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Anyone knows how to figured out your life?

Cause I'm in college I have no ideas what I'm doing, I don't even know why I get to college, I hate it.

I have no ideas what job I wanna do in my life, I'm so lost, I don't even know who I am anymore.

But like I feel like I can't give up on college cause of money and I would feel like a failure and I didn't know if I could like others degrees in the future unstead of the one I'm doing.

I'm French so it might be different from your perspective but damn college in France is worth nothing. I can't barely go there I already make full panics attack and a tetany attack and I'm under meds but I feel like it's never gonna get better.

It's not that I don't wanna work and go to college. I wanna learn things, I wanna learn so many languages and travel and see more of the world then all of this but I have to much pressure and I'm poor. But I don't wanna go to college for 5 years then ended up having a miserable job and being paid as if my degree is worth nothing.

I don't wanna stay there, I wanna move as far away from my hometown as possible. I can't be there anymore but I feel like with my anxiety that I will never be able to do anything.

Any advices in general to help me,I'm kinda desperate. From people who are older, does it get better?

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 `· . ꒰  𝐻𝑜𝑤 𝐼 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑎𝑛 𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑒𝑙  ꒱

𝒜𝑛·𝑔𝑒·𝑙𝑖·𝑐𝑎𝑙 

୧ ⸺   𝐼 𝑑𝑜𝑛'𝑡 𝑠𝑒𝑒 𝑚𝑦𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑎𝑠 𝑎 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑓𝑒𝑐𝑡 𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑒𝑙, 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝑎𝑠 𝑎𝑛 𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑒𝑙 𝑖𝑛 𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑖𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔, 𝑠𝑜 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑖𝑒𝑟 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑚𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑛 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑚𝑦 𝑚𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒𝑠 𝑖𝑛𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑎𝑑 𝑜𝑓 𝑝𝑢𝑛𝑖𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑚𝑦𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑚.

ഒ 𝐼 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑓𝑢𝑛 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔, 𝐼 𝑙𝑜𝑜𝑘 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑎𝑛𝑖𝑚𝑎𝑙𝑠 𝑖𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑐𝑙𝑜𝑢𝑑𝑠, 𝐼 𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑚𝑦 𝑖𝑚𝑎𝑔𝑖𝑛𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛, 𝐼 𝑎𝑝𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑐𝑖𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑒𝑥𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑜𝑟 𝑠𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑠 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑐𝑖𝑐𝑎𝑑𝑎𝑠, 𝑤𝑖𝑛𝑑 𝑐ℎ𝑖𝑚𝑒𝑠, 𝑡ℎ𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟

ഒ 𝐼 𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑎𝑟𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑑 𝑚𝑒, 𝑟𝑒𝑔𝑎𝑟𝑑𝑙𝑒𝑠𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 𝑎𝑛 𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑦 𝑜𝑟 𝑑𝑖𝑓𝑓𝑖𝑐𝑢𝑙𝑡 𝑗𝑜𝑏.

ഒ 𝐼 𝑎𝑐𝑐𝑒𝑝𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑛𝑒𝑖𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝑑 𝑛𝑜𝑟 𝑏𝑎𝑑, 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝐼 𝑎𝑙𝑤𝑎𝑦𝑠 𝑖𝑛𝑓𝑙𝑢𝑒𝑛𝑐𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑚 𝑡𝑜 𝑑𝑜 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝑑 𝑏𝑦 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑐𝑜𝑟𝑟𝑒𝑐𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑚𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒𝑠 𝑜𝑟 𝑝𝑟𝑎𝑖𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 ℎ𝑜𝑛𝑜𝑟𝑎𝑏𝑙𝑒 𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑠

ഒ 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝑡 𝑖𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑎𝑒𝑠𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑡𝑖𝑐, 𝐼 𝑤𝑒𝑎𝑟 𝑠𝑜𝑓𝑡 𝑤ℎ𝑖𝑡𝑒 𝑐𝑙𝑜𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑠, 𝑒𝑎𝑡 𝑣𝑎𝑛𝑖𝑙𝑙𝑎 𝑐𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑘 𝑚𝑖𝑙𝑘, 𝑠𝑙𝑒𝑒𝑝 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑠𝑡𝑢𝑓𝑓𝑒𝑑 𝑎𝑛𝑖𝑚𝑎𝑙𝑠, 𝑤𝑎𝑙𝑘 𝑏𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑓𝑜𝑜𝑡 𝑜𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑔𝑟𝑎𝑠𝑠, 𝑟𝑢𝑛 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑡𝑙𝑒 𝑗𝑢𝑚𝑝𝑠, 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑏 𝑚𝑦 ℎ𝑎𝑖𝑟 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑚𝑦 𝑠𝑘𝑖𝑛 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑎 𝑙𝑜𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑖𝑚𝑒, 𝑑𝑒𝑐𝑜𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑚𝑦 𝑏𝑜𝑑𝑦 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑎𝑐𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑜𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑠𝑖𝑙𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑜𝑟 𝑔𝑜𝑙𝑑 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑝𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑙𝑠.

