Reminder That Aroallo People Exist. Stop Shaming Them For Wanting To Have Sex. Adults Can Consent, And

Reminder that aroallo people exist. Stop shaming them for wanting to have sex. Adults can consent, and having sex without wanting/having a romantic relationship is okay.

this is your daily reminder that if you're in a relationship with someone and you're both polyam and both of you wanna add people to the relationship, then it is a polyam relationship even though for society you are in a monogamous relationship.

like no matter how monogamous the relationship may seem to society, if you're both polyam then your relationship is polyam too!

fuck amatonormativity and fuck mononormativity!

can we stop stealing ‘coercively assigned [sex] at birth’ from intersex people

we already have afab and amab. let intersex people have some fucking terminology for the horrific ways that society enforces strict gender norms upon them. let intersex people have terminology for forced surgeries and hormone therapy and all the other things society forces upon them

stop stealing intersex terminology. just because we are trans doesn’t mean we can steal the words that intersex people are using for their unique and specific experiences

as an allo i feel genuinely confused about society's obsession with romance and sex.

Also the whole "polyamorous people are FORCING their sick lifestyle down my THROAT by literally just existing and asking to not be treated like garbage and gain some legal protections" thing is a) not true and b) genuinely just "legalizing gay marriage is forcing Me, A Heterosexual, to get gay married"-style homophobia repackaged for a group it's acceptable to punch down at on here. You all make me sick