I Really Have Trust Issues When It Comes To Female Friendships. I Personally Seen Lot Of Women Coming

I really have trust issues when it comes to female friendships. I personally seen lot of women coming to me and talking shit about their own best friends and the next day they be getting along with the same person like as if they never talked shit behind their back. Do you guys know there is a thing called loyalty ? If you claim someone as your friend you should defend their name behind their back not defame. I don't know how the hell in this universe they even call this shit as friendship.

One thing I realised about myself is I just can't be with a person just because they're good looking or nice. I look for intellectual compatibility. I look for great mindsets and high morals. I am highly attracted to people who has a deeper understanding of themselves because you'll only understand other people as much as you understand your own self.

I don't care what anybody says if you are the type of person who is socially deemed to be pretty or attracts a lot of attention without even trying, you guys need to be very careful with what you share with people because people like you are easily prone to envy and jealously. Most people out there will be hating on you for the way you shine. Mostly they would be looking for ways to sabotage you or hinder your growth. Never ever tell your personal stuffs or your weakness to people even though they're nice to you. Some toxic people just come to you and speak nicely just to gather some tea about your life so that they can later gossip about it or even worse they may use it against you. So starve these nosy people by not giving out any information.

I love pretty women. When I say pretty I mean pretty both in and out. Those women whose heart and character are as pretty as their face. Those women who are loyal, kind and loving and genuinely wish good for others and doesn't see other women as competition. Those women who moves with God and pure intentions no matter what the situation is. If these lines describe you girl I just want to say that you are amazing and you're one of those rare ones.

The best life-long relationship you'll ever have in your life is the one you have with yourself. Analyse your own self, find your strengths and weakness, find what makes makes you happy and do those things on regular basis. Make a list of things that makes you feel special about yourself. Reflect back on compliments you've received in your life. These things might sound very basic but trust me it will improve your self-esteem in the long run. Nobody can shake your confidence level if you know who you are.

Never ever trust people's words. Trust their actions, vibes and energy. You're not what you say, you're what you do. Your words mean nothing if it is not backed up by actions. You don't tell this world who you are by words, you tell them with your actions. Period.