ഒ 𝐼 𝑡𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑡 𝑛𝑎𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑒 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒, 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑜𝑛'𝑡 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑒 𝑎 𝑣𝑒𝑔𝑔𝑖𝑒 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡, 𝑎𝑝𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑐𝑖𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑖𝑡𝑠 𝑏𝑒𝑎𝑢𝑡𝑦, 𝑡𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑠𝑚𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑒𝑠𝑡 𝑎𝑛𝑖𝑚𝑎𝑙𝑠 𝑤𝑒𝑙𝑙, ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑒𝑚𝑝𝑎𝑡ℎ𝑦 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑎𝑢𝑡𝑖𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑐𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑒𝑠 𝑜𝑛 𝐸𝑎𝑟𝑡ℎ

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 `· .    ꒰  𝐻𝑜𝑤 𝐼 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑎𝑛 𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑒𝑙   ꒱

𝒞ℎ𝑎𝑝𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑡𝑤𝑜. . .

ഒ 𝐼 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑢𝑝 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑛 𝐼 𝑠𝑒𝑒 𝑎𝑛 𝑖𝑛𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑐𝑒 ℎ𝑎𝑝𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔, 𝑖𝑓 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑖𝑠 𝑑𝑖𝑠𝑐𝑟𝑖𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝐼 𝑠𝑐𝑜𝑙𝑑 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑐𝑜𝑟𝑟𝑒𝑐𝑡 ℎ𝑖𝑚, 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑛 𝐼 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑓𝑜𝑟𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑠𝑜𝑛 𝑤ℎ𝑜 𝑤𝑎𝑠 ℎ𝑢𝑟𝑡 𝑏𝑦 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑚 ℎ𝑜𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑙𝑒 𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑠 

ഒ 𝐼 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑠𝑝𝑜𝑛𝑡𝑎𝑛𝑒𝑜𝑢𝑠 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑝𝑙𝑖𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑠 𝑡𝑜 𝑠𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑒𝑟𝑠, 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑖𝑠 𝑛𝑜 𝑛𝑒𝑒𝑑 𝑡𝑜 ℎ𝑖𝑑𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑎𝑑𝑚𝑖𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛, 𝑎 “𝐼 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 ℎ𝑎𝑖𝑟” 𝑐𝑎𝑛 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑜𝑛𝑒'𝑠 𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑏𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑠𝑜𝑛'𝑠 𝑠𝑚𝑖𝑙𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑛 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑏𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑡𝑜𝑜 !

ഒ 𝐼 𝑡𝑟𝑦 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑒 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝑑 𝑡𝑜 𝑚𝑦𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓, 𝐼 𝑎𝑣𝑜𝑖𝑑 ℎ𝑢𝑟𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑔, 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑟𝑣𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑝𝑢𝑛𝑖𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑚𝑦𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓. 𝐼'𝑚 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑚𝑜𝑟𝑒 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦 𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑡𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑡 𝑚𝑦𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑤𝑒𝑙𝑙, 𝑓𝑜𝑟𝑔𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑚𝑦𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑏𝑒 𝑝𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑚𝑒, 𝑠𝑜 𝐼 𝑐𝑎𝑛 𝑏𝑒 𝑎 𝑏𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑠𝑜𝑛 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑚𝑦𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑎𝑟𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑑 𝑚𝑒.

ഒ  𝐼 𝑤𝑟𝑖𝑡𝑒 𝑖𝑛 𝑚𝑦 𝑑𝑖𝑎𝑟𝑦 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑝𝑙𝑖𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑠 𝐼'𝑣𝑒 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑟𝑒𝑐𝑒𝑖𝑣𝑒𝑑, 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝑑 𝑑𝑒𝑒𝑑𝑠 𝐼'𝑣𝑒 𝑑𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝐼'𝑣𝑒 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑛𝑒𝑑 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑚𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒𝑠 𝐼'𝑣𝑒 𝑚𝑎𝑑𝑒, 𝐼 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑟𝑒𝑐𝑜𝑔𝑛𝑖𝑧𝑒 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝐼'𝑣𝑒 𝑑𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝑑 𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑖𝑡 𝑚𝑜𝑡𝑖𝑣𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑠 𝑚𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑘𝑒𝑒𝑝 𝑡𝑟𝑦𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑒 𝑎 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝑑 𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑒𝑙

ഒ 𝐼 𝑣𝑖𝑠𝑖𝑡 𝑐𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑠, 𝐼 𝑓𝑖𝑛𝑑 𝑐𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑠 𝑐𝑎𝑙𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝐼 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑤𝑎𝑙𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑡𝑜𝑚𝑏𝑠 ( 𝑎𝑙𝑤𝑎𝑦𝑠 𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑐𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑡𝑜 𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑝 𝑜𝑛 𝑎𝑛𝑦 𝑔ℎ𝑜𝑠𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑠𝑒 ) 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑎𝑑𝑚𝑖𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑎𝑢𝑡𝑖𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑡𝑢𝑒𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑡𝑙𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑒𝑙𝑠

what i love about seokjin:

his advice

"Don't offer advice that hasn't worked in your own life."

