Pac,, How Can You Be More Independent Right Now?

pac,, how can you be more independent right now?

૮꒰ ˶´ ꒳ `˶꒱ა ♡ pile one

to be more independent, you might want to live in a more secluded way. isolation could work well for right now. sometimes it's better to be alone to learn things by yourself. let yourself enjoy things more. being independent means you're responsible for keeping yourself safe, healthy, and entertained. you could have an artistic hobby that you should focus on. work but also take care of yourself. remember to take breaks. keep yourself comfortable and don't overwork. remember to speak up for yourself, as well.

૮꒰ ˶- ༝ -˶꒱ა pile two

you have to let yourself sit in your emotions a bit more. you have a bad habit of detaching yourself from how you feel. this could be through dissociation. celebrate your own achievements more often. you could often rely on praise from other people. learn life skills like cooking. also find motivation. if you listen to a burning pile by mitski, then that's confirmation. work on your mental and emotional health before making any drastic changes, especially childhood trauma and being used emotionally in the past.

૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა pile three

let yourself be more playful. you could have had a rough childhood where you had to mature or develop too quickly. you should take care of yourself like you wish a parental/adult figure had before. let yourself ask questions and be curious. you could have some people around you that are toxic. probably friends. they give you bad advice and are overall not good for you. you feel inclined to listen to them and do what they want/say. don't be scared to decline their offers and ignore their advice. you also might want to try non-s3xual age/pet regression.

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˚ ༘ ♡ ˚ What odds are against you right now? ๋࣭ ⭑

🐰 pile one ୨୧⠀

the main things against you right now are things that you're causing yourself. you refuse to leave toxic situations and people and just leave yourself there as a way of emotionally harming/punishing yourself. you also don't acknowledge the good things you have/do. you only focus on the bad things and use bad situations and people to hurt yourself even more because you think you deserve it. you overwork and overthink yourself to the point that you don't even have the energy to try to convince yourself to stop sulking. try to be more optimistic and work less. there are more important things than working. you can't enjoy a fulfilling life if all you do is work through it without any time for enjoyment.

🥞 pile two ୨୧⠀

you have issues with letting go of the past. it's hard for you to focus and to manage your emotions. you could have bpd or bipolar disorder? either way, emotional management is difficult for you and small inconveniences trigger your anger issues easily. you have to learn how to manage that and not take the small things so seriously. you could have trauma that caused these issues,, especially if you have had father issues before or emotional abuse/reactionary abuse. you can seem immature sometimes because the way you react completely based off emotions. remember to take time to think about what actions you should take instead of what you want to do or feel like you have to do.

🍼 pile three ୨୧⠀

you're being held back because you always dedicate yourself too much to people who don't deserve it or ever give back to you. you're being taught the same lesson over and over without learning it. you can't keep giving people attention when they don't deserve it. you keep letting yourself go through heartbreak over and over again but don't ever notice the pattern. reflect more on what happened in the past (without stressing about it or being depressed about what happened) so you can notice what happened in all the situations. once you find the common factor,, it'll be easier for you to move forward. make sure to reflect more often and take care of yourself. you might have to do this through a diary/journal, photo book, any type of art, or shadow work.

⠀ʚ ︶ㅤ۫ㅤ۪ㅤthank you for readingㅤֺㅤ֢ㅤૂ

Hi for your pac, what you're doing right vs wrong, I chose pile 3 and you are on point. The last part is eye opening to be honest.

I'm so glad it helped you <3333

HELP. ME. why was your soulmate reading so accurate??? like im 98% sure i know who tf ur talking about this is crazy? i've been feeling a weird connection to this person and i guess this explains it, i never would've thought. THANK YOUU

aaa I'm so glad it was accurate for you <333 feel free to suggest any reading whenever (I don't charge or anything)

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pac,, how do they feel about you?

๋ *ੈ✩‧₊˚ pile one ๋࣭ ⭑

your person feels conflicted. they know they like you but theres something holding them back from taking action on their feelings. the thing holding them back is major because holding back when the lovers card represents how they feel is a lot to hold back. they're scared of things moving too fast and of messing up their chances with you. they care a lot about this and don't wanna lose their opportunity to be with you. their own fear is what's stopping them from coming up even though they want to. since they "can't" move forward with you,, they just watch you from a distance and kinda study you. they think about you a lot but the actual idea of taking action scares them. they could have a fear of rejection when it comes to you.

*ੈ✩‧₊˚ pile two ๋࣭ ⭑

they feel like you have a lot of duality to you/they have a lot of duality. they have a lot of feelings about you but some of them are negative feelings like worry that they need to let go of. it's kind of like they have mixed feelings about liking you. like they feel positive half of the time and negative the other half. this could definitely be new to them. they could be extremely independent seeming. this person could possibly be a woman or someone feminine. this person is probably very loyal. maybe not loyal in general,, but loyal to you at least. they are probably feeling possessive over you but don't show it. even though they can seem possessive,, it's like soft possessive. they still care about you and are safe to be around.

*ੈ✩‧₊˚ pile three ๋࣭ ⭑

they feel like you're kinda "bright"? like a ray of sunlight. you have a cheerful type of personality and way of going about things. if you feel like you're annoying because you get excited easily,, this reading could definitely be for you. you could be extroverted or a class clown type of person. they like your sense of humor. you seem resourceful and original. like you can make people happy out of thin air. they or you could have gone through a lot before in the past and worked your/their way up. it seems like they just want to talk about you instead. they could be reclusive or shy. they might sit in the back of places or something like that where they aren't noticed much. they try to use logic with love more than their actual feelings,, which explains why there wasn't much about their actual feelings.

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