lighter the fantasm is going to need to be.

Limits/restrictions : You may have noticed I'm not a vanilla person, so I have no idea how that would work for vanilla people, please address all reclamations at @shesthere .

Enjoy, have fun, and be responsible! Remember all skills take time to cultivate

Oooh I love that that's interesting lemme try:

Bruce: pretty unrelatable, except maybe the "afraid of how violent I could be if I let myself go" but our moral codes are very different, he's fun to write though

Kate: my experience of homophobia as a lesbian + feeling betrayed by the people you've tried to protect all your life when they don't accept you

Babs: disorder (disability) exists only when it's convenient for "the plot"

Dick: those masked anger issues that make you feel horrible when people tell you how nice you are despite trying your best to be kind + feeling like the fragile stability of your family depends on you not losing your shit

Jason: being the "problem child", feeling like your trauma is always twisted to be about how it affects others, people acting like you're being whiny when expressing how old trauma still affects you, being unable to let go of both your love and your resentment, still trying to protect the people to hurt you, being frustrated that other's holier-than-though attitude towards ethics, hating yourself for hurting others in your anger, never getting angry about the right things, fear of abandonment, latching on too tight and lashing out/leaving them before they leave you, being terrified of being alone, that fun "love+ jealousy+ hero-worship" relationship to older brother.

(now y'all see why I write about that mf so much)

Cass: being infantilised because of disorder(disability)

Tim: strong drive to prove myself + struggling with attempts at emancipation while still taking care of family

Steph: intense need for independence + strength being underestimated because of being a woman + spite

Duke: people thinking I'm a rule follower and being surprised when I act "wild" despite me making absolutely 0 effort to hide it + loving mysteries/enigmas

Damian: like OP, people treating autism symptoms as "acting out"

parts of myself that i project onto the batfamily

bruce- uh nothing he’s really unrelatable for me

babs- having a disability that is often forgotten or ignored

dick- my sibling guilt and masked anger issues and people pleasing tendencies

jason- cooking for others as a love language but acting as if it’s not

cass- being infantilised because of how i look

tim- my illnesses and being immunocompromised and adhd

steph- my fears of being forgotten and my anger at constantly being pushed aside because i’m a fem presenting person

duke- everyone thinking i’m a goody-two shoes rule follower when im so far from it

damian- my autism and how the people around me just act as if i’m a neurotypical person who’s just acting out

three tickets to the barbie movie please

Jason: yolo

Jason: yolt

Jason: yolt

Jason: yolft

Jason: yolft

Everyone: Please stop