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The smell of hot coffee and the smell of rain are some of my favourite smells in the world. Individually, they were amazing, but combined ? Utter perfection.

I would rather sit all alone by myself than to sit with those stupid people who literally brings nothing to the table except bullshit and drama. I value my time and energy more than people's company and I can't afford to waste it on some random morons.

One thing I learnt in my life is not all people will have genuine heart and pure intentions like you. Being kind and nice makes people to take you for granted or make them to walk all over you. Not everybody will reciprocate your kindness and not everybody deserves it. Some times you need to learn how to treat people with rudeness even though it feels like going out of your character because some people really deserve it.

If you are feeling low or demotivated, just remember that you had people envying you when you're at your rock bottom. Do you even have an idea about how much powerful you should be to trigger such response in people..?

I love pretty women. When I say pretty I mean pretty both in and out. Those women whose heart and character are as pretty as their face. Those women who are loyal, kind and loving and genuinely wish good for others and doesn't see other women as competition. Those women who moves with God and pure intentions no matter what the situation is. If these lines describe you girl I just want to say that you are amazing and you're one of those rare ones.

I don't care what anybody says if you are the type of person who is socially deemed to be pretty or attracts a lot of attention without even trying, you guys need to be very careful with what you share with people because people like you are easily prone to envy and jealously. Most people out there will be hating on you for the way you shine. Mostly they would be looking for ways to sabotage you or hinder your growth. Never ever tell your personal stuffs or your weakness to people even though they're nice to you. Some toxic people just come to you and speak nicely just to gather some tea about your life so that they can later gossip about it or even worse they may use it against you. So starve these nosy people by not giving out any information.

Never ever trust people's words. Trust their actions, vibes and energy. You're not what you say, you're what you do. Your words mean nothing if it is not backed up by actions. You don't tell this world who you are by words, you tell them with your actions. Period.

I want a man who is untouchable by other women. A man who is not easily accessible to other women. A man with strong boundaries and standards. If another woman can be friendly with you, I don't want you at all. Period.

People will only like you when you're on the same level as them or below them. Once you start to level up, they gonna hate you. They become terrified of your potential by what if you become more successful than them. Then they'll become obsessed with humbling you or belittling you. They're not there to support you, they're there to sabotage you. Never ever hesitate to cut off these people from your life. That's why they say you will lose a lot of people when you evolve.

Currently in my "I don't give a fuck era." The era where I don't give a fuck about what anybody thinks of me. The only person that I value and trust is myself and I am gonna do whatever it takes to keep my mind peaceful. I am extremely selfish for myself and my energy and I'm gonna get highly selective with people who can get access to me. I am no longer going to allow some random idiots to affect my inner wellness without my conscious permission. I am gonna cut off anything from my life if it costs my inner peace. Period.

She ain't anti-social. She's just highly selective with people who she allows into her life as she is extremely selfish with her own time and enegy.

One of the ways where a toxic person tries to put you down is by asking "what's your name" or by saying "hey, I forgot your name" or by mispronouncing your name even though they know you for months. If you're wondering why they do this, these people are very well aware of your power and they do this on purpose to break your confidence level. From their perspective they want you to think that you're not that much significant or notable to them. They act like they don't even heard that much about you just to make you feel inferior or common. Watch out for these kind of people they're actually jealous and intimidated by you. I personally seen a lot of jealous women exhibiting this behaviour.

The best life-long relationship you'll ever have in your life is the one you have with yourself. Analyse your own self, find your strengths and weakness, find what makes makes you happy and do those things on regular basis. Make a list of things that makes you feel special about yourself. Reflect back on compliments you've received in your life. These things might sound very basic but trust me it will improve your self-esteem in the long run. Nobody can shake your confidence level if you know who you are.

Ever noticed that it's always the people with low self-esteem, constantly criticize and talk negatively of other people. These people don't have any kind of self love or self worth for themselves. In fact they even hate themselves. The only way that these insecure people can feel better about themselves is by talking negatively or down on people. By speaking lowly of other people they feed their ego so that they can feel superior to you. If you see people like this, you better maintain a certain level of distance from them. These are the people who are most likely to spread unnecessary rumours and they don't mind destroying other people's reputation. Stay away from these toxic vampires.

One thing I learned on my own is to never ignore your intuition or gut instinct. Once you get a feeling that a certain person is toxic just from their vibe and energy, you better believe it. Ever felt your energy levels drained after speaking to a person ? Ever felt extremely low or tired after speaking to some people ? I felt this many times in my life. When I came to know about these people I just realised that my intuition was right all the time. Trust me if you're a person who is highly empathetic and spiritually evolved, your body is naturally going to reject those people whose energies are not good for your soul. This is the reason why I mostly don't talk to a lot of people. Some people think it's ego but I call it being protective of my energy.

Being a pretty woman is really tough especially when it's comes to making friendships with other women. In most female friendships I had in my life either that woman sees me as a competition or tries to sabotage my confidence. It's always the same case and I am tired of this bullshit. Now I am no longer looking for friendships. I stick to myself. Sticking to yourself initially feels uncomfortable but it's peaceful.

I used to believe that scoring good marks and topping exams makes a person smart and intelligent. After joining college I've realised that I was wrong. From my personal experience I'm telling you that I've seen people who are academically so smart yet still lack basic common sense and manners. Education doesn't means just scoring good marks it's more like how much you've evolved as a person.

I really have trust issues when it comes to female friendships. I personally seen lot of women coming to me and talking shit about their own best friends and the next day they be getting along with the same person like as if they never talked shit behind their back. Do you guys know there is a thing called loyalty ? If you claim someone as your friend you should defend their name behind their back not defame. I don't know how the hell in this universe they even call this shit as friendship.

One thing I realised about myself is I just can't be with a person just because they're good looking or nice. I look for intellectual compatibility. I look for great mindsets and high morals. I am highly attracted to people who has a deeper understanding of themselves because you'll only understand other people as much as you understand your own self.

Just because you see me speaking to a person kindly and nicely doesn't mean that I like them. I am just being diplomatic. Deep down I hate majority of the people for who they are.

You know you are a God chosen child when you are naturally different from others. You don't fit anywhere because people like you are meant to stand out. You are not like others because you are made for great things.

You know you're different when you see people trying to put you down for no reason. You know you're the main character when you see women talking shit behind your back all the time. Take no shit girl. Your positivity and self confidence will irritate the hell out of these insecure people. Keep shining.

The more I get matured the more I get disgusted by people's nature. Once you have seen people's true colours, no matter how lonely you're, don't connect with those toxic people again. They gonna lower your vibe, mood and your energy levels. You're better off alone than to be with those people.

She is beautiful but her looks never stood a chance when compared to how breathtaking her soul was.