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Content Warning: The following post contains material that may be triggering for sexually entitled men. It contains strong and sometimes challenging depictions of male inadequacy and female suffering and is intended for mature audiences only.
Since the beginning of time, men have been programmed to seek out the most orgasms possible with the least amount of effort. Giving them 24/7 access to an electronic rolodex has been a complete nightmare for women. Men treat us like vending machines; put in the least amount of effort and expect sex to come out. Even the "decent" ones are human participation awards suffering from serious delusions of adequacy. And the rest have the communication skills of an alarm clock and the desirability of an onion peel. Their ambition far outweighs their dating skills and no amount of rejection will wake-them-the-fuck-up. As far as effort goes, men are still a notch above sticking their dick in a vacuum.
Her name was Samiya and she was brutally stabbed in the neck and chest before she was taken to a New York hospital with her sister Sanyia (who had been stabbed in the arm), where she did not survive her injuries from her neck and chest. These sisters were just at a store, and this predator FOLLOWED them after he was rejected and attacked them. He waited for them -and he's still not caught. This is just absolutely horrifying.
Misogyny fuels violence against women -and this very clear epidemic is killing young girls and women.
I cannot imagine the degree of entitlement you think you have to anyone's time and bodies- that anyone could hold that much disdain for rejection, and is okay with exerting power, control, and violence upon another person because YOUR ego is bruised. Fuck toxic masculinity and dismantle the patriarchy until it burns to the ground because I'm so sick of seeing this.
I wish all the best to the family and loved ones of Samiya. This young teenager should still be here. And I hope the man who did this gets apprehended and faces endless misery and misfortune in his lifetime.
my cat made sure i followed him to a closet in the garden where we store the food for stray cats, then made me put another bowl beside the two other ones full with dry food bc he didnt want to eat from the other ones while three other cats i dont know looked at him
“Men’s indifference to learning about contraception and to taking any responsibility for it is a theme that emerges from many reports of projects that have attempted, and failed, to reach and educate men. One of the most successful programs of contraception education for men, a Planned Parenthood project in Chicago, abandoned its attempts to reach men over the age of twenty-five when it was found that these men simply would not participate… Instead, the project targeted a younger group, and as part of its research the project conducted a survey of over a thousand men aged fifteen to nineteen:These young men were asked whether they agreed with the statement “It’s okay to tell a girl you love her so that you can have sex with her.” Seven out of ten agreed that it’s okay.They were asked whether they agreed with the statement “A guy should use birth control whenever possible.” Eight out of ten disagreed and said a guy should not.And when asked, “If I got a girl pregnant, I would want her to have an abortion,” nearly nine out of ten said no, they would not want her to have an abortion.These teenage men agreed: Deception to obtain coital access is okay; male irresponsibility in contraception is okay; but abortion is not okay—“because it’s wrong.””
— John Stoltenberg, “The Fetus as Penis: Men’s Self-Interest and Abortion Rights” from Refusing to be a Man: Essays on Sex and Justice (via reading-blog)
Straight dudes are their own worst enemies when it comes to getting laid.
Me, personally, I think its disgusting that people think any form of violence, if they were “provoked”, is okay.
People assaulting others isn’t okay, no matter what. You can’t say “slayyyy!” to a girl who punches a person in the face for trying to take a picture up her skirt- AND THEN immediately turn to the boy trying to protect himself from the pervy person feeling him up without consent and say “that’s what you deserve as a male”.
That’s not equality, or justice, or anything of the sort.
That’s just plain hate.
Have some shame and get it together. It’s not difficult and it shouldn’t be.