What do you use to draw with? Like what device and drawing app? I finally graduated high school and want to get back to drawing and maybe start posting it but I wanted some advice

Hi~

I'm just gonna go and give you my full setup (plus health advices coz trust me they're important).

These days I use an IPad Pro 11" and Procreate. My friend has the bigger version but I hurt my elbow using it because it made my moves too big, so I settled for the littler version. I suggest you chose based on your feelings for that. If you want a bigger screen to see more of your work, it's perfectly valid.

If you do take those two, I suggest you also take the ICloud save. (I have the 200Go save and that's only 3€ a month, but the 50Go save in free!) Should your IPad eventually break, you'll be able to retrieve ALL your art files from the Cloud, which is a huge lifesaver!

(I used to use a simple computer plus graphic tablet plus Adobe Photoshop, but it kept crashing so much that I had one too many rage quits. Plus it's super expensive since it's subscription based, and nowadays they take your art from the Adobe Cloud to feed their AI, so I can't really recommend that. Photoshop is an excellent tool but the direction Adobe is taking does NOT suit me.)

For brushes I just use the default Procreate Pencil. For the eraser I use Syrup, which is found in the default Inking Brush set.

My base canvases are 4000x4000px with a DPI of 300 (I suggest you improve the DPI if you do illustrations or really precise work. I only do little fanarts and comics with that DPI). For posting online please be careful to chose an RGB color profile (I use the default Display D3). If you ever want to print though, you should chose a CMYK color profile (I use the Generic CMYK Profile then).

Now back to the real world! I'm going to strongly suggest you make sure your paper/computer/screen is at least at an angle, at best right in front of your face. The least pressure you have to put on your neck (bending), the better it will be. If you do traditional art, I'll suggest actual art tables that you can adjust in size and angle. Here's mine.

To prevent any pain in my thumb I use one of those hold-helpers thingies kids use to hold their pens properly! It increases the size of the grip which prevents from holding the pen too tight (trust me, it's important). You can also find special tape to roll around your pen if you need an even bigger grip.

I wish I had a proper desk and chair because that will also be very important for your posture and health, but rn I'm not in my own flat so eh. What I'll encourage you to do instead are stretches and exercises BEFORE and AFTER an art session. Fingers, wrist, elbow, shoulder, back, neck. If you want to avoid medical costs (masseur, kine, osteopath) you need to take great care of your body. You can also find little self-massaging gadgets in sports shops to help with your muscles.

(Talking from experience there. I'm only 25 and I already had to undergo surgery on my writing wrist because I f*ed up. Your health is important!)

I'm aware most of those are extremely expensive to get (it took me half a year of intense working and savings just to get the IPad) but I've found that they were 100% worth it in the end. It's alright to get things little by little if you feel they are going to be important for you. I strongly suggest you invest in your health first though!

Once you have decided on your preferred setup, I guess the only thing left to do is train, experiment and have fun!

I think that's all? If you need more advices on setups or art or whatever, I'd be happy to help, my DMs are always open!

Also congrats on graduating highschool!

Kidge headcancanon n.4 (????)

Keith planned to ask Pidge out during a mission with the Blades, and obliusly needs some advice. But he couldn't call Hunk, Shiro or Lance so he asked to the only people that was with him (The generals golden trioooo)

Zethrid: "You should push her on the wall and kiss her!"

Ezor: "Call her cutie and flirt with her first!"

Keith: "Come on, girls! I won't do this!"

Ezor: "No!No! I know! Make her a present!"

Zethrid: "Just kiss her with your tongue!"

Keith: "I'm done with you two!"

Acxa: "What if you just ask her?"

You’re going to discover that conversations are best at 4 am. The heavier the eyelids, the sincerer the words. Those are the talks you’ll remember. It’s ok not to know the answer and silence is not awkward. It’s shared, so share it more often than not.

(via c0ming-to-terms)

So, so, true!!!

Tumblr I need your help

I am someone with a lot of dreams but I know I can't achieve them all :

So I wanted to create a website which would allow people to share the dreams they are not able to achieve (due to a disability, a lack of means...) (with no clue how to build a website)

So the second person could realize the first one's dreams and show their realisation.

I need honest advices or thought please it would be really nice, or just to reblog it to give more visibility