Xenogenders Are So Cool Like... They're Almost Like Metaphors. Like "i Have A Gender And The Way It Makes

xenogenders are so cool like... they're almost like metaphors. like "i have a gender and the way it makes me feel reminds me of a shining sun, so im sungender" is so? poetic? it's beautiful?

they're also like abstract art... with the way a painting can look like one thing but actually be mentally connected to something else. like a abstract painting in varying shades of blue can represent the ocean.

i honestly think xenogenders are one of the most beautiful displays of gender variance. it taps into the emotions that gender draws from, and instead of clunking into the box "male" or "female," or even man/woman, they create an entirely new, personal experience

xenogenders are the essence of gender.

Do it 👹/hj

i love trans people with "freaky" genders. i love trans people with "boring" genders. i love trans people with genders they don't even fully understand, genders that change, genders that are static, genders that are binary, genders that are obscure, and genders that are more than one of these things at once. i love trans people feeling free and open to express themselves and being happy to share their gender with the world regardless of what it is. i love trans people feeling empowered and passionate and refusing not to share their gender with the world regardless of what it is.

i love deeply dysphoric trans people. i love trans people who are learning to share themselves in small ways. i love trans people who jump between self-love and self-hatred on a daily basis, trans people who are only safe to be themselves inside their homes, and trans people who are only safe to be themselves inside their heads.

are you a scenecoric transmasculine lesbian? amazing. i love you. are you a binary trans man? fabulous. i love you. an agender high-fem queer? a transfeminine gay man? a system with both cis and trans alters? a binary trans woman? a voidgender nblm transmasc? a trans man who is considering he might be nonbinary? a nonbinary person who is considering they might be a trans woman? are you just plainly Not Cis in a way you can't describe? incredible. fantastic. fucking effervescent. i'm obsessed.

forget valid, fuck valid. your gender is worth celebrating. it's amazing. it's actively cool as hell that you are who you are.

Beautifully put. /gen

Y’all realize that by attacking other trans people

(Non Binary people, Trans people with less prominent dysphoria)

Y’all are helping transphobes,

Here’s how

You are blaming these different forms of trans people for transphobia rather than blaming the transphobes

Every moment y’all spend pointlessly attacking other trans people is time not spent getting rights for the community

By being assholes and exclusive, you’re not only pushing many people out of the community, not only dropping your forces, but you’re scaring many trans people into the closet (which is bad)

You’re all making yourselves look like massive assholes, which does worse to help your credibility than “tucutes” do (the “tucute” trans community may look “silly” but it’s positive and based on self expression, the Transmed trans community is based on exclusion, gatekeeping, and self hatred [as self hatred is literally a requirement])*

*you may say I’m “hypocritical” for saying transmed trans people are to blame for more transphobia, but you guys are directly spreading hate and feeding into transphobic ideas. (Said transphobic ideas being, “You can disrespect someone’s pronouns and identity if they’re xyz”)

All in all, Transmeds do more harm than “tucutes”

All Tucute harm is alleged and illegitimate (read bullet 1) It’s transphobic people’s fault for their transphobia, not other trans people for giving them “the wrong idea”

Transmed harm is real, and it’s based on hate, exclusion and paranoia.

Y’all are wasting your time!

Most Transmed ideology stems from

Ignorance

Intolerance

Insecurity

Pride

Some of y’all just don’t understand Non Binary or people with different lesser forms of dysphoria. You can not understand something and still respect it. As long as it’s not literally fundamentally against you human dignity or identity. Educate yourself, it’s better to admit it and learn than stay ignorant

Y’all intolerant people are similar to the ignorant people, in that since you don’t vibe with it, you feel the need to shun it. First of all, that’s the exact mindset of many bigots so check yourself. Second of all, y’all need to get off your high horse. You are in no position to say that someone else is not valid. Despite what you believe, “tucutes” are not a threat to the trans community (see above points) and aren’t harmful. So just let them be. So what if they aren’t trans? We have bigger fish to fry hun. (Remember, hardly anything give transphobic more power, than y’all attacking other trans people instead of fighting transphobia)

I know some of y’all have good intentions and just wanna protect your community. I also understand that it may be scary to think that non trans people could be invading the trans community. But seriously, think about who your true enemy is, people who, most likely, genuinely believe that they are trans and mean no harm, and are just exploring their identity, or bigots who literally want all forms of trans people to be erased. You don’t need to be ashamed of your trans identity. We’re all valid (except hateful people)

It’s good to be proud of your identity and community. But to be prideful to the point where you feel the need to put others down is wrong. There’s self love and pride, and then there’s selfishness and pride. It’s selfish to say that anyone who hasn’t suffered like you have or isn’t like you isn’t valid. It’s selfish and prideful to say that only people like you are special and trans and anyone else isn’t valid. I know it may be nice to take something that’s been a source of pain, and turn it into a source of pride. But you should pride yourself on your identity, not your suffering

“Tucutes” are just trying to live their lives comfortably like everyone else. They’re not our enemy. transphobes who actively try and take rights from trans people are

“Tucutes” are not to blame for transphobia. Transphobes are.

Side note: y’all say that being trans is a terrible thing that isn’t cool and shouldn’t want to be. Yet you guys up it on this pedestal and decide it’s worth gatekeeping? What sense does that make

Honest final thoughts:

… why are we having this conversation?! It’s s waste of time! There are homeless trans kids and trans people being killed! And instead of handling that, we’re arguing over this shit?! Again, I know people will say “It’s the tucutes’ fault this is happening” but not only is that not legit. That’s still not doing anything to fix what’s happening.

This is a waste of time! Stop wasting time being transmed or truscum! Do something that matters!

We are NOT in a stable enough position in terms of treatment and rights to be able to start nitpicking who’s trans or not

My personality has not changed one bit on testosterone. It can absolutely happen, but I think it's not talked about enough when people go on T and... nothing happens to them, personality-wise.

Transphobes like to fearmonger about how all trans men become gross, angry, horny monsters, but I literally didn't change at all. Oh, I had a brief increase in libido after my second shot, but that faded away and has not returned.

I'm still just me. I'm just me with some extra T inside me. Didn't make me a demon. Didn't make me aggressive. Didn't make me want to rape people. Didn't make me gross or dirty or smelly. Didn't make me objectify women.

None of those things are traits of testosterone. Those are traits of assholes, and being an asshole is a trait you learn, not something you're born with.

Let's get real and talk, As a trans man I don't feel welcome in the trans community tbh. there are so many hateful people in our community, that like to gatekeep or project their own shit on people. I'm so sick of other trans people telling OTHER TRANS PEOPLE that they are not trans because *insert reason here*. Honesty SHUT THE FUCK UP! There is no "right way to be trans".

I'm a passing trans man, who has had surgery, and I still get called a "transtrender" by dumbasses. Like fuck OFF!? Who tf are you to dictate who is trans???

Trans men CAN be feminine.

Trans men CAN be masculine

Trans men Can do what ever tf they want.

LET PEOPLE LIVE.

I'm proud to be trans and it pisses me off that other trans people put other people down, just because they are different from them. I haven't even looked at any trans tags in months because there is always someone putting other trans people down.

Worry about yourself and let people live their life man.