When The Next Chapter Is Dimension Jump, So You Have To Write While Staring At A Picture Of Ace.

When the next chapter is Dimension Jump, so you have to write while staring at a picture of Ace.

Just ... I can't anymore guys.

Comments and kudos make me want to cry and cling to your leg as I thank you over and over again. Plus I am an unapologetic attention seeker. Go nuts guys!

You don't need anyone's approval for the stories you write and the art you create. But it's also absolutely valid to want some approval from your audience. Kudos and likes don't determine your creation's worth. But it just feels amazing to receive them.

I would do things for this man that my brain cannot currently conceive of.

So ... I asked my best friend if she ever feels empty or guilty after sex, because I do and I've been with my husband for 15 years, we have a literal child together but it seems I have a lot of internalised guilt around sex.

She said she used to, because society is set up to make women feel guilty about enjoying sex. Historically it's treated as just for men, and women are supposed to just accept it almost like a chore to keep men happy.

Also, women often feel like they have to suppress their own fantasies, especially if they go against "vanilla" because the mainstream male fantasy of 'innocent and virginal' is somehow considered more acceptable by society.

Anyway it's half four in the morning and I haven't been to bed yet, so maybe I'm just delusionally babbling, but just in case there's another 18 year old me out there who needs to see this here you go.

Sex is not wrong. It is not immoral. It is literally the thing that keeps our species going, the biological reason we're all here in the first place. Doesn't matter if you're madly in love with them or you literally never see them again. Doesn't matter what your sexual orientation is or how you identify. Doesn't matter if you have kinks (and everyone has kinks). It's all normal.

As long as its safe, sane, consensual and legal it's fine. You are fine. You do not need to feel guilty. You do not need to feel bad. You have not done anything wrong.

And if anyone tells you otherwise kick them in the face.