KIMMY'S DIGITAL DIARY

KIMMY'S DIGITAL DIARY

first week of march

As the sun sticks around a little longer each day, and the birds serenade the world, there's a sense of awakening. The ice is melting, both literally and metaphorically, bringing in a season of renewal. It just feels like the perfect time to plant seeds for success. 🌼🌸☀️

february was hectic. it was exhausting, and it took extra strength and belief in myself to stay on track.

there was tooons of low energy days but i made workarounds. i altered my schedules on my low energy days to activities that wouldn't further exhaust me and invigorate me instead.

the one thing that kept me grounded was daily prayer, and gratitude. on the hardest days, find one thing that went right and hold onto that as your hope for the day.

it might be a terrible day but it's not a terrible life, if i have these things to be grateful for.

subliminal of the week

what's in?

subliminals for success

spontaneous acts of kindness

exploring new hobbies for joy, not perfection

setting realistic and achievable goals

surrounding yourself with uplifting people

mindful breathing exercises

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what's out?

seeking validation from others

overcommitting and feeling overwhelmed

dwelling on past mistakes

negative self-talk and self-criticism

engaging in toxic relationships

affirmations for the week

I am a source of positivity and kindness, spreading joy through spontaneous acts of kindness each day.

My goals are realistic and achievable, and I celebrate progress over perfection. I embrace the joy of exploring new hobbies for personal fulfillment, not external validation.

I surround myself with uplifting people who support my journey, and I release toxic relationships that hinder my growth. I am a beacon of positivity and choose mindful breathing to center myself in moments of stress.

my favorite affordable makeup products ☆

☆ nyx butter gloss (vanilla cream pie, ginger snap) - $5.00

☆ wet n wild megaslicks lipgloss (sweet glaze, crushed grapes) - $1.98

☆ nyx sweet cheeks soft cheek tint (baby doll, showgirl) - $9.75

☆ elf liquid metallic eyeshadow (moon, comet) - $5.00

☆ i heart revolution chocolate eye palette - $7.50 (and they actually smell like chocolate! yum!!!)

goals for march:

1. drink more water

2. finish the bell jar

3. work on sleep schedule

4. some type of exercise daily

5. be mindful of nutrition

Survival 101 :

Buckle up your seatbelt darling because this is going to be triggering and one hell of a ride. Don't expect mushy from me. Might do it when tapped in my soft girl era but today I feel like a Villain.

1) Keep your mouth shut where you don't hold the power. No power no expressed opinions that can put you in trouble.

2) Learn manipulation and seduction skills. This will help you to detect when someone is trying to manipulate and seduce you. Saves a lot of drama and heartache.

3) Fight back strategically. We don't want to lose a job, a degree certificate, a bruise on your body,etc depending on your situation.

4) Facts over emotions. Always.

5) 90% of older men are creepy. Speaking from experience here. Play with them by ear. Get what you want by being polite and respectful but if they try to harass you or take advantage we turn Medusa on them or if you are not in a position to fight and walk out safe just play cutesy and shy and dumb. Ask him what he means and do not take a word said by him seriously. Dodge his advances like your life depends on it until you get an opening to run for the hills.

6) Snap out of delusions and pay attention to reality. People are not what you make them out to be they are what they show you. Stop making excuses for them.

7) Anxiety can be crippling. Panic attacks are the worst but no matter what happens try your level best to never show them publicly. Men are vultures and vulnerable women are easy prey for men.

8) That one friend who is all sweet to you and is your bff but anything positive happens in your life and suddenly starts becoming passive aggressive. Not your friend. Don't share any secrets. Best to be kept as an acquaintance.

9) Develop sarcasm and don't be afraid to put self entitled bitches and bastards in their place. Better being called a 'Mean Girl' over a 'Doormat'.

10) Bully back the bullies. It's 2024 sweetie we don't wait for an opportunity for revenge we fucking create it.

11) No matter how tough your life is going everyone shouldn't be getting a broadcast about it. At least not by your own mouth. Try to act as put together as you can.

12) Kindness is virtue but being apathetic saves you. Don't be the fool who bleeds through the stabs of the same knives again and again. "Because I can't see them in pain. I have a heart." Babygirl you have a life too. All that emotional stress is going to result in some serious problems in the upcoming years.

13) Learn when to quit. The most emotionally intelligent people I know are great quitters. They know when it's the end of an era.

14) Never disclose your family issues to outsiders. Until and unless a person has proved their loyalty to you year after year only those selected one or two people should know your domestic issues. Anyone else knowing it is like having a good gossip for tea time.

15) Lastly, there are no fucking saviours in real life. You are your own saviour.

Everything I want exists and I will have it all. My Father is literally God. There's nothing He won't do for me, His beloved.