As An Asexual Stay, This Is So Comforting For Me

As an asexual Stay, this is so comforting for me😭😭😭😭

SKZ reaction to Asexual partner

SKZ x asexual! afab! reader

Wordcount ≈ 700

Warnings: Reader being anxious about telling SKZ she’s asexual, pretty much it. 

Thank you for the request, I wasn’t sure whether you meant a poly relationship or not but I wrote this as a non-poly fic. If I misunderstood, please let me know and I’ll write a new fic but with a poly relationship. 

Asexual pretty much means that the person who is asexual doesn’t experience sexual attraction and/or doesn’t desire sexual contact.

(Y/n) was a bit scared to tell her partner that she was asexual as previous partners and even friends have been unable to understand how she could feel like this, calling her names, and leaving her. (Y/n) was worried that SKZ would do the same even if she knew they were different, but who could blame her? Based on how many others have reacted, her fear is valid. One evening as she and her partner were sitting on the couch watching a movie, (Y/n) asked if they could talk about something. Her partner paused the movie turning toward her to show that she had their entire attention. As (Y/n) told her partner she began crying, fearing that he would walk out of their relationship. 

Bang Chan, Changbin, and Han had the same or similar reactions: 

“Darling, please don’t cry. Come here, let me give you a hug. I love you and that means I love you for the person you are, I would never ask you to change. You being asexual changes nothing for me, I have loved being with you so far and I haven’t felt like anything was missing. I would never leave you for such a reason, don’t ever apologize for being yourself,” (Y/n) was relieved and hugged him until she calmed down and stopped crying. 

Lee Know, Hyunjin, and I.N would have similar reactions: 

“Okay? So what?” The reaction at first might seem cold, but I promise it’s not. “Does it change the way you look at me?” “No? Why would it? Look, I couldn’t care less about that, as long as you’re honest with me I don’t care. I love you, you love me, that’s enough. I don’t need more than that. Now, tell me the names of anyone who has ever made you feel like this is a fault, I just want to talk with them, with my fists,” (Y/n) was shocked but soon enough understood that he wouldn’t leave her and it truly changed nothing about her for him. The reaction might have seemed cold but after that as soon as it was brought up in conversations they would give the other person a threatening glare if they so much as dared think a mean thought about (Y/n). 

Finally, Felix and Seungmin would have somewhat similar reactions: 

Felix would first of all, before touching (Y/n), ask her if this meant she didn’t like his skinship or if it was purely the sexual touches she had no desire for. Once she said that hugs and cuddles were all she wanted he smiled and gave her a warm and tight hug. “I can give you all the hugs and cuddles in the world, so much that you’ll be sick of it. As long as I can do that and make you happy, then I’m happy.” Seungmin would also ask just to make sure that she was fine with holding hands and such things before comforting (Y/n). Once she had calmed down he would ask her to explain all things she liked and didn’t like so that he could make sure he never did anything to hurt her. After that, the two of them would say something along the lines of: “I much rather be with you and live without sex than be with someone else and have sex, because the sex isn’t essential to me, what’s essential is you,” 

Overall, none of the boys would be angry or say anything to hurt their s/o regardless of their sexual orientation. 

Hii, could you do some prompts where they're both really wounded and in each other's arms and they both know they're gonna die?

bring on the angst <3

@celestialwrites for more!

✩ wiping away the other’s tears while trying to stop their wound from bleeding.

✩ whispering all the unsaid things between them knowing they only have minutes left.

✩ one yelling for help while the other shakes their head knowing no one is coming.

✩ their bloodied and bruised hands tangling together as they both take their last breaths.

✩ taking in the other’s face one last time while a single small tear runs down their face.

✩ tracing patterns on the other’s arm as they try and calm themselves.

✩ reminiscing about when they were younger and their lives together when one finally slips into the darkness.

✩ talking about their future in their last moments knowing they’ll never get out alive.

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Okay I'm like, so pissed rn.

I was scrolling through Ig, seeing some kpop edits etc. I came across this video of the bp members on the born pink tour twerking on stage. The video was cute or whatever, but the second I opened the comments was when I got mad. EVERYONE was saying how they're sluts and attention whores and how all they know what to do is be vulgar and inappropriate onstage. But let's consider some things:

- It's their show

- They're grown adults

- ALL those videos come from the encores of the shows, AFTER the main performances. They're HAVING FUN.

Anyways, I scrolled down a bit more and came across another edit, this time BTS. Now listen ARMYs: NO HATE TOWARDS BTS. I am an ARMY myself and am just using them as an example to show this fucked up industry that we love.

Back to the edit.

As I watched it, it showed each member pulling up their shirt and humping the air. I opened the comments section, and guess who found everyone calling them sluts? Yeah, not me. And let's consider this:

- It's their show

- They're grown adults

- It's their DANCE STEP

Now why don't people treat male idols like they treat female idols? Why is it sexy for men to hump air and show abs, but vulgar for women to twerk? Why are men praised when they're "sexy" onstage, but women are slutshamed for doing the same or even LESS? Why is it acceptable for men to be vulgar, but not women? Because, in my opinion, if twerking is considered vulgar, humping the air shirtless is vulgar as well. But maybe you don't consider the dance step vulgar.

Maybe you consider the person doing it vulgar.

But why only the women?

Maybe the problem isn't the female idols.

Maybe the problem is you.

Me every damn day

"if you're like this, no man will ever want to date you."

say it louder so God can hear you pls

the only romance i like is necromancy