I Fought With Someone On This In The Comments, But Have Since Deleted The Convo Because Of Their Willful

I fought with someone on this in the comments, but have since deleted the convo because of their willful ignorance and racism, as well as the fact that I was talking to a brick wall and the conversation was going nowhere due to rigid stances on both sides. For the record, though: if your first thought upon seeing somebody stand behind the concept of transandrophobia is to go "but CIS MEN! MALE PRIVILEGE!" you are a problem. Male privilege looks different based on race and other factors, which is what I tried to bring up in my now deleted rebuttals, and doesn't cancel out the fact that things like misandry and transandrophobia do in fact exist.

Black men are targeted by police because people expect men to be more aggressive. That is a sexist stereotype. Black men are seen as more aggressive, and therefore more dangerous. That is a racist stereotype. Black men don't really have a lot of male privilege because being black and a man is where a lot of their privilege stops. This does not cancel out the racism all black people face, nor does it mean black men are overall more oppressed than black women; it is merely another example of when not to fucking bring up male privilege in a conversation. That was the point I was trying to make, not that it matters because I have since blocked the asshole.

People claim to care so much about black people as well as trans men, but when someone has the audacity to go 'oh I face sexist oppression as a man' they LOSE THEIR MINDS. Then it's all male privilege and how women have it worse. Let's make one more thing clear in case I haven't already: don’t bring up male privilege to black trans men, because it means nothing to trans men and mascs of color. Your idea of male privilege simply doesn't apply to us as much as you think. And you know what? I dare say white trans men don't have much male privilege either! Especially if they don't pass. You can't just go 'oh but male privilege!' when a trans man dares have a word to describe his oppression. Knock it off.

saw someone claim that 'transandrophobia truthers' are 'so white' so as a black person: transandrophobia exists and is very harmful, regardless of how much you close your eyes and plug your ears. Hope this helped!

"if i die of their transphobia forget a funeral drop my body in front of the national assembly"

seen at the official marseille pride parade on 6/7/24

to the people commenting and reblogging saying that while they don't understand some of the experiences listed they still support them, thank you. It means so much to see people be accepting of identities they don't understand, instead of screaming at me or other people for existing/supporting the existence of more obscure queer experiences. Your support means so much more than you realize. Again, thank you.

Give me more lesbians who date men too, who aren't MISERABLE and forcing themselves to do so because of compulsory heterosexuality. Give me more lesbians who ARE men: cis, trans, somewhere in between, both, neither. Give me gay men who also date women happily, who are women themselves to whatever extent. Give me queerplatonic relationships between a gay guy and a lesbian. Give me a lesbian and a gay guy who are friends with benefits. Give me multigender turigirls and lesboys. Give me an individual who is polyamorous and aroace, more gaybians, more nondysphoric trans people, more she/her guys and he/him women, more it/its and nounself users, more queer teens who go by Arson. I could go on and on, but to sum things up: give me the sides of the queer experience that are hidden even by other queer people. Show me the box breaking, the line crossing, the beautiful complexities that arise from being queer. Give me the 'cringy' identities. Give me the historical identities that people are trying to erase. Preserve what they're trying to snuff out.

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Misandry is men getting laughed at when they come out about being sexually or physically abused. Misandry is the suicide rates of men, and the normalization of telling men to just deal with their problems, to 'man up' whenever they have issues. Misandry is the generalization that men are all aggressive and dangerous. Misandry is painting testosterone as a poison. Transandrophobia is the demonization of masculine trans men and mascs, telling them that T will ruin their body, that bottom surgery is disgusting. Transandrophobia is shoving the words 'male privilege' down a trans man's throat when they dare speak up about the harmful way we are treated in the community. Transandrophobia is the erasure of our issues, of our deaths, of our oppression. It's treating being transmasculine as so much easier than being transfeminine. It's making fun of a trans guy's voice, pointing out their chest as an excuse to misgender them, simultaneous expectations of masculinity and femininity (if you stopped being so masculine then people wouldn't be afraid of you! oh but not like that, now you just look like a woman so your manhood isn't valid). It's infantilization, and demonization of those who cannot be infantilized.

"oh what if someone starts identifying as a table?" based

"so what, if someone identifies as a dog you're going to call them a dog?"

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